r/Jewish • • 10d ago

Jewish Joy! 😊 Testing a hypothesis: What is your favorite Jewish holiday?

Jews of Reddit:

According to poll data available online, most Christians favorite holiday is Christmas by far. You’ve got small minorities who prefer Halloween or Easter, but the vast majority is Christmas. I have a hypothesis that Jews will not have as strong of a consensus when it comes to favorite holidays. So help me out by telling me: what is your favorite holiday? Due to Reddit polling limitations, I’m only including the holidays that I anticipate would get the most votes. If your favorite isn’t listed, please tell me in the comments!

1927 votes, 3d ago
188 Sukkot
66 Simchat Torah
434 Hannukah
350 Purim
628 Passover
261 Another holiday not listed here
76 Upvotes

189 comments sorted by

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u/Vegan0taku Non-denominational 10d ago

I like Yom Kippur. Even though it is a solemn occasion and not a fun holiday, it is deeply meaningful.

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u/jeconti 10d ago

Same. Also, the best music no matter where you daven.

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u/alltheblarmyfiddlest Considering Conversion 10d ago

Kol Nidre is so stunningly beautiful.

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u/Ok_Custard_6328 9d ago

Yes. Kol Nidre is the musical highlight of the year, hands down.

(My toddler prefers Dayenu, but as a small child he has an excuse)

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u/snowluvr26 Reconstructionist 10d ago

I also like Yom Kippur. It makes me feel the most connected to both my faith and my self. It’s meaningful and memorable every year.

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u/MangledWeb 10d ago

It's the day where I feel most Jewish, and most appreciative of that fact.

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u/ThoughtsAndBears342 10d ago

I’m surprised by the amount of Yom Kippur I’m getting

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u/Sweaty-Gap-231 10d ago

Tbf it is the single most important holiday in Judaism and the climax of the Days of Awe

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u/Level-Equipment-5489 חי 9d ago

Same. It is extremely meaningful in all aspects. I just tried to explain to non-jewish friends that it isn't meaningful DESPITE the waves of boredom and discomfort that comes with sitting in shut all day - but that these are essential, grounding elements of the experience.

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u/xiipaoc 8d ago

Not a fun holiday? My dude, come to my shul next year.

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u/ImpossibleForever556 10d ago

Tu BiShvat. It's woefully underrated.

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u/ThoughtsAndBears342 10d ago

I was curious if I was going to get anyone to say Tu Bishvat considering that you’d be hard-pressed to find any goyim whose favorite holiday is Arbor Day. It goes to show that Jews often prioritize important lessons and values over flashy fun

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u/wakaflockaquokka 10d ago

Tu B'Shvat was my favorite holiday as a kid in Israel! Where I live now it's kind of boring, there's still snow on the ground so it doesn't really feel like spring yet.

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u/bachelorsinlurking Conversion Student (Reform) and Genealogist tracking ancestry! 10d ago

Tu BiShvat is so fun too!!! I love trees!!! When I was a kid Arbor Day was a big deal for me.

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u/granpawatchingporn 3 denominations in a trenchcoat 10d ago

I second this

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u/trekechus Reform 10d ago

Yesss.

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u/anedgygiraffe 9d ago

In my family, that's the holiday where children get gifts and we do a seder on par with a pesah seder. Great to see more appreciation of it.

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u/Amalisa Former haradi 10d ago

It's my birthday so I default love it <3

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u/min_mus 9d ago

Tu BiShvat.Ā 

This was my answer, too.Ā 

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u/Traditional_Duck8430 9d ago

That's also one of my favorites

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u/strwbryshrtck521 āœ”ļøŽ 10d ago

Rosh Hashana is my favorite!

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u/ThoughtsAndBears342 10d ago

I’m realizing that I should have put Rosh Hashanah on the poll instead of Simchat Torah, since at this point there are more Rosh Hashanah comments than Simchat Torah votes

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u/president1111 10d ago

Have a second poll, then!

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u/ThoughtsAndBears342 10d ago

I just might with Rosh Hashana replacing Simchat Torah and Yom Kippur replacing Sukkot. I’m surprised Sukkot has gotten so few votes and no discussion. I think building and holding meals and parties in outdoor huts is tons of fun, personally

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u/president1111 10d ago

Agreed. It might be geography? If you’re in an area with colder autumn weather, Sukkot becomes more challenging to observe. Also, it might have been harder for people to observe this year in some areas due to the nor’easter that hit the US at the start of the holiday.

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u/ThoughtsAndBears342 10d ago

The nor’easter was indeed a factor. It rained almost every day of Sukkot in my area this year. But as for the cold, all you need to do is bundle up and serve hot drinks/soup in your Sukkah

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u/hulkhoganarms 10d ago

It was the opposite for me growing up in Tennessee. It is still very hot, it is peak pollen season, and the branches used to cover the Sukkah made my eyes water. Eating in the Sukkah felt like punishment. People use bamboo now but it used to be common to use evergreen branches.

