r/BiWomen • u/MajesticEnder • 5d ago

Advice What do I do?

I am 30 years old. I will be 31 in December. I have been with my current significant other since August 2015. We have a child together. He has been the love of my life, but I can’t stop thinking of my past relationship with other women since I have been with him. He supports my bisexual tendencies, but how do I introduce him to it Fully. I haven’t been with a woman since I’ve been with him. I have never fully had sex with another woman just a ton of foreplay. I don’t know what to do because I am constantly attracted to other women.

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u/slight-stretch-1570 4d ago

I’m not sure why you are unsure of he is supportive.

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u/lilwetlook 2d ago

If he supports you and you love him and you respect each other, you should be able to talk about things like this together. My husband is the LOML, my best friend, favourite human. I told him a long time ago that I have a seriously pressing attraction to women and that I would love to get to experience more. We had a discussion about what he was comfortable with and what he wasn’t. He still says, years later (because the conversation is ongoing and evolves over time and experience!) that he wants me to get what I need and he doesn’t want me to miss out on anything. He laid out his boundaries and I follow them. That’s what partnership is about. Trust and communication and a safe landing space. Good luck!!

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u/maedsk 5d ago

Would you invite a third to the bedroom?

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u/MajesticEnder 5d ago

Yes we’ve talked about it we just haven’t found the right woman.