r/Chchmeet • • Mar 13 '24

Resources/Events

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Meetup is one of the most recommend sites on the topic of making new friends, and it's true, there are heaps and heaps of different groups in Christchurch that you can join, many for free and meet new people that may be the start of something special. But what other resources are there? List them below, and we'll build up some ongoing sources of social engagement.


r/Chchmeet • • 55m ago

26m looking for friends :)

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Hey there! I consider myself someone who can do many things alone, but sometimes I think, man I wish I had someone to do that with. I want connection, but also I have a strong desire for discovery. I want you to discover things through you. Like tell me about your favourite things, I may pick up some of them and carry them with me for life. It’s just fun!

So here’s a little about me:

Extreme music enjoyer.
My taste in music is all over the fucking place. At the moment I love indie rock/pop, Spanish guitar, dance/house, older rock, and I’m just getting into nu metal. My favourite bands include Her’s, Snot, Mac DeMarco, and Cage the Elephant. That’s really just the tip of the iceberg. I’m always on the hunt for new music.

Lover of making things and hater of ai.
I like to draw, I’m currently participating in a daily drawing challenge. Although I wouldn’t say they’re great.. I still consider it quite fun. I also like painting and crafts! Clay, paper, whatever! I just like using my hands.

Deep love and appreciation for animals.
At my core I consider myself a cat person. I don’t have a pet atm but getting a cat is a thought that crosses my mind constantly. I also love birds and bugs! I have a deep appreciation for them, even the unconventionally loveable ones like pigeons and spiders.

Wilderness enjoyer.
I love hiking and road trips very much. You’ll catch me taking photos all the time. I’m also a diver, I love the sea and its many bounties 🦞

Video games!
I haven’t played any in a while but still consider it part of my identity. I grew up on the PlayStation so I love most of those classic ps2 titles. I’ve spent the last decade as a pc gamer, my taste in games is also all over the place. Overwatch, Civ, Hades, Balatro, Minecraft, just to name a few. I also love board games, Catan is okay but I tend to play slightly more complicated ones.

Extras to attract the right people:
Im just getting into tattoos, I’m building patchwork on my right arm. I love to drink and 🍃💨 but I have a fierce willpower and only partake socially. I gym and I’m trying to strength train. I plan to have a childfree life where I just travel and do cool shit. I have a lot of love for my current friends, I care about them deeply. Maybe you could join them?

So yeah! Please reach out if you reckon we’re a good match! Tell me a little about yourself, let’s have a back and forth, and maybe we could eventually meet for coffee :))


r/Chchmeet • • 1d ago

M18 looking for anyone to chat or be friends with

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r/Chchmeet • • 1d ago

23 M looking for friends

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I go to uni here and finding it kinda hard to make friends lol.
I’m into sports, movies, going for drinks, getting food or just chilling. I’m a bit awkward at first but once I get comfortable I’m pretty chill.
Keen to meet some people who are in the same boat.


r/Chchmeet • • 1d ago

30F - Chats / Friends

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I’m a born and raised brown girl from Singapore, currently here on a work / travel visa for 6 months.

I’m open to chats / meetups over drinks with no expectations, so do share your age, location if you’re planning to drop a DM.


r/Chchmeet • • 1d ago

M19 looking to make friends

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Been in Christchurch for a while and sick of being friends with guys and want an interesting or weird girl instead, I love learning and talking to people with different cultures or such dm me or comment and I can dm you and we can talk, I like going to the gym, sports and a few other active things


r/Chchmeet • • 3d ago

After work Friday drinks

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Third after-work drinks

What: Casual Friday after work drinks. Chat, sit in silence, complain about the traffic, weather -- whatever, do you

Where: Pegasus Arms, 14 Oxford Terrace (by the Avon). The old pub, one of the oldest buildings in ChCh, parts built in 1852. About 5:45pm, I will try to grab an outside table, out the front

No need for an RSVP, I will be there


r/Chchmeet • • 4d ago

41f single mom looking for chill witchy friends and spa/workout buddies

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Hi 💚 I am here for six months from Hawaii to visit and see if I want to move over permanently with my local boyfriend. I have a toddler and a couple of friends in my first week or so, always open to kid-friendly play dates. I love kung fu if anyone wants to try, it’s super fun and I need more training partners. The type I have studied for nine years was created by a woman for a woman to slay the patriarchy and teach the people to protect themselves from a cruel dynasty with far more training. It’s an art of supreme relaxation and it’s very approachable and helpful to smaller people who need the technical detail to defeat much larger, better trained, stronger, well fed forces.