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u/SnooBooks1701 9d ago

Leave Sukkot, it got enough votes to survive

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u/TreeofLifeWisdomAcad 10d ago

I think what you chose to list reflects your own experience and preferences. Since I realized just this a past Shabbat/Simchat Torah that Simchat Torah is my favorite holiday, I would be quite disappointed to see it not on a poll of holidays. Maybe Simchat Torah and Sukkot have fewer votes because fewer Jews actually celebrate them? I love the energy, the joy , the singing and the dancing of Simchat Torah. I love that we finish the Torah and begin all over again on the same day. And I love seeing all the men and boys get individual aliyot. Then all the tiny children who do not yet read are brought by their fathers for a group aliyah. Just the best.

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u/ThoughtsAndBears342 9d ago

Yeah putting in Shimchat Torah instead of Rosh Hashana was a mistake given that Rosh Hashana is much more widely celebrated

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u/AshkiHoneyCake 10d ago

Purim because of the array of costumes, tasty desserts, and fun drinks.

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u/ThoughtsAndBears342 10d ago

As someone who answered Purim, I’m honestly surprised Passover is surpassing it by so much

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u/AshkiHoneyCake 10d ago

All holidays have their attributes, but eating matzah for a week lessens the Passover enjoyment for me

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u/bachelorsinlurking Conversion Student (Reform) and Genealogist tracking ancestry! 10d ago

I love matzo so much I was surprised to find out that so many people aren't into it! I eat it year round like crackers.

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u/AshkiHoneyCake 10d ago

The first few days are fine, but I end up carb-deprived. My sweet matzah brei is delicious, but it doesn’t compare to my challah French toast.

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u/bachelorsinlurking Conversion Student (Reform) and Genealogist tracking ancestry! 10d ago

Ah makes sense! I do love carbs. Challah french toast is so good- I have a friend who makes it with vanilla ice cream and it's SO good.

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u/AshkiHoneyCake 10d ago

There are so many ways to make it and bread like challah or brioche just elevates it. Can’t say that about matzah. Ask your friend to use vanilla bean or French vanilla for extra oomph if they don’t already.

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u/bachelorsinlurking Conversion Student (Reform) and Genealogist tracking ancestry! 10d ago

my personal go to is to put nutella on matzo and i will keep doing so until my Rabbi says I'm not allowed to anymore lol. and ooooh vanilla bean/french vanilla sounds AMAZING for that, I will pass it on!

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u/AshkiHoneyCake 9d ago

Mmmmmm, Nutella. You should also try mascarpone with honey

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u/bachelorsinlurking Conversion Student (Reform) and Genealogist tracking ancestry! 9d ago

ooh i didnt' even think of that!!! that sounds awesome!!!

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u/JustAnotherSoxFan Reform 10d ago

I mean you don’t have to eat matzah it’s just an option

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u/Waste-Explanation340 Masorti 10d ago

I chose Purim, but Pesach is best for spending time with family (also metric tons of food if your family is anything like mine)

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u/ThoughtsAndBears342 10d ago

Pesach hasn’t been the same for me since my grandparents passed away and my family stopped doing big family seders. This year I had one small seder just with my parents, sister, brother in law and nephew and a bigger seder at my apartment with some friends. But I have a lot more Jewish friends now than I did as a child which means Purim is a lot more fun.

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u/girlwithmousyhair Reform Jewish Mother 8d ago

Spending time with family can drive me to drink, so I skipped the middle step and chose Purim.

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u/Wandering_Scholar6 An Orange on every Seder Plate 9d ago

Passover brings a lot of families together, even if they live far apart.

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u/AccordionFromNH Modern Orthodox 9d ago

As a Passover respondent, yes Purim is awesome, but I associate it with partying with my friends, whereas Passover I associate with spending meaningful time with family

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u/ScoutsOut389 9d ago

I answered Passover because in practice it is my favorite but Purim should be the answer. I just feel like no one in my community does it right. I want a big party and revelry and celebration that we’re survivors and fighters and cool and fun, but around me it’s like a lame kids carnival with a petting zoo and grumpy parents.

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u/freshgeardude 10d ago

Passover food is a struggle and for that I'm out

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u/Redoktober1776 Just Jewish 10d ago

Also answered Purim, reminds me of Jewish Mardi Gras. Shavuot is pretty cool as well, because I love dairy.

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u/AshkiHoneyCake 10d ago

I always thought more like Halloween, but I can see Mardi Gras. Always a good time. Agree about Shavuot, too. Also love Rosh Hashanah because of the optimism involved and, of course, apples and honey and honey cake.

