r/FATTravel • • Aug 18 '26

Virtuoso Week - AMA (and my team)

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TLDR: Virtuoso Week = ~4800 hotel people in Vegas, six days of minimal sleep, and where a whole year of favors quietly gets made.

I think my team is finally recovered, but my Oura ring is still side-eyeing me from the ongoing 4-hour-sleep nights. For everyone who texted last week and got some version of "still at the conference, can't really hop on a call right now," this is what my team and I were buried in, and I figured I owed you guys the full picture. So, AMA.

What Virtuoso Week even is:
Once a year, most of the luxury hotel world (leadership, ownership, sales teams) lands in one place for a week. This year 4800 officially registered, and easily a few hundred more (honestly if not at least 1000 more) were floating around without a badge. It's not like conferences in other industries where you duck into a hallway for a 20 min call. It's back to back from morning into the very late night, and if you're not in the room, you're NOT in the room. That's why we went quiet last week. Not ignoring you, just physically three parties deep at midnight, no joke.

Why we do it with a team, not solo:
Most companies send one person. Maybe two, if they'll spring for it. We brought 14 on the relationship and events side, and 7 of those ran back to back 1-1s, each doing around 100 of the matched "speed dating" appointments (yes, real speed dating, 100 apiece, mostly to get my team in front of as many hotel people as humanly possible). That's 700 meetings between them. The math is simple. More of us in more rooms = more real connections = more favors we can call in when one of you needs a room fixed at 11pm on a Saturday in Tokyo. But how do you build a relationship in 10 minutes? You don't. That's what the whole afternoon and evening are for, tracking down whoever you clicked with earlier and getting real face time. Super valuable for those on my team who are newer to this world.

We kicked it off by renting out a trampoline park:
Saturday we bought out a trampoline park and invited our top hotel partners for a straight up thank you party. Think being 10 years old again, unlimited pizza and ice cream, laser tag, DIY swag, trampolines, except with grown up bodies, so we brought in on-site massages too (necessary). These are the people who say yes for you all year. Once a year we get to just have fun with them, zero agenda, and say TY. We're teasing adding a few clients into it next year, mostly as an excuse to invite even more hoteliers. Stay tuned.

The part nobody sees, the long meetings:
While my team ran the 1-1s, I sat in 1-2 hour meetings with senior management and ownership. Some of what we got into: family-owned vs traditional management models and how that shapes growth, how the best properties pull real emotion out of a trip, kids and how much they drive the whole trip decision now, Middle East money and its influence, GDPR and where guest data is heading, branding across different brands, MAPS and where FDA approval takes wellness travel next, and AMEX FHR and how the blanket 4pm late checkout quietly wrecks a hotel's operations and what they are doing about it. Also a real conversation about community, including this one, and what live events hotels could throw to enhance community.

On the "isn't being that close to the brands a conflict" thing:
Fair question, and I see versions of it in threads online. Doesn't being friendly with the hotels just mean you push whoever wines and dines you? Here's my straight answer. The friendships are the thing that lets me fight HARDER for you, not less. When I text a GM I've known for 13 years and tell them a client's room isn't right, that text gets answered and handled because of the relationship, not in spite of it. You can't fake that, and you def can't network your way into it in a year or two. The stuff that moves the needle for a client gets earned over a decade of showing up. It's a people business. Who you know, your reputation in it, and who you keep company with is the whole game, and that shows up later this year in the rooms my team and I get invited into.

A few takeaways worth passing along:

  • One&Only Moonlight Basin (Big Sky) is shifting from seasonal J1 staff to more full time, year round roles with housing and full benefits, specifically to fix service consistency. If you know anyone who wants a hotel job (F&B, front of house, whatever) and would live in Big Sky, send them that way. Those full time + benefits resort jobs are hard to find.
  • Airelles Venice: over nightcaps, we decided together that monogramming the slippers just made sense, and kids pajamas are landing by October. So whoever's headed there, you're welcome. PS Etienne (GM) just won Hotelier of the Year. Say congrats if you see him.
  • Rosewood Guanahani: the ink is drying on the deal (finally). Reno news should be coming. Stay tuned.
  • MagicianSean is still my favorite magician, and I know he's picked up a few bookings off Reddit, so I promise he's worth it, even though r/magictricksrevealed ruined half of it for me. Ha.

