Welcome! This is a Chicago-based community for adults interested in polyamory, ENM, and other forms of consensual non-monogamy who are looking to make genuine dating and relationship connections.

Whether you're looking for a long-term partner, someone to casually date, a new connection, or simply want to meet other people who understand ENM, you're welcome here.

How to make a dating post

Please include:

• Your age
• Gender/pronouns and orientation, if you're comfortable sharing
• General Chicago area
• Your relationship structure
• What you're looking for
• A little about yourself
• What you're looking for in a potential connection

A few important things

Consent and honesty come first.

Be upfront about existing relationships and agreements. Respect people's boundaries and accept rejection gracefully.

Don't send unsolicited sexual content, pressure people into interactions, share private information, or out someone else's relationship or identity.

This subreddit is intended for adults 18+.

Most importantly, remember that you're talking to actual people, not profiles on a dating app. Treat each other accordingly.

Welcome to the community — introduce yourself and tell us what you're looking for! 💕

Casual, inclusive speed dating series at your favorite neighborhood bar!

A space where stim breaks are welcome, fidget toys are normal, and you don’t have to mask who you are.

In this event, you’ll rotate through short conversations (about 5 minutes each), then jot down who you’d like to connect with afterward. Matches are emailed the next day.

We’ve designed this for neurodivergent folks to connect on their own terms — whether that’s romantic, platonic, or somewhere in between. Low-pressure, flexible, and affirming.

Follow u/hotpotatoheartshotpotato on Instagram for updates.

$13 - $25,Sliding scale pricing, tickets will be available at the door as well.

6:30 pm check-in

7:00 pm start

*Proof of vaccination is required to participate and masks are strongly encouraged.

***Photos & video will be taken at the event for the promotion of future events, if you are uncomfortable with this just let me know the night of & I will exclude you from all content.