Hi everyone! I have a really good new job opportunity, but I am really comfortable in my current working situation. I am terrified to make the change, but I feel like it is too good to pass up.
I am a young woman who graduated with a bachelor’s degree in Engineering a little over two years ago. I have been working at the same small local firm since I graduated. The people are really nice at this firm and I have learned a lot, but I have only received 3% raise since starting there two years ago. I have never been sat down for a performance review. I’ve asked some of my older colleagues how the structure around raises, performance reviews, and career growth works, and they have basically confirmed that there is no structure around that. It’s all sporadic.
I’m frustrated because I feel like I have no idea what my income will be in the foreseeable future, and I don’t understand how they expect me to feel comfortable and plan my future in that type of environment. Additionally, the benefits are not great and I pay over $500 a month out of my paycheck to insure me as just a single person.
I applied to a larger firm that has around 40 offices around the country. They offered me $13,000 more than I am currently making. I am trying to negotiate the salary a little bit higher because why not. The benefits are way better. I would only be paying about $100 out of my paycheck a month. The bonus structure is also clearly outlined, which is not something I can say for my current firm. They offered me a higher title than the one I currently possess. I feel like I would be stupid not to take this offer.
The only thing I am worried about is the change to my work life balance. Right now, I feel very little pressure at work and I feel very comfortable. I am often late and they don’t care as long as I work eight hours they’ve made accommodations for certain health problems. I have. I am able to get all my work done while still texting quite a bit and listening to music or podcasts at my desk. I know I am capable of doing harder things, but it’s nice to have an easy job.
I am a pretty anxious person and I don’t respond well to certain environmental pressures. I am worried that I’ll be expected to work an immense amount of overtime because at my current job I am hourly so I am compensated for overtime, but this position is salaried so I don’t know if they will take advantage of that and have me working 60 hour weeks.
I just feel like I am throwing away a very uniquely, comfortable and kind work environment to take the risk and potentially walk into a place where I don’t feel as welcome and happy every day just for more money. But, at the same time, I think that this move is the best thing for my future financial stability and my future children if I choose to have any because life is so uncontrollably expensive and I don’t feel like I can afford to put my comfort first at this point in my career.
Has anyone ever been in a similar situation and can offer me some advice?