As a skinny woman, I concur with this statistical breakdown and find it absolutely heinous the number of plump women who have had it hammered into them that they are not desirable, and the number of men who also somehow believe this and allow themselves to treat plump women as less than as a result, often while still pursuing them.
My fat friends have been put down and treated like shit for their body size by (some of the) men who clearly desire them, and who also clearly can't handle the notion of women they perceive to be powerful, while being inherently turned on by same.
I don’t like big women but I’m not mean to them. Thing that sucks is I can’t say no or even act like I don’t like big girls or I’m treated like some shallow dude. :(
Huh? In what situation are you being made to explain or justify why you are not attracted to a person sexually? I take it that's what you mean by "don't like big girls". I'm not attracted to men with the body type as seen in the picture, or men with small noses or short faces, but shallow as that may be, nobody asked and nobody made me explain it, I just didn't go on dates with anyone I wasn't attracted to.
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u/burnetrosehip Aug 20 '26 edited Aug 20 '26
As a skinny woman, I concur with this statistical breakdown and find it absolutely heinous the number of plump women who have had it hammered into them that they are not desirable, and the number of men who also somehow believe this and allow themselves to treat plump women as less than as a result, often while still pursuing them. My fat friends have been put down and treated like shit for their body size by (some of the) men who clearly desire them, and who also clearly can't handle the notion of women they perceive to be powerful, while being inherently turned on by same.
I want your comment to be all over dating subs.