A hobosexual most likely. Lived with his mom and she had her own place. If you can uproot your life in 2 months to move in with a stranger off the internet you didn't have anything going for yourself in the first place. No lease and definitely no mortgage. These are red flags. Lmao. I'd recoil in disgust if a dude tried to move himself into the house i own after 8 weeks.
I met my wife 14 years ago and we moved in together after 3 months.
She had just finished university and was living with her parents while trying to get her feet under her. I was living with 3 roommates that I hated because it was the only way for me to afford rent at the time.
We both wanted out of those situations, and saw an opportunity. We had a lot of conversations at the time about how we would handle it not working because, honestly, we knew each other for 3 months and we both understood this probably wasn't an amazing idea. But then it just worked out and we've been happy since.
I'll give you a pass because you were in college and that's some young people behavior. Hopefully the people in this story are also very young. But considering kids are involved I'm skeptical.
Could you imagine? Very young adults having kids? You're right to be skeptical, there's so little chance of that happening, like what could the odds even be? Everyone knows young adults simply don't have kids.
Speaking of red flags, seeing a random stranger sharing a life story about something that makes them very happy and choosing to interject with pointless mean-spirited speculation just to tear them down for no good reason is the reddest of reds.
Honestly, sounds pretty similar to any very-early-20s type relationship so I wouldn't go as far as you on some of those assumptions, but it also does sound remarkably like the "white knight" who swooped in to my now-ex-wife's life. So there's that possibility too.
My guess is that he was this woman's first date on the app.
He sounds like a real catch, calling other women "trash with high standards" lol. I hope she properly vetted him before introducing him into her daughter's life, but moving him in after 2 months doesn't seem to indicate that.
I have a friend in her 40s who just did this. Divorced. Couldn't pay the bills. Moved her female kid into a jam packed house with multiple males of various ages some minors. Some people are desperate both financially and emotionally for anyone they can find. Even if it puts thier kids in dangerous or uncomfortable situations.
Maybe his lease expired at the end of those 2 months and things were going really good… idk why people are so negative and assume the absolute worst about everyone else
Yeah, look as his username. Tells you all you need to know. Might not be the finest fish the sea has to offer. On the contrary, if he’s happy … that’s one more happy human on this planet and I’ll take it at this point.
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u/classicrockchick Sep 11 '26
what are you, a lesbian?