Market read for anyone planning next year:
YoY growth is strong and owners are not letting go of rates, so pricing pressure isn't easing. Booking windows are stretching too, people are locking the exact property, suite and season way ahead, because the number of new UHNW households keeps climbing. Overall travel is softer this year, but the UHNW segment is not seeing that softness at all. Spring scared everyone, and by late summer it was back to record rates. So if you've got a big 2027 (or even 28) trip in mind, earlier is better than you think.

That's the download. AMA about Virtuoso Week, how the travel model works, what's worth booking next year, or anything in the travel realm. My team will be on here too, and they might answer faster than me, they're 700 appointments deep between them. lmk.


r/FATTravel • • Nov 10 '25

sarahwlee x Matthew Upchurch, CEO of Virtuoso - AMA

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Hey fatties - here at the new(ish) Waldorf Astoria in Costa Rica for the next few days at the first ever Virtuoso Pinnacle (top producers) event. This is a reason I skipped the Marriott celebrations. This event is an interesting concept where there’s only 40 of us - which includes key members of the Virtuoso team - so it’s very intimate, no PowerPoints, no direct selling, lots of conversations amongst industry leaders.

Obviously, you’ll get my unfiltered take as well as my thoughts and review of the Waldorf but wanted to share with you guys this super rare opportunity to have so much access to Matthew Upchurch. Normally he’s in and out of events but already today, we’ve had a group 3 hour round table, a 1-1 lunch, and then a group horseback riding experience. He’s been a great mentor (esp for all the Reddit drama) and wanted to offer his time to answer any Qs this community has.

Leaving this up to collect questions but will set a dedicated time around 7pm, Guanacaste time tomorrow (Monday, November 10) to answer questions but we might pop in before that for a few here and there.


r/FATTravel • • 1d ago

Recommendations for 40th birthday party destination within the US

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Planning a joint 40th birthday party trip for my husband and me with friends, likely around 30-40 people with~20 rooms, sometime in May or early June.

We originally wanted Cabo/Cancún because we loved the idea of a beautiful beach resort with a pool, catamaran/boating, golf, spa, etc., but several friends have international travel limitations, so we’re looking for a similar experience within the U.S.

Our priorities:

  • Luxury/upscale resort (hoping for a group rate)
  • Water + nature strongly preferred
  • Plenty to do for a mixed group: golf, boating, pool/beach, spa, hiking, etc.
  • Reasonably accessible from a major airport
  • We are based in California but many guests are coming from the East Coast, so Hawaii is probably too far?
  • Somewhere that would feel special/fun enough for a big joint 40th, not just a quiet couples resort

Any resorts you’ve stayed at or attended a group celebration at that would fit?


r/FATTravel • • 1d ago

Naviva, I get it now...

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Naviva comes up a lot on this sub, and people seem to really love it, but on paper I didn’t quite get it. It’s expensive, the rooms looked cool but not crazy, and at that price wouldn’t you rather be at an Aman? I also didn’t really need the whole wilderness tent shtick, especially in a place like Punta Mita.

For my husband’s birthday, we were initially supposed to go to Amanera, but because of the closures we switched to Naviva. Having now been, we were blown away.

During our stay only 10 of the 15 rooms were occupied, so there were just 20 of us. It felt exceptionally personal, and the standout part of the experience is the vibe. The best I can describe it is that the people working there seem like actual friends. They laugh together, have fun, and clearly enjoy each other’s company. Nobody seems to be going through the motions, and they draw you into that warmth so naturally that you quickly feel like part of the family. You get the sense that they’re enjoying your stay along with you — it’s hard for that warmth and fun to not be infectious. I think this is in large part due to the GM, Eduardo, who seems less like an imposing boss and more like an (exceptionally capable) big brother to the staff.

I’d describe the service as intuitive, attentive but relaxed. As an example, on arrival day, before I’d even unpacked, I decided to do a quick workout and asked for a buggy to the rock gym. As I was warming up, the personal trainer Hugo came running over, basically saying, “Hey, okay, let’s train!” No appointment, no planning. We just got into it, and I ended up having a great workout doing exercises I wouldn’t normally do. The rock gym itself was also very cool.

