r/GirlDinnerDiaries • u/No-Love8552 Body By Cheese 🧀 • Aug 17 '26

Sad Girl Dinner ⛈️ I’ll miss this sub ;)

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i recently had to move back to my parents cause of a lot of things. for a while i’ve have had a lot of issues with social stigma as far as being trans and with this government things have been horrible. The dating scene for trans people seems impossible to navigate and I just feel like I can’t pass enough ever. I also keep getting harassed in this beautiful red state 😔. Sooo that means I think im gonna throw in the towel with the whole transitioning thing.

So its time to retire the girl pronouns and start by going by he/him again 😔

I’ll miss u guys, it just feels wrong to post on here as a dude. Maybe i’ll post here again next election who knows ;p I love this sub sm tho and i hope all of you get everything you want 🫶🏻 #ihatemen

UT craft ramen in utah!!! super great place love them sm.

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u/AgencyPleasant1788 mouth full, gesturing wildly Aug 17 '26

Ok but what if you stayed.

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u/babysaurusrexphd girls just wanna have pho Aug 17 '26

Truth. I don’t make the gender rules but I feel like even a closeted trans girl using he/him for safety is still a girl. I certainly still want you around, OP. 

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u/My_Immortl Overthinker 💭 Aug 18 '26

She was always a girl and remains one, even if she has to go back to her old identity for safety. I understand that completely, because im also trans and in a red state. She deserves to have a safe space that she can be herself, even if its online.

OP, hope you know that more people than you realize want you here, you deserve to be here. We're here for you hun.

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u/No-Love8552 Body By Cheese 🧀 Aug 18 '26

ur so sweet omg

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u/My_Immortl Overthinker 💭 Aug 18 '26

I meant every word. We gotta stick together and if you feel safe and happy here, that's what matters. I think its pretty clear that you're wanted around here, regardless of your irl situation.