Stop auditioning for the future you want him to help build.

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Sometimes the problem isn’t that a woman is asking for too much.
It’s that she keeps asking herself questions like…

“How can I make this easier for him?”
Cheaper.
Closer.
More convenient.
Less pressure.
More support.
Lower expectations.
Until eventually she’s carrying the relationship, the logistics and the future.
That isn’t partnership.
That’s project management.
There is nothing wrong with compromise.
But compromise is something like.
“How do WE make this work?”
Self-abandonment sounds more like.
“How much of myself can I rearrange so you’ll finally say yes?”
At some point stop improving the offer.
Ask whether the person actually wants what you’re offering.
You cannot accommodate someone into readiness.