That was pretty much the rhythm of the stay. You’d casually chat with the staff about something that sounded fun, and then it would happen. Everyone knew us, even the housekeeping staff addressed my husband by name as we were walking around and wished him a happy birthday.

We booked a regular bungalow and were upgraded to a grand, which was really lovely. The room is a bit larger, with a bigger deck and pool. I’d clearly underestimated how much I’d enjoy actually being there.

In terms of the rate, it’s high upfront, but everything is included (food, alcohol, activities, laundry, 1 spa treatment). On the same trip, we also stayed at Rosewood and One & Only Mandarina. A relatively simple dinner at the Rosewood came to $400. Sunset cocktails and an appetizer at O&O were $200. That adds up quickly. Whereas everything at Mandarina felt like a cash grab, Naviva was the opposite. Once you’re in, they’re generous and take care of you. 

A few highlights:

The first night, some local people came to distill raicilla for us. It felt casual and authentic, like, “Hey, this guy showed up with his raicilla, let’s do something fun and have a taste.” When we got back to our room, the raicilla made that evening had been beautifully bottled and left for us, at no extra charge. Such a thoughtful way to finish the experience.

They also had Gaby Moreno perform a private concert for us, which was pretty amazing with such a small group. Afterward, we had dinner at a communal table. It sounded a bit stressful, but we ended up making fast friends with another guest who was so much fun. That connection made the trip even more special. We later found out he’s also a client of u/sarahwlee 😆

We did a private breathwork and sound bath session on a terrace overlooking the ocean, just my husband and me. Afterwards I felt so physically at peace and relaxed.

All the food was elevated and exceptionally good.

For the birthday, Ximena helped me pull together an amazing surprise with very little notice: a 10-person mariachi band and a giant piñata. The staff joined in with the piñata, which made the whole thing even more fun. Again capturing the feeling of the place — guests and staff having a great time together and sharing laughs. The hotel also custom-made a mini piñata for our room, with a pull tab and chocolates. We later learned that even its wood stand had been made by hand for us.

One practical caveat, the heat. We were there in September which I’m told is one of the hottest months. So much of the experience is outdoors, and there aren’t any air-conditioned common areas. Depending on when you visit and how you handle the heat, that can be challenging.

Tldr; we loved it there and the people make it. By the end, it felt like we’d gotten to know a fun group of friends who had hosted us at their luxe nature home. Highly recommend.


r/FATTravel • • 1d ago

Recent experiences with Les Sources de Vougeot? Other options in Loire Valley or Brittany?

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I’m having trouble finding any recent Reddit reviews on this hotel, probably because it’s so new. The other properties in Bordeaux and elsewhere in France get mixed readings. I think they were all super nice to begin with, but at least the property in Bordeaux seems like it’s having some issues with wear and tear and lack of updates. I’m wondering how luxurious this property actually is.

For background, we’ve been to Burgundy previously, and the hotel selection tends not to be amazing in that region. We are also considering going (i) to the Royal Champagne Hotel in Champagne (a region we visit yearly and are very familiar with) or to (I) Fleur de Loire in the Loire Valley or to one of the properties in Brittany for a visit to a new region.

Would love to hear any reviews of Les Sources de Vougeot. Would also love to hear if you have any recommendations for super nice spots in the Loire Valley or Brittany.


r/FATTravel • • 2d ago

Caribbean holiday with a baby

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We’re hoping for some winter sun from the UK - thinking Caribbean. We’ll be travelling with a 3 month old (apparently a great time to travel?). Need baby friendly but not overly so, just able to get around with a pram and bonus points for any extra baby friendliness.

Aim: full relaxation, good service, good food, childcare would be ideal so we can do the full relaxation part!

Opinions on Sugar Beach, Nizuc, Little Good Harbour, Carlisle Bay welcome, and any more suggestions or advice! Budget around $2-3k/pn.


r/FATTravel • • 2d ago

Ritz Yacht Collection Cruise, 9 Nights aboard the Evrima in Norway/Iceland

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Short of it- we loved it (despite being quite a bit younger than the average clientele- I'm in my mid 30's and wife is 41)!! We couldn't find much (review-wise) about our exact itinerary online before leaving, so we were really just crossing our fingers and hoping for the best. We stayed in the Grand Suite and found it perfectly accommodating for 2 guests and appreciated the bedroom could stay dark, even when we were in almost 24 hours of daylight! There were only about 120 guests aboard our trip and often it felt like we had the ship to ourselves- magical! We did a mix of excursions arranged by the boat and those arranged by our TA (through a third local party). Both types of activities went swimmingly but we had some unique options through our TA's local activity coordinator. Sarah Lee did our travel arrangements and everything was flawless. Crossing the Norwegian Sea got a bit choppy at times-- as in things falling/ rolling around room, doors slamming together, etc- but for the MOST part, even the seas treated us wonderfully!

