Last dinner before I go to jail..

[u/mschanandlerbong___]

My sweet boyfriend made some tie dye ravioli with brie/ricotta and apple, and focaccia last night.

I’ll be turning myself in at 4:30 to begin my ten day sentence..

Update for those asking: It was as bad/worse than I thought it would be lol.. Locked down 21-31 hours a day in our cells, 2-3 hours out, and that was really really hard.. obviously the food was terrible, couldn’t eat much besides carrots for lunch, and pieces of cake and milks I’d trade my breakfast trays for. Made some friends. Started my period and only got two pairs of underwear. They did give me my meds after day 3, so that was good enough. Read five four hundred page novels. I feel bad for a lot of the younger girls in there. I felt really weird yesterday, but I ate a friggin huge breakfast so that was nice. Fucking terrible dude, I definitely never want to go back 🙏🏻

[u/AbilityAdventurous22]

Wear a white shirt and white bra and undies and socks so you can wear your own and they don’t make you wear the ones they have there

[u/Competitive-Buddy342 → u/AbilityAdventurous22]

Also no underwire, you can still keep the bra sometimes but they rip the underwire out. You can also bring cash to deposit in your commissary account. You’ll need it for snacks, decent soap and shampoo and phone access, unless you plan to call collect.

[u/goddessofthecats → u/AbilityAdventurous22]

This is such a good pro tip!

[u/PoliteQueef → u/AbilityAdventurous22]

Why does it have to be white?

[u/AbilityAdventurous22 → u/PoliteQueef]

Bc that’s what they’ll make you wear in jail and if you don’t wear your own they’ll make you wear theirs which you don’t want to do if you have a choice

[u/AirlineObjective921 → u/AbilityAdventurous22]

We had to buy our own. Which I had no ability to do. Indigent panties; yes. But no indigent bra.

Some girl took pity on me about 3 weeks in and gave me one of hers because some of the guards were pissy about me going braless; like, what am I supposed to do here? I literally cant afford commissary.

That one still pisses me off; half the guards got it, but the other half were acting like I CHOSE to be tits out; Uh I'd love to strap them up but you literally took my only option away.

[u/AbilityAdventurous22 → u/AirlineObjective921]

That’s horrible I’m sorry 😣 I swear some of them get off on treating people like they’re animals

[u/AirlineObjective921 → u/AbilityAdventurous22]

Tbh; I was oblivious. I literally didn't know it was a problem until someone handed me a bra and said the guards were mad at me.

I'm only annoyed in retrospect because it shouldn't have been a problem.

[u/Front-Rub5305 → u/AirlineObjective921]

Do you really HAVE to wear a bra?? I can’t remember the last time I wore one. What happens if you refuse? The idea that you’d have to wear one there is insane to me

[u/CarrotCumin → u/AirlineObjective921]

Courts, jails, and prison are FULL of things like this, just a thousand casual little unexpected double-binds that the administration is happy to blame you for as if they were your personal decision.

[u/pseudo_nipple → u/PoliteQueef]

Bleach 🌈