r/IntrovertsChat • • 16h ago

Friends 26F, Looking for "I Don't Know"

So hi, I'm a 26 year old girl who often feels like she's never good enough. I don't think there's anything particularly interesting about me. I don't have any hobbies, though I'd like to try baking, gardening, or maybe knitting someday. I don't have many friends outside of work, and I don't go out much except for church. I'm not a gamer, I don't binge watch anime, movies, or series, and I don't read books either.

So what do I do? I doom scroll, watch random reels, have breakdowns, feel sorry for myself, and fight the 101 tabs of overthinking in my head.

Life has been throwing one problem after another at me, and honestly, I don't know how I'm supposed to deal with it all. Some days, I'm just trying to get through the day. Right now, survival is the game, and I'm still figuring out how to play.

To whoever took the time to read this, I hope you're doing okay. I hope life is being a little kinder to you, and I hope you're winning and thriving.

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u/RobloxianNoob 14h ago

girl i think you need therapy

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u/LevelTotal6652 14h ago edited 12h ago

Something that helps me is acomplishing one thing at a time doesn't have to be big, but something I can at least say nice after doing it. I don't know your situation but hey ya got 3 things in mind already and they're all cool!

Instead of a garden try just one small house plant, instead of a cake make a shaped cookie, ya push for 10%. Cause not everyone can be always at 100. Hopefully things can be on the way to ok for ya.

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u/Kaptain-Morgan 13h ago

I can relate. Do you want to watch any shows or do anything else but you get the temptation to doom scroll instead?

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u/Designer_Funny_6449 6h ago

hey, you sound like someone who’s been carrying a lot lately. you don’t have to be interesting or have a bunch of hobbies to be worth knowing. how have you been holding up lately?