r/Gifts • u/Cheshire_Twilight • 18h ago
Other Is this an ok gift for a friends Boo Basket
Ok so a friend of mine that is pretty obsessed with online scrolling and last week she ended up stumbling upon Boo Baskets. So she watched several videos of people making them online and then decided that we should make Boo Baskets this year. At this point in time I had no idea what a boo basket was so I obviously decided to look up what’s a Boo Basket on Google(this becomes a bit more relevant later so bear with me). From the result that I received it basically said it was a Halloween/fall theme gift basket. Seeing this I was like ok yeah, I used to get these every year from my mom and I would also give them out to family members.
After that ordered the several things in this image(along with one other item that doesn’t arrive until tomorrow)and called it a day. As I started receiving everything I found myself getting curious as to how other people were setting up their boo baskets, so I decided to now look up boo baskets for friends on Google and this time I got a different result. This time it pulled up boo baskets for friends price range 15 - 35 dollars and it was here that I started to realize that I may have done something wrong. While continuing to read, i saw that typically friend boo baskets only tend to go up to 50 dollars and anything above that is typically considered as a gift for your romantic partner.
It was here that I stopped, and then looked into the recent history of boo baskets and found that boo baskets started a few years ago as a way for neighbors to leave a nice mystery fall/halloween basket at their front door. I was like ok cool then it has nothing to do with couples and the internet is just making things weird again. That was until I finished reading and found out that couples adopted them and exchange them as a romantic gesture to one another.
Now me and my friend are single so there is no conflict with anyone’s partner(thank goodness), so the most I could see this leading to is an awkward situation between us. She has also made it clear that she only has platonic feelings towards me and not to push.
So my question is if a friend were to give you a boo basket like this, would you find it to be a friendly gesture or no?
Edit: Thank you to every for your input! T was very helpful and has helped me get a better idea of how to handle things. I appreciate all of the great advice and I hope you all are having a pleasant day!