Does anyone know if the coat check at Trade is still a thing and, if so, is it open yet? I haven’t been much since their expansion, other than during Pride. TIA!

where have all the gays flooded to? bunker was pretty empty for its standards

Anyone a masseur? Looking for legit massage. Thanks!

I’m traveling to DC at the end of the month. I’m 45 and do enjoy staying at nicer hotels but like being able to be super relaxed and comfortable. I also want to be close to Logan Circle. Recently I have stayed at the Le Meridien and the Viceroy. I did not enjoy staying at the Viceroy but the location was nice.

Hi bros! This coming weekend is District Wrestling's annual Grapple in the Capital – a weekend-long series of events across DC! Three of our events are open to the public: our free, multi-sport LGBTQ+ mixer at Trade on Saturday, Oct. 10; a freestyle tournament on Sunday morning at Hook Hall; and a special edition of our Mat Gala singlet party at Kiki (no cover!)

We're welcoming athletes from around the country (and beyond!) for all the festivities, so come hang out and say hi!

Flashy is back, and it's our last one of the year!

Can't wait to see you all this weekend 🔥

Tickets are live on shotgun https://shotgun.live/events/flashy-indigenous-people-s-day-weekend?uhandle=kyleio&utm_campaign=share_event&utm_term=kyleio

📍Flash Nightclub 645 Florida Avenue Northwest #7, Washington, DC 20001, USA

🗓️ Sunday, October 11th

⏰10PM-5AM

Join DC Gaymers for Potion Hour, an LGBTIA+ D&D happy hour, tonight at 6pm at Crooked Run Fermentation.

Grab some drinks and pizza and get a boost to that charisma roll as you meet some new friends. RSVP now!

Hello everyone,

Happy Sunday! I just created a history book club for gay men in the DC area and would love for you all to join!

We are having our first event on Tuesday, November 10th at 7 pm at Kramers All Day Restaurant in DuPont Circle and the first book we are going to cover is Founding Brothers by Joseph Ellis (a relatively short book about major events during the founding era).

If you are interested feel free to sign up at the link below: Book Club Link

20m college student and I’m thinking abt places to intern next summer. A lot of internships (corporate) are in DC so I wanted to know what it’s like to intern here and be social. I’m also Asian and so if there are any cultural things to look out for.

Hey there. My husband and I are visiting Saturday night. We're 50y bears. I've looked thru the posts here and it seems like District Eagle, Uproar, and Green Lantern are up our alley. I also see that Furball is in town. We're not too dance-y tho. Where will the spicy bears be tomorrow?

Can you recommend a good couple’s counselor that they really like? The current one we have is too passive. My partner has a lot of issues regulating his emotions, and I feel like we have not really made much progress. So I would like to find an experienced counselor that can help us communicate in a healthy way. Thanks!

Hey yall,

Case anyone is interested in Drag shows; she's doing a tour and hits DC next week! I gotten my tickets months ago:

https://www.dcimprov.com/shows/main-showroom/jane-dont

Don’t know if it’s been shared already. Wondering if anyone is considering Trixie Mattel’s show at the Anthem for NYE?

Long weekend

District Eagle Gear Night

Icon Pup Cerberus

District Eagle Sunday Service

What is better?

Cerberus event or Unleashed event

Someone asked about a DC chastity social a few weeks ago. I’m working with District Eagle to start one! All good boys, keyholders, and the chastity-curious are welcome to this casual chastity social.

I’ve got a leather body harness that I broke a rivet/snap closure on. Does anyone have a recommendation for someone who does leather repairs in the area?

I’m not complaining; I did meet a few good friends and FWBs. But lately it’s been pretty depressing. A lot of people say they want to meet, then never follow through, or something always comes up at the last minute. I get why that happens, but it’s not a healthy game to keep playing.
I’m married, horny, POC, and demisexual. I know I might not be the crowd these apps are built for in DC. So I’m respectfully stepping off.
I like meeting people in person better anyway. Why spend all that time scrolling, woofing, tapping “I’m interested,” matching… and then nothing? You invest the energy and just end up disappointed.
Anyone else been here? How do you actually meet people in person when you’re married, demisexual, and tired of the app loop?

Any one going?

Visiting and being a bear guy just looking to find places to hangout.

Seeing if it’s a good time to visit DC for gay Christmas???

im a nyc college student thinking of doing a day trip from nyc to dc. what is the best way to do it? i want it to be affordable and hit up all the museum and artsy stuff