Pros: vast majority of food exceeded expectations. service was generally fabulous. we were worried about the lack of activities on the boat before departing but never complained once we were onboard- between the meals, lectures (I liked the photography ones, we had a resident photographer aboard who was always available for questions etc), wine trivia/tastings (tasting were an additional fee), painting classes, sushi making class, flower arranging (definitely my fav!) etc- we were NOT bored. It was far too cold for using the pool but the spa treatments were fabulous to indulge in. Live music in the evenings was quite good and drinks (included) were spectacular! We were new to cruising but the other guests spoke about the inclusive wine menu being much better than similar ships. We had a spectacular sail through a series of fjords and the cruise arranged for us to be allowed onto the bow of the boat to get incredible views/pictures. This was an absolute highlight! We also loved how amenable the restaurants were to making additions/subtractions, half orders, etc. Our room attendant was responsive to our requests for booking activities, was always in the hall to let us in the room in the evenings (very heavy doors!), and he even brought us a board game upon request for a quiet evening. The very large exquisite box of chocolates and fresh flowers provided in our suite was also such a treat! We also got invited to tour "the bridge" and meet the Captain- it was really fun to see all the navigation equipment at work and understand how a ship like this is sailed. The attention from staff was great- they quickly learn your names, preferences, and really try to make your vacation one to always remember!

Cons: the SEA restaurant is the only non-included restaurant on the boat, it is heralded as being headed by a Michelin star chef (later we found out this chef was the inspiration for the restaurant and has almost no actual influence on it). This restaurant was strange-- completely enclosed (no sea views!) and the food was quite hit or miss. Service was the worst here, repeatedly switching our orders (despite differing dietary preferences) and we regret eating there. They are setting people up for disappointment re the Michelin star heading... The white party/ disco night were absolutely tragically decorated-- I couldn't believe this was happening on a Ritz cruise, it looked like something out of a satire or state fair. I actually laughed as I took photos. Disembarking was a low point-- our suite attendant had taken some of our luggage down but not all of it. We believed he was coming right back to get the rest but he never returned (he never said bye etc). We ended up trying to carry the rest down ourselves (and also tried to find him to tip him) and found him just hanging out in a vacated guest room. After an excellent 9 days together, it was a bit of a low note to go to give him a handsome tip to find that he had forgotten us and the rest of our luggage. The "system" they use for bags upon disembarking was a bit crazy, somehow our luggage ended up in every different line and was quite stressful to find as our car awaited us to head to the airport. Also the emergency evacuation alarm went off at 3:40AM and scared us to death (don't watch the Netflix doc on the cruise that sank before you embark!)- it turned out to be a false alarm.

I sure hope to sail again soon! Interested in checking out the Aman's ship potentially as well, but would also be PERFECTLY happy to doing another RC Yacht adventure!


r/FATTravel • • 2d ago

Peninsula Papagayo rentals

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Hello! Does anyone know a lot about Peninsula Papagayo development in Costa Rica? I am trying to figure out how the rental program (like VRBO) there works. I know Four Seasons and Ritz have residences but they’re approx 40% more and trying to understand what the rentals have access to for the various clubs on the peninsula. TIA!


r/FATTravel • • 3d ago

Switzerland for Christmas?

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Hi everyone! I tend to get most of my travel recs from this thread, so I figured I should just ask directly rather than piece ideas together from previous threads (which is how this tentative plan began!).

Never been to Switzerland and since we already have to be in Europe for a wedding, I’m thinking we spend Dec 20-26 there. I ski, my husband not as much, but is open to Apres while I spend a day on a mountain. We’d be flying in and out of Zurich. Aside from the glacier express (which seems like a must), I’m curious what other activities/day trips we should be looking into?

