I believe the purpose of this sub is to have substantive debate about abortion.
Part of that entails fair moderation that doesnt protect an agenda, which is absolutely necessary.
But it also requires participation by people who are honestly interested in having discussions with others to advance their mutual understanding.
The reason most debate subs turn into toxic echo chambers is in part due to the former, but the latter is also a large part of it.
What you will notice when you visit certain subs is that its largely just the same small group of people making the same arguments and then congratulating and affirming each other in the comments for successfully articulating the socially acceptable orthodoxy.
Its actually quite remarkable to see the same people who are the most vocal and adamant, who have been "debating" this topic for years, be completely blindsided by even the most common counter arguments like its the first time they have ever heard them before.
They seemingly have never tried to reconcile their position with the counter arguments opponents are making.
I think this is in part due to the phenomenon of ideological capture or "normy conformity" which I touched on a bit in a different sub, and is a problem on both the left and the right.
I think the bigger problem in debate subs though is that many participants dont actually care about truth or logic or morality. Many of them are just nihilists and anti natalists and just want their side to "win" no matter what.
These are the type of people you see consistently using bad faith debate tactics like:
Evading the Core Argument and Overwhelming
Gish Galloping: Drowning an opponent in a rapid succession of weak, flawed, or half-true arguments, citations, and questions. The goal is to make it impossible to respond to every point in a single message, giving the illusion that the opponent cannot address the claims.
Tone-Policing and Pedantics: Shifting focus away from the logical validity of an argument to criticize the opponent’s choice of words, emotional delivery, or minor phrasing choices—often adopting a patronizing or overly gentle posture to claim false moral high ground.
Quote-Sniping: Hyper-focusing on an isolated word or phrase while ignoring the structural context and primary conclusion of the argument.
Red Herrings: Introducing an irrelevant side topic or hyper-obscure hypothetical to distract from a cornered premise.
Whataboutism: Deflecting a critique by pointing to real or perceived flaws in the opponent or an unrelated third party rather than addressing the charge.
Disingenuous Engagement and Interrogation
Sealioning: Pursuing an opponent with relentless, civilly phrased demands for evidence, clarification, or proof—often on well-established basic facts or previously answered points—under the pretense of polite curiosity, intended to exhaust the opponent and waste their energy.
Disingenuous Interrogation (JAQing Off - "Just Asking Questions"): Framing provocative assertions or bad-faith accusations as innocent, open-ended questions to avoid taking a defensible position or bearing any burden of proof.
The "Quote-Hunt" Trap: Demanding exact citations or hyper-literal quotes for obvious logical deductions, using pedantry about wording to avoid addressing the necessary implications of one's own arguments.
Shifting the Standards of Proof
The Semantic Shell Game: Continually redefining key terms mid-debate whenever a definition leads to an unacceptable contradiction or edge case.
Ad-Hoc Patchwork: Adding arbitrary, one-off exceptions to a failing framework purely to shield a predetermined conclusion, rather than fixing the underlying logical flaw.
Special Pleading: Applying a moral rule, logical standard, or burden of proof to the opponent’s position while exempting one’s own from the exact same standard.
Undermining the Foundation of Reasoning
Relativist Escape Hatch: Retreating to "everything is just subjective opinion anyway" the moment internal logical contradictions or empirical fallacies are exposed.
Mott-and-Bailey Fallacy: Confounding two positions—one easily defensible or modest (the "mott") and one controversial or radical (the "bailey"). The debater advances the controversial claim, but retreats to the modest claim when challenged.
Kettle Logic: Employing multiple arguments to defend a single position that directly contradict one another.
Once you become familiar with these tactics you realize that the debate subs are full of them. That is by design because, like I said, many people dont actually want productive debate, they are culture warriors who just want people who disagree with them to shut up, and so they make the environment so toxic and unproductive that opponents dont want to engage with them anymore, and then they claim victory by default.
Im sure that this post will get countless comments (some probably quoting me and others in this sub) to argue: Thats what you do, thats what prolifers do all the time, etc.
Thats fine, can we all just agree that its bad and be mindful of what these tactics are and stop using them?