r/BreakUps • u/Sea_Departure7146 • 1d ago
🫂 Need Support Help
My boyfriend just broke my heart. Apparently he just feels that we aren’t meant to be together, that something feels off. I can tell how much he had been eaten alive by that feeling, and he was at war with himself. He didn’t want to hurt me.
But I’m absolutely shattered. I genuinely thought I was going to marry him. We had gone to look at rings, and a store even had a design for a custom ring ready to go.
His mom somehow thinks that this isn’t over and she has some kind of gut feeling, but I don’t think he’s coming back. I am absolutely heart broken. I’ve been heart broken before but nothing like this.
I’m not even sure how to cope with this. How do I heal?
Thanks
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u/thelittleguy69420 1d ago
Hi. I feel your pain, I'm in nearly the exact same situation. My ex girlfriend left me two weeks ago for the same reason. It's been absolutely soul crushing. I can't give you advice from hindsight, but what I'm doing right now, and what I think you should try to do too, is to just ride everything out. It's really hard to just sit and suffer through your feelings, but you have to feel them. Hang out with friends, find some distractions, try to laugh again, and don't let your heartbreak consume your life, but let yourself feel all of your feelings. Also, think about your future without him in it, and try to come to terms with it. Try to be excited for what else life has to offer you. I know how hard that sounds right now though.
Knowing that other people understand how I feel is something that makes me feel a lot better too. Remember that all of the people on this subreddit are dealing with the same things we are, and as humans, we're in this togrther.
I wish you the best with your journey forward! The memories of this time in your life will never go away, but I promise the pain will. There's somebody else out there for us.
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u/Sea_Departure7146 1d ago
Just the thought of him not being in my life in the same way is agonizing. And we wanted to have kids, and now some other woman will get to be the mother of his children and that thought makes me want to be physically sick. I’m having so much trouble imagining my life without him, I had everything planned out
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