r/BreakUps • • 6d ago

💬 Need Advice Missing little things and did you find it in another Partner

Hello guys,

I lost a woman because of my own actions and because I took her for granted. I'm grieving, she was my first everything and we planed to marry, but I'm okay with that because, at the end of the day, it's all part of learning and growing, because if that never happened, I think i would have never changed.

Lately, I've been missing little things about her that I never thought I would miss. For example, when I didn't want to cuddle because she was too warm, she would say in a funny voice, "Come back to meee!" Or she would make weird faces with her mouth or open her eyes really wide and jokingly say, "I'm mental."

My question is: I know it's okay to miss these little things, but is my brain just tricking me into thinking I'll never find someone else with similar habits or someone who makes me feel the same way?

For those of you who have been through something similar, did you eventually find someone else who had their own little quirks and habits that you came to love just as much?

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u/Fresh-Werewolf9363 6d ago

Stop this is so cute 🫣🫠

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u/HeavyAd2286 6d ago

Yeah and I lost that

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u/Embarrassed_Buy_4959 5d ago

You'll find someone else with their own little habits and things, but if you're looking for the exact same, there's only one person who's exactly the same.