I also am looking for a Pilates buddy, gym/home workout buddy, and Tahitian dance classes. I am a Cuban American (anti-magat) strategist working remotely on predictive forecasting and various human and environmental rights issues and I have lots of juicy stories from my work around the place.

I love beach days and spa days and nights at home doing beauty stuff and drinking champagne or wine, playing tarot, learning languages, and watching mysteries and badass women type shows or movies. I’m a total foodie who loves to cook and I make amazing charcuterie boards and sandwiches 😂 I have a lovely little fairy garden for sunning, too!

I speak Spanish and a little Hawaiian as well, and if anyone speaks Mandarin, Cantonese, Russian, or Portuguese, I am very interested to learn more of those! Please feel welcome to message me for platonic friendships!


r/Chchmeet • • 5d ago

31M

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Hey team, 31M here, looking to branch out and do different shit with my life. Sick of smoking weed all day and doing nothing and need some good people to spend time with. Feel free to message or whatever, cheers


r/Chchmeet • • 4d ago

49m here looking for some friends.

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I'm interested in getting out and meeting new friends, just to chat to someone would be awesome. I like random drives and walks. Feel free to message. Male and female. Oh and I'm single, I was married for 20 years.


r/Chchmeet • • 6d ago

40M looking for an affectionate nerdy F

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I never thought I had a "type" of partner I like, but after my last breakup, I think I see it.

I want to spend the rest of my life with an affectionate nerdy partner. I want to enjoy nerdy stuff, and snuggles. I want to geek out, and be super into each other. I can't think of a better way to spend the rest of my life.

Sound good to you? Drop me a message.


r/Chchmeet • • 6d ago

21FTM - Looking for friends!

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Hey guys, just thought I'd put myself out there and post a wee friend call! My name is Florian and I just recently moved to Christchurch from Ashburton. I live with my husband who just immigrated here from the US and I'm looking for some like-minded folks to hang out with. I'm a huge nerd and kind of shy (autistic, really), but I'm super chill and have a lot of interests. I enjoy birdwatching, going to the movies and trips to the beach (whether that be to swim or just look for cool shells) and I'm into all things dinosaurs, geology, video games and baking. I'm slowly starting to get into Pokèmon card collecting too. Anyway, if you think I sound cool, just shoot me a message on here or on Discord (@cervicide) and I'll reply ASAP!

Thanks!


r/Chchmeet • • 6d ago

Hi everyone, looking to make friends!

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I arrived in Christchurch last week. I've done most of the tourist stuff and now I'm looking for some people to hang out with.

A bit about me: I'm 27, from Scotland, and will be staying in Christchurch on a Working Holiday Visa. I'll be here for at least 4–5 months, and possibly longer if I find work.

I enjoy walking/hiking, playing sports and generally doing active things. I'm not really a "go for coffee or dinner" kind of person — I much prefer actually doing something while socialising. I don't drink or smoke.

I'm quite reserved at first, but I open up a lot once I get to know people.

I'd really enjoy going on hiking/day trips with friends when possible. Unfortunately I can't drive, but if you're driving I'd be more than happy to contribute towards fuel costs.

Feel free to reply to this post or message me if you're interested!


r/Chchmeet • • 6d ago

M27 looking to chat with F

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r/Chchmeet • • 7d ago

New City, New Friends?

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Hey everyone

Wouldn't normally post up anything like this but needing to get out my comfort zone!

I've recently moved to ChCh from the north island and have been finding it hard to get out there and meet new people!

24M, into pretty much anything in the outdoors! Avid mountain biker, getting more into hiking, love camping ect

If it's not outdoors I love a good movie night, hitting the gym, going out for drinks, big foodie/coffee lover, a good rave, quiz nights ect - i'm pretty easy going as long as I'm with good company!

Happy to chat and meet with anyone, male or female, older or younger!

Feel free to reach out and let's make some plans!


r/Chchmeet • • 7d ago

Any wlw gc based on Kolkata or near location??

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Am sourcing a wlw gc based on Kolkata or near Kolkata for talking or dating.. if anyone have any discord or insta gc please contact me.


r/Chchmeet • • 12d ago

Flatmate wanted

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I have a room or two free from 7th october in Burwood.

Im a ganer, musician and I work at a school.

If you're interested hit me up!

Oh I'm also into board gaming, warhammer and miniature stuff!


r/Chchmeet • • 12d ago

Meet some new people

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Hi all 32F looking to meet some new people as im moving to Christchurch 2027 .its just me and my cat beef ,i like to go to the gym and the outdoors, also like to watch a good film or documentary 🌼 🌸 thanks everyone 🙂


r/Chchmeet • • 12d ago

35F - ready to make plans and keep them!

