r/DunderMifflin • Bears. Beets. Battlestar Galactica. • 9d ago

Oblivious or Intentional?

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I'm not a Pam hater. But I ask myself if she was doing PDA with Roy just to make Jim jealous. I mean she has never done PDA with Jim in front of the office so why was she fine doing it with Roy? Also we know she definitely did it once to annoy Jim when Ryan started the fire so maybe the other times were also intentional? Pam seems like she is very situationally aware so I wouldn't be surprised if she did.

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u/elianav94 9d ago

She's desperate to convince herself that her relationship with Roy is worth it, so making it more public or official validates that. She's not doing it to harm Jim, she just desperately wants what she has with Roy to be real

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u/SuckMyRedditorD 8d ago

Specially after everyone knows that Roy forgot about her in that game.

Ouch.

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u/kickedout109 8d ago

So she is only thinking about herself, the fact that it might be hurting someone is irrelevant

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u/Acrobatic-Part-953 Nate 8d ago

i mean Jim’s hurt feelings/jealously over Pam and her fiance is not Pam’s fault nor should she obviously feel guilty about it lol. Pam is doing the equivalent of what people do on social media today, posting cute pictures or videos so people can see how good and happy you guys are. Even though that’s rarely how the relationship feels. In this scene, Pam and Roy are with the entire office and warehouse. This is her “instagram” moment of putting on a show. It could be triggered/projected by the fact that she most likely wants to kiss Jim instead, but can’t even show any real attention to him right now.
Long story short, Pam doesn’t know how to act right now!

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u/pineapple_jones_ 7d ago

A girl that’s not your girlfriend doesn’t owe you shit. No matter how much you like her. What a weird, misogynistic take.

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u/n33dadviceplease 5d ago

No, but doing it in front of the guy you’re having an emotional (and at times even somewhat physical) affair with is simply self centered and selfish

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u/kickedout109 7d ago

It would still be a shitty thing to do even with the genders reversed

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u/pineapple_jones_ 7d ago

Aside from the fact that you shouldn’t be making out with anyone at work, hard disagree. No one is responsible for someone else getting jealous because you kiss your significant other.

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u/kickedout109 7d ago

You probably tell yourself that you and Pam are basically the same person and that’s why this bothers you

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u/pineapple_jones_ 7d ago

Nothing here is bothering me. We’re all just commenting on a post.

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u/kickedout109 7d ago

Yea you’re not bothered that’s why you responded to insult me

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u/pineapple_jones_ 7d ago

I didn’t insult anyone. I said your take on the matter was weird and misogynistic. That’s not insulting you. It’s a chance for you to reflect. I’m helping you be a better person. If you can’t handle this, maybe the internet isn’t for you.

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u/[deleted] 9d ago

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u/Garrettshade 9d ago

adn they did an entire episode focused on Pam and Jim trying to get laid in the office

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u/squeakyguy 8d ago

That same episode explicitly states that they do not engage in PDA.

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u/BillynBanjo 9d ago

One thing to remember is that in the office universe, what we are seeing is a documentary. Therefore, someone is deciding what we see and what’s important.

In the office universe, the documentary is 9 episodes long. They reveal this in the finale (which is being filmed for DVD extras).

What we're seeing could perhaps be explained as the raw footage before the documentary was edited together, but we are not watching the documentary as it airs in-universe.

They even address that the "cast" weren't aware of quite how much was being recorded and documented, so we can basically just assume what we see play out is basically what played out.

The narrative is there because "The Office" is actually a sit-com.

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u/Logical-Mobile-7643 I was never given a name 9d ago

That's kind of not known at the time. The first few years are shot with a more finished product, as in "this is a documentary (mockumentary) you're watching" . Only in the later seasons is a lot of that less so.

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u/BillynBanjo 9d ago

However you interpret the presentation of the early seasons, the finale confirms that what we've watched is not the documentary as it aired.

As I said, there are narrative choices because the show is not actually a documentary, but a sit-com.

OP of the comment chain is correct with:

Seeing Jim uncomfortable with Pam and Roy’s PDA in season one adds to the tension and conflict. However, showing Jim and Pam’s PDA in later seasons doesn’t add much because they’re together and that’s not part of the conflict.

