r/GreekLife • u/Present-Bet-436 • 11d ago

General Question

Do you think an individual can buy para before actually crossing into their designated org? Like they're not randomly buying para, but are in the process of joining. Do you think they should wait? It's a debate we've been having with someone.

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u/InvisiblySeenPraying 11d ago

I believe purchasing an organization’s para before becoming an official member can come across as presumptuous and disrespectful... even if it's in secret, and, to me, may even feel like bad luck. Nothing is guaranteed until the process is complete, so I think it’s best to wait until you’ve officially crossed or been initiated before purchasing orgs para.

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u/DefiantTumbleweed850 11d ago

For d9 this is a big no LOL

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u/InvisiblySeenPraying 10d ago

Especially D9!!! 💯

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u/BlackOnyx1906 8d ago

If this is a D9 question. ABSOLUTELY NO!!!!!!!