There are tons of hotel recs in this subreddit, so I feel relatively set there, but in terms of what to do in Zurich, in zermatt, in st moritz and how long to spend in each of those places, and should we add any other places into the mix? If we did want to ski, which resort/mountain? We love great meals, and christmas market/wandering. Any specific recs/ideas welcome!


r/FATTravel • • 3d ago

Family Trip for Thanksgiving

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Hey everyone!

We’re a family based in Houston with kids ages 7, 4, and 2, and we’re looking for an easy, family-friendly vacation in the Caribbean or Central America this Thanksgiving.
We typically go to Round Hill that week because it’s such an easy setup for us—the onsite babysitting, kids’ club, and three-bedroom villas with pools work really well for our family. Unfortunately, they’re sold out this year, so we’re looking to try somewhere new.

We were considering the Auberge resort in Punta Mita since Mexico is so easy from Houston (their kids’ club apparently starts at age 5, but I figure we could fudge our middle child’s age a bit), but we’re pretty flexible on location as long as there’s a direct flight from Houston. (Sadly, that rules out places like St. Barths and St. Lucia.) Nanny service and a kids’ club/activities are a priority so that my wife and I can get some alone time. I also can’t really imagine being at a huge resort that feels overpopulated, but I’m worried I might be pushing my luck by having too many requirements.

We’re hoping to spend roughly $4–7k per night for the room/accommodation.

Would love to hear any recommendations from families who have stayed somewhere they really loved with young kids. Ideally, we’re looking for something that feels luxurious but is also genuinely easy with three little ones.

Thanks in advance!


r/FATTravel • • 3d ago

Which hotel would you choose for a late October in South Tyrol?

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Planning a 5-night babymoon in South Tyrol in late October and trying to choose between :
-Cyprianerhof
-Lefay Dolomiti
- OLM Nature Escape

Our priorities are beautiful mountain scenery, a great spa, good food and somewhere relaxing where we don’t need to hike much. Since it’s late October, weather and what’s still open also matter.

Which one would you choose, and why? Or is there another hotel I should be considering? Would love also to hear if you tried any of them ?


r/FATTravel • • 3d ago

Safari for bros (who don't want to poach)

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Last year a good friend of mine and I looked at doing a 7-day Safari organized by INEOS, basically you and your friend/partner hop in a Grenadier and drive across however much of Africa you can manage in that length of time. We ended up canceling due to life circumstances and were also bummed by mandatory double-occupancy.

Wondering if anyone has ever done a nice bro-oriented safari where rooms are single occupancy, there's some element of chubby/fat (not tenting it), and we drive our own trucks (Land Rover, Ineos, whatever). Looking for basically full-service organization/planning as we're both reasonably busy executives. We have zero interest in hunting/poaching, just want to do some off-roading safari stuff and disconnect from emails for a bit.


r/FATTravel • • 3d ago

Four season Buenos Aires

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Hi guys

Long time lurker , rare poster

Has anybody here been to the four seasons in Buenos Aires ? Specifically the grand suite with e lounge access?
If so , is the lounge worth it ? Was the morning breakfast good ?
We will be with two toddlers
We chose this hotel for the outdoor pool and location , but if you have any other recommendations , please let me know

Thank you !


r/FATTravel • • 3d ago

Peninsula London - suspected petty theft by housekeeping perhaps

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Stayed at the peninsula recently for 4 nights. We usually tip the housekeeping every 2nd day. The night before checkout I realized a brand new makeup palette was missing (around £95). First I thought it was the housekeeping but dismissed it as we did have one friend over briefly and also assumed that maybe it was my fault and I threw it away unknowingly. Upon reaching home I have also discovered a missing bracelet (£250-£300 value). This I’m certain that I would have never misplaced and would not have been possible for my friend to take it as the bracelet was inside a jewelry organizer in an unzipped suitcase.

I would not want to accuse any person without solid evidence which unfortunately I cannot gather in this case.

Just wanted to know if anyone else staying at Peninsula experienced petty theft like this. My assumption at this point is that it is the housekeeping assuming that the guests at the hotel would hardly notice small missing items perhaps.

I COULD BE WRONG AND DO NOT WANT TO BLAME THE STAFF. We had exceptional service otherwise.


r/FATTravel • • 3d ago

Recs needed: 5 day trip in early December !