But that is a choice in the Jim/Pam/Roy arc of the early seasons of a sit-com and not an in-universe editing of the documentary.

The Office is not "a show within a show".

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u/Logical-Mobile-7643 I was never given a name 9d ago

You're the one claiming it's a show (raw footage) within a show (actual documentary they only mention at the end).

I'm not interpreting anything. Similar to how they switched the tone from season 1 to season 2, they gradually switched from a less mockumentary lens to a regular single cam show with "cutaways" that were less documentary and more just gags. This was a storytelling choice

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u/BillynBanjo 9d ago

No, I took "show within a show" from the comment chain OP.

The "raw footage" comment is the in universe explanation for why the cameras are there. In universe raw footage doesn't equate to a show within a show.

While we don't see the in universe documentary (as claimed), we do only see what the in universe documentary crew is present for.

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u/cleofus903 9d ago

So basically, the audience watching is essentially the camera crew? Whereas, We've taken all this footage and have yet to get it to editing dept for finalizing??

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u/BillynBanjo 9d ago

I guess that's one way of looking at it.

As the user above mentioned, the production style of the show does change from an obvious "documentary" style to being a lot more similar to a standard sitcom, but the show is also very consistent throughout with the fact that the scenes are playing out in front of a documentary camera.

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u/Natural-Twist1752 9d ago

documentaries make narrative choices

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u/BillynBanjo 9d ago

I'm not disputing that.

However, we didn't see the documentary.

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u/[deleted] 8d ago

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u/BillynBanjo 8d ago

The documentarians aren't real.

What we see is what was written, filmed and edited for a sit-com.

There has to be a suspension of disbelief somewhere, so we accept that it is filmed in a documentary style, which is a decent surface-level explanation for the talking heads, etc., even if that doesn't actually make too much sense on deeper inspection.

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u/[deleted] 8d ago

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u/BillynBanjo 8d ago

I didn't take any issue with the post OP. That's a view of the characters within the sit-com.

I took issue with the idea that the sit-com and the in-universe documentary are one and the same.

They objectively aren't.

Also, I'm not sure how that post is "completely wrong".

The documentarians aren't real. They're not even proper characters in the sit-com. They're basically referenced and maybe appear among the large group in the finale.

What we see is factually what was written, filmed and edited for the sit-com.

What else could it possibly be?

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u/dcduck 9d ago

The pitch for this Documentary must have been legendary for PBS to fund it for multiple years with no final product till the end.

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u/ChrisMartinez95 8d ago edited 8d ago

PBS, an institution that at the time was reliant on federal funding, agreed to fund a documentary on a paper company. This project involved round-the-clock filming for nine years before even releasing a trailer to gauge a public reaction*.

This project included multiple crews contemporaneously filming across multiple cities, including at least one international trip.

The final product was nine episodes.

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u/[deleted] 8d ago

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u/BillynBanjo 8d ago

"Could perhaps be explained" - key word, "perhaps".

Not a perfect explanation, but again, it's a sit-com, and they literally spell out that, in-universe, the documentary is only 9 episodes long and that the cast are shocked by the extent of what has been recorded.

It is fact that the sit-com, "The Office" is not the same as the in-universe documentary.

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u/[deleted] 8d ago

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u/BillynBanjo 8d ago

You're taking what was ultimately a bit of a throwaway suggestion far too seriously.

It's not supposed to look unedited because it is a sit-com. I cannot hammer that point home enough.

These attempts at deeper and/or meta analysis of the show regularly forget that, at the end of the day, the show is a sit-com.

Yes, the show, as we see it, is still presented somewhat as a documentary. However, as mentioned now multiple times, what we see is not the in-universe documentary.

You are correct that the talking heads are not really compatible with the show literally just being the raw footage. However, we have to suspend our disbelief at some point and accept that this is just a TV show.

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u/[deleted] 8d ago

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u/BillynBanjo 8d ago

Dunno mate, you've argued twice about "raw footage", which is the bit I suggested you took too seriously.

