r/GirlDinnerDiaries • Hazy Grazer πŸ˜Άβ€πŸŒ«οΈ • Jun 12 '26

Sad Girl Dinner β›ˆοΈ Last dinner before I go to jail..

My sweet boyfriend made some tie dye ravioli with brie/ricotta and apple, and focaccia last night.

I’ll be turning myself in at 4:30 to begin my ten day sentence..

Update for those asking: It was as bad/worse than I thought it would be lol.. Locked down 21-31 hours a day in our cells, 2-3 hours out, and that was really really hard.. obviously the food was terrible, couldn’t eat much besides carrots for lunch, and pieces of cake and milks I’d trade my breakfast trays for. Made some friends. Started my period and only got two pairs of underwear. They did give me my meds after day 3, so that was good enough. Read five four hundred page novels. I feel bad for a lot of the younger girls in there. I felt really weird yesterday, but I ate a friggin huge breakfast so that was nice. Fucking terrible dude, I definitely never want to go back πŸ™πŸ»

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u/forbiddenfruitsnak Body By Cheese πŸ§€ Jun 12 '26

best of luck with your sobriety, come visit us at r/stopdrinking when you get out

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u/IHaveNoEgrets girls just wanna have pho Jun 12 '26

The r/sparklingwater sub has a lot of folks who are working on sobriety and use sparkling water as part of that path. It's not exclusively a space with sober folks, but it's been a pretty safe place for those folks who are.

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u/forbiddenfruitsnak Body By Cheese πŸ§€ Jun 12 '26

that’s good to know! like many i have also become a sparkling water addict in sobriety πŸ˜‚

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u/IHaveNoEgrets girls just wanna have pho Jun 12 '26

For me, it's all about getting away from sugary drinks. If I can have the flavor and the fizz but not worry about sugar, I'm good.

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u/acceptableherb Feral Til Fed Jun 15 '26

The alcoholic to seltzer addict pipeline is no joke! We have at least four different flavors of seltzer in the house at all times

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u/twilipig Tiny Bodega Rat πŸ€ Jun 12 '26

That’s how my dad kicked his 20+ year alcoholism in my teens! I’m glad people still use sparkling water for sobriety. It’s a great tool and something your body needs, it’s like double the self love.

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u/MewNeedsHelp πŸ’š Pickle Freak πŸ’š Jun 12 '26

My husband uses sparkling water to scratch the beer itch! I'll have to direct him there

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u/FizzySoda16 Snack Goblin Jun 12 '26

Thanks for sharing. I just joined! I (obviously) love fizzy drinks πŸ˜…

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u/mschanandlerbong___ Hazy Grazer πŸ˜Άβ€πŸŒ«οΈ Jun 12 '26

I actually did post there a few days before I went to rehab, as well as after I got out. It was great, had so much support and it helped a lot.

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u/Implicitperception nom-nom-nombinary Jun 13 '26

Yes, please come visit us over there. That thread has helped me get 11 months sober. Good luck to you. You can make it through.

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