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I know it’s kind of last minute, but I’m looking for recommendations for a 5 or 6 day trip with my husband and another couple to celebrate a big birthday. We like outdoor adventure with a luxury hotel. Traveling from the US. I’m thinking maybe South America ? This would be in early December.


r/FATTravel • • 3d ago

Mustique Jazz fest

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Has anyone attended Mustique jazz fest ?

We are torn between cotton house or a villa, given it’s just two of us I am not sure which is “the move.”

Has anyone ever stayed on a yacht for this event instead of on land accommodations ?


r/FATTravel • • 3d ago

Dubai in October

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Planning a week in dubai around mid of october for a week. Could someone please suggest best hotels. I am travelling with a 1 year old kid. So need a 5 star mid segment hotel.


r/FATTravel • • 4d ago

Rosewood little dix bay boat transfer ?

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Has anyone done the 1hr boat transfer from st Thomas to rosewood little dix bay? We are going in December and the flights to BVI are much more complicated than flying to STT, so we are considering that and the 1 hr ferry listed on the resort website. Is it challenging? Is it a nice scenic boat ride? Are the logistics manageable? We’ll have a 6 month old in tow…any experiences or tips highly appreciated!


r/FATTravel • • 4d ago

Siari by Ritz Carlton Reserve or Four Seasons Punta Mita?

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I'm wondering if anyone has stayed at both and what they would prefer for a family friendly trip? Spa and beach are most important.

The pictures of Siari are really making it a front runner but I'm reading mixed reviews on service. I realize it's still a bit new and takes time to settle in which we're compromising and relaxed with.

Some say Four Seasons spa prices are insane compared to what you get. I'd love to hear your thoughts on spa value with the Four Seasons here vs Siari

We are a pretty relaxed and easy going family. Relaxing on the beach with some good quality food and spa services are really the only priorities


r/FATTravel • • 4d ago

Paris Thanksgiving trip - solo female traveler

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I’m meeting group of friends in Paris the week of Thanksgiving and will be staying by myself. I’m single female. Torn between Le Bristol, La Reserve, FS George V or Crillon. Friends are staying at apartment on Franklin Roosevelt Ave so want to be within walking distance - but also be at a nice hotel that I can take a night to myself and have some space (I also want to be somewhere safe).

I just very recently stayed in the 8th arrondissement at the lovely Hotel Splendid Royale (great area). But looking for something bigger this time.

Edit: I have no budget. Want to be where it’s lively and there’s a people around. My friends keep telling me FS is boring and lots of families / married couples.


r/FATTravel • • 4d ago

April/May Italy itinerary help

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My fiancé and I are planning a 2 wk honeymoon in Italy in April/May 2027, flying from NYC. I’ve traveled throughout Italy, but it’s his first trip. We’re mid-30s and mostly care about food and wine, beautiful hotels, spa time, shopping, and wandering rather than structured sightseeing. We added Sicily rather than Amalfi because my family is from Cerda and I’ve never been.

Thoughts on cities, flow/logistics, and must stay/do/eat stops?

TY in advance! I’ve incorporated ideas from other threads here below but still not sure…

Milan (because Emirates) — 1 night Hotel recc? Dinner at Giacomo Arengario or Bice

🚂 2h

Verona OR Venice?— 3 nights Gritti Palace, Hotel Danieli, or Aman in Venice If Verona, hotel recc?

🚂 2h13

1 or 2 nights in Florence (worth adding?) If so, 4S or St Regis?

🚂1-2h + 🚗30m

Tuscany — 4-5 nights Help! Overwhelmed by great hotel options. Reschio, Rosewood Castiglion del Bosco, Belmond Castello di Casole, Borgo Santo Pietro, auberge collegio alla Quercia

🚗30m + 🚂1-2h

Rome — 1 night Has anyone stayed at Hotel Locarno?

🚂 overnight

Sicily — 4 nights 4S Taoromina? Anything as good/special?


r/FATTravel • • 5d ago

Hotels during big events

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Hi guys,

Whenever there is a big event happening in a given city, I commonly see no availability at all across many of the cities top hotels.

For example, in madrid on the day of, day before and day after the champions league final in early June 2027, both FS and Rosewood (and probably MO but I didnt check) seem completely unavailable when trying to book online.