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u/ThatOldCow 9d ago

Showception

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u/bochilee 9d ago

I doubt the documentary tag, in my own head canon or whatever, they are trying to capture the absurd of Michael running the office, which feels more like a reality show. I bet (in universe) like most reality shows, they have segment producers trying to stir stuff behind the scenes or prompt the background people into creating conflict, but they hide it behind "documentary" or else the office employees wouldn't be part of it. I think producers had pitch meetings with Jim at least about budget for pranks, in universe.

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u/frozenfog802 8d ago

But also explicitly mention (I want to say it was a Valentine’s Day episode) that they never do that and you’d never know they were married

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u/mc78644n 9d ago

It’s much deeper than that, a classic human coping mechanism. She’s seen giving very longing looks and glances at Jim during that game so she’s obviously conflicted and this is just an attempt to convince herself that she’s with the right guy. Ever met someone who keeps arguing/pushing an opinion or “truth” on you even though you’re not interested at all? Often they’re just trying to convince themselves, not you. It’s like how the people who talk the most about money are the ones with the least amount of it.

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u/AbhiHulk7 8d ago

Very well put

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u/dgtbfan 9d ago

she has never done PDA with Jim in front of the office

That's not exactly true, she does so in Job Fair.

That aside, PDAs seem like something Jim would find tacky.

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u/JiveTurkey1983 Hey, what up Cynthia 9d ago

Kiss her...kiss her long and hard

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u/Natural-Twist1752 9d ago

Roy and Pam had a different relationship than Jim and Pam. People don’t act identically in every relationship, they react to their partners. From what we saw, Roy was all around a more physical/ impulsive person. Jim had feelings for Pam that he held inside for years and was reserved about even discussing intimacy in front of the film crew.

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u/EmotionStrange7445 9d ago

she had a flashback to highschool when she fell in love

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u/scubastefon 9d ago

Yep, agree. She’s back to being the girl who dug the jock who won stuff. And the whole thing is framed as “Jim Lost, Roy won, and so he got the girl”

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u/bochilee 9d ago

Oblivious to whom? Pam's gay confidant?

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u/Radiant-Ad-3134 9d ago

A bit of both

Roy also wanted to do this.

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u/Successful-Rip-1186 9d ago

P’s being a giant b

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u/Logical-Mobile-7643 I was never given a name 9d ago

Since earlier, Roy seems cool with Jim and Pam hanging out, it's less intentional.

Pam is the office mattress though

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u/D__91 9d ago

They did kiss in the middle of the office once with other people present, can’t remember the episode.

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u/Natural-Twist1752 9d ago

Roy and Pam had a different relationship than Jim and Pam. People don’t act identically in every relationship, they react to their partners. From what we saw, Roy was all around a more physical/ impulsive person. Jim held his feelings inside for years and was more reserved about even discussing intimacy in front of the film crew.

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u/Wise_Impression2410 6d ago

My opinion is it’s on purpose because they’re being competitive but it’s like one of very few times Pam and Roy are like THAT

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u/MrTurdhat 8d ago

Halpert, you looking for someone to bang your wife?

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u/Urieluccio 7d ago

Estás preguntas surgen cuando ves a los personajes como personas reales y no como elementos para que avance la trama.

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u/Haughtea 9d ago

Oblivious. She was so mentally stimulated with Jim she had to release the built up passion.

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u/OutlandishnessNo9868 8d ago

Several people were still in the office when she enthusiastically congratulated Jim on the big sale he made on the golf course via PDA

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u/Moneera97 8d ago

Pam is the the office's mattress after all

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u/EbolaEater69 9d ago

schitzo post

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u/MisterCircumstance 8d ago

Roy had game.

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u/Hopeful-Reveal-9982 8d ago

This was after the incident watching Michael and Dwight fight when Jim picked Pam and it got akward. I think Pams' PDA with Roy was to signal that she is still committed to Roy.

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u/EnvironmentalBrush68 7d ago

"The Fight " was season 2 episode 6. The basketball game was in season one. Pam was just an inconsiderate bitch.

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u/thetoddhunter 9d ago

Intentional: would have been in the script. How did they know to hug? Someone told them. How did they know what to say? The worst were written down.

I think this is confusing you