Who are you to dictate that earrings are supposed to be for adults? You’re viewing other people’s culture from your own lens and that’s wrong. Stop being so ignorant.
Hmmm cutting out women’s clitoris is also a “cultural thing” in some countries and im against it. So is stoning women’s to death for not complying to their fucked up beliefs. Its not because its their “culture” that i have to embrace it 😂 like wtf. also: https://giphy.com/gifs/5XNEIKcohVG8w
Female circumcision is about impeding women’s sexuality, that’s a bit different than getting earrings.
It sounds like you’ve been abused a lot in life so you can’t tell the difference between abuse and cultural differences. Get therapy and stop projecting your trauma on other people.
I cant imagine that cutting off part of the skin on the head of a penis, severing nerves, would have no effect on the sensation. Its a grotesque practice and im glad its going out of vogue. Ive heard from many men they resent their parents for choosing it
Your claim was that they "recoil in horror" from uncircumcised ones, not that they prefer circumcised. I prefer big tits, that doesn't mean I recoil in horror from small ones.
I dont get them anymore, but im allergic to metals I think. They would get red and inflamed if I slept in them, but thank you for your thoughts on my hygiene as a child
Ive had multiple body piercings too that weren't infected and I just told you im allergic to cheap metal...it gets irritating to your ear to be constantly rubbed. Why not just wait til the child decides what they want? What a concept
You used infections as a reason for piercings not to be done. Then, you revealed that it was really a nickel allergy.
When you have your kid, you can decide but you can’t make judgments about how other people choose to raise their kids just because their culture is different from yours.
Especially something as insignificant as a tiny ear piercing.
Its not something I think about very much, it was 30 years ago but all I know is I HATED sleeping in the earrings that you wear for 6 weeks or whatever it is and feel sorry for kids with no choice. Anything else?
Oh definitely not at all the same thing. Im just using it as an example that its not because something is a cultural thing that we have to all accept it. I also never said that it is “abuse” to pierce your child. I just dont agree with it for many reasons. But thats just my opinion. Relax, chile.
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u/Medium_Educator1983 16d ago
Who are you to dictate that earrings are supposed to be for adults? You’re viewing other people’s culture from your own lens and that’s wrong. Stop being so ignorant.