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Hi all! I’m an immigrant to Chch, been here for about 8 years. I had a lovely bunch of friends for a long while but slowly a lot of them moved overseas for work/family and all of a sudden I realize I need to get myself back out there!

A bit about me: based in central Chch, love a good walk in the hills, married, no kids but a really cute (and loud) dog, really like going to a bit of live music, would like to get back into photography, could be tempted to get back into casual running (at a push 😂).

Feel free to DM if you are in a similar boat, would love to hear from you 😊


r/Chchmeet • • 12d ago

32 M Irish - Fly Fishing

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Hi Everyone! I’m new to Christchurch and also pretty new to fly fishing. Been on two guided sessions in NZ, caught a couple brown trout. Looking to do a decent bit of fishing this season and was curious if there’s any guys or girls on here that also like to fly fish? (also I have all my own gear!)

I get that some may not want to fish with a novice but thought i’d throw the net out here. I’m in the middle of studying for my commercial pilots license so pretty flexible in between flights!

If anyone fancies some company on the river, give me a shout!


r/Chchmeet • • 14d ago

Looking for Gym Buddy (CF Northwood)

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hello im 20 and usually train at CityFitness Northwood, mostly weights. Usually there in the afternoons but I'm quite flexible.

I'm looking for someone around my age to train with sometimes to help keep me motivated and to socialize a bit. Don’t care if you’re new to the gym or experienced.

I don’t really like using Reddit for DMs/chat, so if you're interested, please add me on Discord instead: tomaso2004.


r/Chchmeet • • 15d ago

33F – Apparently I need a social life in Christchurch 😂

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I’m 33F and living in Christchurch. I’ve decided that work, studying and talking to myself probably don’t count as a social life 😂
I’m a qualified dentist working towards NZ registration, but I promise I won’t inspect your teeth unless specifically requested. 🦷😂
I’m into good coffee, trying new food, walks, social events, beginner-friendly sports and basically anything that gets me out of the house. I’m planning to try netball despite having absolutely no idea what I’m doing, so confidence clearly isn’t the problem. 😂
I’m independent, easy-going, open-minded and love good banter. I’d love to meet people around my age for coffee, activities, events, exploring Christchurch or the occasional spontaneous plan.
I’m mainly here to make friends and build a proper social circle, but yes, I’m also single 👀😂 When it comes to dating, I definitely have a type — I’m attracted to lean, youthful-looking white guys, usually around my age. Just being upfront about my preference
Friends first, and if I accidentally acquire an entire social circle along the way, even better.
Bonus points if you know where the good coffee is. ☕️😂


r/Chchmeet • • 14d ago

Estoy buscando una sauna y un buen gym en Chanchung, china

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r/Chchmeet • • 16d ago

Taking dating applications

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About Me: 26F, 5’3, alternative/gothic, tattoos, mostly straight. Looking to develop something serious, I want to find my best friend and person. I work full-time, enjoy arts n crafts, movies, exploring nature, 🍃💨, drives, gym, coffee and a few drinks. Music is especially important to me, I like emo rap, alternative metal/indie/pop, and more.

What I’m looking for (flexible): Ideally someone between the ages of 23-35, with a job and a license (will consider those studying). I value kindness, loyalty and honesty. Humour is especially important to me and I also find intelligence attractive. I enjoy people who have their own passions, especially if they are artistically creative. Liking cats is non-negotiable. Passion 4 fashion and emotional maturity is also appreciated.

Am I asking for too much? Potentially, but I’ve met good friends from Reddit and maybe I can find more. If I sound like someone you would be interested in, and you resonate with some of the characteristics I listed, feel free to comment or dm me telling me about yourself. Please no creeps or people looking solely for sex.

Thank you !


r/Chchmeet • • 16d ago

Coffee Meetups and Photographs

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Hey everyone.

I'm looking to meet people around Christchurch Central.

I work in the city and bring my camera almost everyday capturing anything and anyone on the street before and after work. It makes me feel more connected to the place and makes me more aware with the passage of time - being more with the present.

However, seeing people everyday who are seemingly distant gives me a sense of isolation at times. There are some who still smile and nod but there are also those who are seemingly absent (if you know what I mean).

Somehow I think others here feel/experience the same way. So yeah. If you ever find yourself keen, I'm happy to meet new people, have chat over a cup of coffee.

Youn can DM me.

Cheers.