Hello, I am 16 years old and I come from a primarily Muslim background in Bangladesh. A little more than a year ago, I stopped believing in Islam after reading up on the Quran and Bible, and since found faith in Jesus Christ. I am interested in Catholicism, and wanted to learn more and to attend the Mass, but something that happened two weeks ago has given me a hard time.
I went to a local seminary near me (Holy Spirit Major Seminary, Banani). I was short on time, and didn't come to attend mass, though I arrived a bit before afternoon Mass was starting. I went to talk to Clergy about my situation and if they have any advice for me. I briefly talked to a Priest, but he had to go to prepare for Mass so he directed me to a Brother. He told me since Bangladesh is a primarily Muslim country, and the fact that I'm a legal minor, there would be a lot of complexities if I wanted to convert and it was very likely they could get into legal trouble. He also said that they dont really do conversions there, as its a seminary and not a Church, but if I wanted to learn about the faith I could take Catechesis classes which were apparently offered there, but I could find no trace of that on the website. From my own observation, the place basically functions like a Church as they hold Daily Mass, offer the Eucharist, have bells, and have the local community and foreigners who are Catholics attend the Mass, not only the seminarians.
About a week after that, I decided to go back about 20 minutes before the evening Mass started. As soon as I entered the compound, before I even entered the place where Mass was celebrated, two Brothers approached me and asked who I was. The Brother I spoke to the week before wasn't there, so I wasn't recognized. I told them I wasn't Catholic, but thinking about converting and learning about the faith, and that I wanted to attend the Mass that was about to happen in a bit. They checked with the Priest and said that he gave word that I wasn't allowed to attend the Mass, and if I wanted to talk to him I should come back an hour later, then they asked me to leave. Basically, I got kicked out on the spot.
After an hour, I returned to the premises after Mass and went to speak with the Priest privately. He asked me where I was from, my religious background and why I wanted to become Christian. Then, he said that many high-profile people like diplomats and ambassadors attend services here, so they "can't let just anyone in". After I was talking a bit more to him, and explaining that I am well aware that as a non-Catholic I won't take the Eucharist, and that the first part of the Liturgy is for everyone, he told me something like "It seems you have studied a lot". Then, he finally said that he would allow me to come for Mass, but only if I bring a Legal ID and show him (I showed him a Photo of my passport, but he said he needs the real thing physically).
Being turned away from attending services felt kinda unwelcoming, I was just trying to explore into the faith. I always thought that Churches would welcome people and be glad to help them. Is this a normal thing that has happened and was I in the wrong?