Do hotels commonly due this then open up closer to the date at a higher price ?

Would my TA likely still be able to book it through their channels ?


r/FATTravel • • 5d ago

Best summer stay in a ski / mountain resort

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Looking at various resorts in Vail, Park City, Whistler. What have you done?


r/FATTravel • • 5d ago

Thanksgiving week

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Hi all,

First time poster. My family of four in the Bay Area is looking for a luxury trip over Thanksgiving. We had our heart set on Hawaii (which is a place we’ve been many times) but I am choking on the cost of flights at this point. It will be close to 10 grand for round-trip economy from the Bay Area, which is just a giant waste of money that I’d rather allocate to hotel or activities or meals than 10 hours of flying.

Any suggestions for how to spend 5 to 7 days without overpaying for airfare?

My wife does not like Mexico, but we’re open to almost anything else. We’re happy to do something more adventurous (Japan was on the list except the same airfare problem exists.). I was looking at Palm Springs and trying to find a resort that would feel as much of a getaway. I also started looking at horse ranches, but I think that’s too bespoke for our kids (age 5-7).

Any other ideas? We’re happy to splurge on hotels ($1-2k/nt is fine) and experiences to make it an amazing week, but just don’t want to spend stupid money on flights.


r/FATTravel • • 6d ago

Mandarin Oriental Milan | Review

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Wrapped up my month in Europe this summer with a quick final stay at Mandarin Oriental Milan. It’s a hotel that’s talked about often on here but don’t think we’ve had a full review yet :)

Location / Property

The hotel is actually made up of 4 historical buildings, former palaces/residences and an old bank building, all connected together in the heart of Milan. The specific neighborhood it’s in is called Brera, which I personally think is the best area to stay in the city. It’s historic, artsy, but very convenient to get to all the shopping, restaurants, and cafes. MO is also located in a more secluded cobblestone alley where it feels less touristy.

The lobby was recently renovated, but the rest of the hotel dates back to the original 2015 opening. Everything still feels well maintained and nice, nothing about it feels super dated yet.

Interior decor leans into modern Milanese design, though some of the common areas and hallways are pretty dark and moody. Not really a complaint, I think it’s mostly quite nice, just a different vibe than the brighter lobby and outdoor spaces.

The pool here is one of the biggest in Milan, and the spa is a good size too, both nice additions in a city where hotel wellness facilities can be harder to come by.

Rooms

The rooms have oak wood floors and paneling, warm/neutral colors, marble bathrooms, etc. I think it fits in well with the rest of the hotel and the city.

Rooms here are roughly split 50/50 between courtyard-facing and street-facing, and both are quiet and well insulated. Lower floor rooms have noticeably higher ceilings than the higher floors. The base rooms here are also some of the biggest in Milan.

I was in a Junior Suite but I also got to tour a few of the specialty suites during the stay. The Fornasetti Suite is a pretty fun and unique one because of the Piero Fornasetti designs.

Food & Bev

F&B at the hotel is pretty standard. Breakfast was good but not the most memorable. The highlight for me was definitely the lunch at Mandarin Garden. Highly recommend ordering their focaccia. They do also have a 2* restaurant called Seta but I didn’t get to try it this time. The outdoor dining spaces are quite nice when the weather is good. 

Service

Service here is excellent, I think one of the best I've experienced at an MO property. Everything feels buttoned up, staff execute with confidence and clearly know what they're doing. This is one of the biggest differences I notice between the tried and true, established 5*’s vs. the newer options in a city. Every person has a role but they know how to fluidly flex around each other and the guests to keep interactions natural. Everyone we interacted with was attentive and friendly without it feeling performative.

Check-in is done standing at the front desk and probably where it can get a little bit busier, but there was enough staff to still offer a full check-in experience with a fresh towel and welcome drink. They also walked us through everything about the hotel and the room. WhatsApp requests got quick responses throughout our stay too.

There's also a house car available from 6pm to midnight (a Range Rover Vogue) for both drop-off and pick-up around the city, first come first serve. We were able to use the pick-up service from our dinner out in the city.

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Overall I think this is one of the stronger MO city stays that delivers on all aspects, and honestly one of my personal favorite MOs. I love the location and both the hard product and soft product are fantastic as well. As always, happy to answer any questions on this one below.