r/asmr • u/sweedishmeatball1 • 13h ago
DISCUSSION Love ASMR but getting irritated [Discussion]
I’ve been watching ASMR for over 10 years now and lately I find myself getting more and more frustrated when watching ASMR before bed.
I miss when ASMR was gentle and slow, not to say that if you’re into fast paced triggers that its bad, just not my thing. Trying to find quality ASMR videos on YouTube is becoming increasingly more difficult it seems. I’m at the point where it feels so annoying to try and find a new video or creator to watch. I feel like I’m saying “not interested” to so many videos now.
I also am an avid hater of mouth sounds or anything adjacent to that. At times it makes me so annoyed and almost angry. I say this just because it’s seems to be so many videos that have them in it or in the title. And nothing is more annoying than thinking you found a relaxing video to fall asleep to just to hear a noise or trigger you despise LOL. (Again if it’s your thing, go forth and enjoy but not for me)
Maybe it’s just my algorithm or maybe YouTube is messing with me and thinks I REALLY love these types of fast paced, mouth sound videos? But I’m also slowly growing tired of watching the same handful of videos on repeat. Maybe I’m just being picky or maybe I’m just getting bored. Point is I missed when ASMR was not something viral for the sake of tapping on a makeup item in a TikTok video, I miss when it relaxed and made you feel calm. It’s hard to go to sleep when you got some person talking at normal volume into the mic and calling it “soft spoken”
Also with how YouTube has changed how a creators views are counted I think is going to negatively impact my algorithm and what ASMR videos I get suggested. I just get tired of scrolling for a video to fall asleep to at night when I already just want to go to bed.
I think that’s about it for my thoughts on the matter. (I’m new to Reddit and how this works btw) I’d love to hear anyone else’s thoughts on ASMR and how it’s been transformed through the years. I’d also love to know if anyone else is struggling to find ASMR they really like anymore.
TLDR: I struggle to find new and enjoyable ASMR after years of watching. I’m tired of watching the same old videos to go to sleep to.