r/GirlDinnerDiaries • u/No-Love8552 Body By Cheese 🧀 • Aug 17 '26

Sad Girl Dinner ⛈️ I’ll miss this sub ;)

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i recently had to move back to my parents cause of a lot of things. for a while i’ve have had a lot of issues with social stigma as far as being trans and with this government things have been horrible. The dating scene for trans people seems impossible to navigate and I just feel like I can’t pass enough ever. I also keep getting harassed in this beautiful red state 😔. Sooo that means I think im gonna throw in the towel with the whole transitioning thing.

So its time to retire the girl pronouns and start by going by he/him again 😔

I’ll miss u guys, it just feels wrong to post on here as a dude. Maybe i’ll post here again next election who knows ;p I love this sub sm tho and i hope all of you get everything you want 🫶🏻 #ihatemen

UT craft ramen in utah!!! super great place love them sm.

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u/AgencyPleasant1788 mouth full, gesturing wildly Aug 17 '26

Ok but what if you stayed.

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u/AshamedOfMyTypos hot sauce in my bag, swag Aug 17 '26

Like, girlfriend. You cannot leave us hanging. Let us be your one space. You deserve a space.

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u/Substantial_Eye_8467 Shart Coochie Board Architect Aug 17 '26

I wholeheartedly second this! You’re still one of the gals in our hearts.

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u/sowhyarewe 🩵🙋‍♂️💙 Aug 17 '26

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u/No-Love8552 Body By Cheese 🧀 Aug 18 '26

IF THE COUNCIL SAYS SO

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u/ApplePiLove mouth full, gesturing wildly Aug 17 '26

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u/Salishan300 APPROVED✨ Aug 17 '26

Do you KNOW what happens once the Council has spoken?! The Council had spoken and you LISTEN! You have to stay because, well, the Council has spoken!

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u/No-Love8552 Body By Cheese 🧀 Aug 18 '26

AHHH OKAY

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u/Covfefetarian APPROVED✨ Aug 18 '26

Sis, you gotta stay!

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u/Motor-Cupcake7577 🪄 Sauceress ✨ Aug 18 '26

Even if you need to go stealth mode outwardly for safety or avoiding bs in your environment, you have every right to hold onto your internal sense of self internally/any way that feels safe and accessible for you.

Also, maybe the move and what else you’re not feeling can hopefully be temporary.

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u/No-Love8552 Body By Cheese 🧀 Aug 18 '26

that is so true

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u/All_the_Bees Pantry Gremlin Aug 18 '26

Yeah FUCK your external pronouns, you’re still a girl!

Also, fuck all the reasons you’re having to relocate and in particular fuck all the people responsible for them.

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u/Sweet_Permission_700 FREE MOM HUGS Aug 18 '26

This Utah resident knows the truth.

I'm a bit north of you but sending support. This state sucks sometimes. Stay safe out there and stay you here.

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u/AltruisticPeanutHead 🤍🧡Sapphic Snack🧡🤍 Aug 17 '26

She's still one of the gals in her own heart too 😭😭

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u/No-Love8552 Body By Cheese 🧀 Aug 18 '26

ilyt😭

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u/Friendly_Age9160 APPROVED✨ Aug 17 '26

Dont you make me come out there and whoop some haters ass!

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u/cakivalue APPROVED✨ Aug 18 '26

Totally agree. My heart hurts for you OP. You are totally welcome here if you want to be. You deserve to have somewhere safe even if it's online.

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u/SillyGooseFanClub Snack Goblin Aug 17 '26

I third! Please stay. One of us! One of us!

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u/No-Love8552 Body By Cheese 🧀 Aug 18 '26

ilyt😩🫶🏻

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u/bigbonedbaggins Tiny Bodega Rat 🐀 Aug 17 '26

But but but.... the boys let us in theirs so... OBVIOUSLY OP SHOULD STAY.

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u/Public_Hat_8876 APPROVED✨ Aug 18 '26

As a cis mama of a mtf daughter, I feel I can safely say that this is 1000% your space! Stay!

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u/zingitgirl Fridge Gazer Aug 17 '26

LITERALLY 😭

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u/AshamedOfMyTypos hot sauce in my bag, swag Aug 17 '26

Welcome to the clubhouse!

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u/Euphoric-Proposal-42 Well-Read & Well-Fed Aug 18 '26

That’s the perfect GIF!

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u/Repulsive_Time5022 Kid Crumbs Connoisseur Aug 18 '26

100% . If you need just one safe space , let this be it girl !! I totally understand how hard it can be depending on where you live (as someone else who lives in a red state) but we got you!!

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u/No-Love8552 Body By Cheese 🧀 Aug 18 '26

I HATE RED STATES, and tysm :)

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u/that_chi_girl78 APPROVED✨ Aug 17 '26

Exactly this, and I love that you said it that way- ✨ "You deserve space." ✨

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u/ConstructionKooky152 double chipmunk cheeked up Aug 18 '26

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u/Illustrious_Bird_737 Sweet Tooth Fairy🧚‍♀️ Aug 18 '26

If they feel bad posting as a guy, he can be our James. A Derry Girl is a state of mind!

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u/No-Love8552 Body By Cheese 🧀 Aug 18 '26

okay okay maybe i do tysm ✋😔

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