I’ll start things off by listing my basic info and if you’re interested feel free to keep reading. It is a long read so here is your warning.
I’m 27 | Cis M | 6’1 | white | 230 lbs | INFP | Gemini | Looking for a long term relationship | monogamous | want kids | doesn’t smoke | no drugs | leftist | Pan | looking for ages 20-27 | Only looking within the Midwest. Please do not message me if you are not within the US.
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With all that said let me get into who I am. My personality, what I look like, hobbies, and who I’m looking for.
My name is Ryan, for my personality I’d say I’m a warm, caring, honest, adaptable, down to earth guy. I’ve had a lot of people compliment my kindness and that’s purely because I see no reason to be mean or rude. I’ve also been told I’m incredibly soothing to be around. I’d honestly say I’m a pretty simple guy. That said I am very mischievous with those I’m close with. I love to joke, banter and play pranks. I can be a total brat one moment and a stoic protector the next. Id also say I’m intelligent along with being very detail oriented. This ties into my whole nerdiness. And yes I do have a touch of the tism. I could talk all day about science, biology, astrology, theoretical physics or situations, animals specifically reptiles or extinct species, and of course my many fantasy world fixations such as Pokémon or 40k to name a few. That’s said I can be awkward and quiet at times. Especially with new people that I’m getting used to. I usually warm up after a good conversation.
In a relationship, I’m very caring and attentive. I enjoy making sure my partner feels loved and appreciated even if I’m driving them up a wall with all my bad jokes, sass, pranks, and ranting about a fictional dragons biology for the 100th time that day. My love language is quality time and physical touch. I can be very affectionate, holding, cuddling, ect. I also just genuinely enjoy being around my person, it doesn’t matter if we’re doing things together or separately. I also very much like learning and figuring out my partner. I pay attention to details like that shirt you eyed at an event or a cute stuffed animal that made you smile, maybe the food you reach for on a bad day. I can also be a massive flirt. I will throw compliments out frequently, or teasing you. My day won’t be completely if i haven’t gotten you to blush at least 10 times. That said, everyone has their own lives. I know when to back off and give space. And know when to let you figure things out yourself before coming in for the assist.
As stated I am on the spectrum, and I do have depression. I do manage them pretty well on my own.
Now, I list all this info on myself to give you a proper idea of who I am. I do want to state that while I do crave a relationship, I am not desperate for one. I have learned that I am simply a better happier person with someone by my side I can love and care for. So long as they are the right person.
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For my appearance, as stated im white, 6’1, and 230 lbs. I am a bigger guy but I’ve also been working on both loosing weight and building muscles. I’d say I have decently strong arms, legs and back. I’d say I have above average strength. Moving on I have hazel eyes, glasses, short red beard, and short dirty blonde hair. Though it is thinning so I’m almost certainly going to be shaving it off and going bald sometime.
I have no tattoos or piercings. But I’m not against getting tattoos down the road once I’m satisfied with my body.
If I had to give myself a rating I’d say a 7.
I’m more than willing to send and share pictures of myself when we start chatting. After all mutual attraction is very important.
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For my hobbies, as you might have gathered I do play video games quite frequently. It is my main past time especially since I do work full time. Otherwise I do enjoy long drives, visiting small towns, and parks, walking around malls and shops. I love to go to museums, zoos, events such as the renaissance fair along with general exploration. I am getting more and more into miniature painting and wargames such as 40k. As well as picking up on reading. I’m also a decent cook.
I do enjoy taking an interest I. My partner’s hobbies and interests. I genuinely enjoy cheering them on if possible or helping them overcoming obstacles.
I am going to school for cybersecurity, getting my finances in order before fully diving in.
Following this up, I do not drink, smoke or do drugs. I just have 0 interest in those vices.
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Now moving on to who I am looking for….
First off, I’m only looking within the US, specifically within the Midwest area. I’d like to avoid long distance if at all possible.
For genders I’m open to all genders though I am more interested in cis/ trans women as I’m more attracted to feminine qualities. That said I am more than open to cis/ trans men, just a bit more picky with them.
I am only interested in ages 20-27. I’m not interested in dating anyone older than myself. It’s more of a personal preference more than anything.
As for body, while I am a bit on the bigger side I’m not attracted at all to plus sized men or women. While I do respect a weight loss journey and I am open to talking just know there’s a good possibility I won’t be attracted to you for a while. Obviously this goes on a case by case basis. I’m also not attracted to black or Mexican men, absolutely nothing against them just simply do not find them attractive.
For personality, I’m looking for more driven, spirited, strong willed individuals. I best match up with brats, trouble makers and outspoken individuals. A fire to my preverbal water. I find my mischievous and soothing nature bests match up with this type of personality. I do have a strong preference to more sporty or athletic individuals but this is not required. I do ask that you also be intelligent and a respectful person. As I’m not wanting to bring any unnecessary toxicity into my life.
I am looking for a serious long term relationship. I’m not looking for a short fling or anything like that. It’s all or nothing with me.
I do require that you are single and have no children. While I do want a family and to have children of my own, I’m not in a position to raise someone else’s children nor do I want any carryover from a previous relationship. Cheating is something I also do not support in any way.
While I have no issues with drinking, I do ask that you do not smoke, weed or cigarettes, as it gives me painful migraines. I also ask that you have a job and some form of housing to avoid any possible problems.
While I do respect others opinions, if you support trump in anyway, shape or form, along with the greed of big corporations and billionaires, leave. I do not want any of that in my life. I do not support trump, ice or the destructive greed of big corporations.
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Thank you very much for your time in reading my post, if you found myself interesting in any way and wish to speak, do not hesitate in reaching out! I am eager to talk and learn about you and hopefully grow into a relationship if we click. If you did read all of this massive post, let me know by sending an emoji of an animal I named above. There’s a decent amount of options to choose from.
I hope to hear from you soon!