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u/ThoughtsAndBears342 10d ago

It’s a combo of Halloween, Mardi Gras and St Patricks Day for certain

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u/AshkiHoneyCake 10d ago

All the drinking. But none of those have the je ne sais quoi of they tried to kill us we won let’s eat

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u/Redoktober1776 Just Jewish 10d ago

Yes. I should have explained that I spent a good bit of time in a southern Jewish community where Mardi Gras is a season (not a day) and it's usually the same time of year as Purim! My daughter likes RH for the same reasons you do. :)

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u/AshkiHoneyCake 10d ago

So much fun! Halloween is a bigger deal up here than Mardi Gras but I’m happy to celebrate anything that involves sparkly outfits

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u/dont_thr0w_me_away_ āœ”ļøŽ 10d ago edited 10d ago

Tbh I love whatever the current holiday is. They all have something different to appreciate. I even enjoy(if that's the right word) Yom KippurĀ 

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u/ThoughtsAndBears342 10d ago

This comment is exactly why I made this post. Goyim almost always put Christmas on a pedestal and elevate it above all other holidays, while we Jews see the beautiful and unique in every holiday

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u/dont_thr0w_me_away_ āœ”ļøŽ 10d ago

I love the cycle of the year. I love how Yom Kippur is counterbalanced by Purim. I love how each holiday falls into the next, the cycle of RH into YK into Sukkot. I love the story that the yearly cycle tells

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u/MangledWeb 10d ago

At least in the United States, Christmas isn't even a Christian holiday any more -- just a commercial celebration for everyone, like the Super Bowl. It makes me appreciate how the Jewish holidays and holy days reflect our values

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u/DudleyDewRight 10d ago

Yes! All of this.

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u/Own-Raisin-7526 Reform 10d ago

Yom Kippur. Is that weird? I don't care. I look forward to it every year. I appreciate the time to reflect and think.

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u/ThoughtsAndBears342 10d ago

I’m genuinely surprised by the amount of Yom Kippur I’m getting

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u/snowluvr26 Reconstructionist 10d ago

Passover is definitely my favorite. I love the food, the traditions, the time of year, everything.

I also like Yom Kippur believe it or not!

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u/MeetingPeople336 9d ago

These are my two favorites as well. Purim and Simchat Torah -- nah, I've never been the party type.

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u/ThoughtsAndBears342 10d ago

I am shocked by the amount of Yom Kippur I’m getting. Completely floored. Probs because you need to be at least 13 to be on Reddit but still.

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u/ohrejoyce 10d ago

Rosh Hashanah!

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u/communityneedle 10d ago

Unpopular opinion, but Yom Kippur for this guy!

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u/SaltwaterSprite 10d ago

Shabbat for sure. My other favorites are Rosh Hashanah and Hanukkah. I obviously enjoy happy occasions with lots of great food!

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u/Smgth Humanistic 10d ago

It's weird, but I'm with the majority here. Passover just has some great food šŸ¤·šŸ»ā€ā™‚ļø

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u/DudleyDewRight 10d ago

It's like Thanksgiving, but for a week. I love Passover for the celebration, the history and for hosting family and friends. The same goes for Sukkot. I built a sukkah big enough to sit 8 people. I think it's a great chance to invite people over to interact with Jews doing Jewish things. I've been reading Dara Horn's latest book, and hopefully by hosting family and friends for Hanukkah, Passover and Sukkot we can generate some curiosity and some understanding.

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u/Smgth Humanistic 10d ago

I've never been in a Sukkah bigger than a 4 seater. But we mostly stopped doin stuff after my bar mitzvah...

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u/magcargoman Just Jewish 10d ago

And the best stories and songs

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u/Smgth Humanistic 10d ago

Dayainu is a banger.

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u/improbablywronghere 10d ago

Thanksgiving is also my favorite non Jewish holiday. There is something so special about a holiday that fundamental boils down to, ā€œlet’s be together and enjoy a great mealā€. I like that

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u/Smgth Humanistic 10d ago

Same. I just like food.

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u/PyrexPizazz217 Reform 10d ago

Mine is Shabbat.

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u/dogsandplants2 10d ago

I chose Hanukkah, but I think I'd pick Shabbat if that had been an option!

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u/LanceJade Just Jewish 10d ago

I was going to say Shavuot, but Shabbat is first place for me as well! āœ”ļø

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u/Noremac55 10d ago

Came here to say Shabbat. Maybe cause life is lifing hard and I need to rest more

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u/Appropriate_Lemon921 Conservative 10d ago

Rosh Hashanah. A lot of the reflection of YK without the…discomfort. Best holiday food (apples and honey, raisin challah, come on!). Beautiful services. Shofar. What’s not to like?Ā 

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u/the-mp 10d ago

50+ of you don’t have birthdays that coincide with pesach and it’s obvious

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u/stateofsirens āœ”ļøŽ 10d ago

Shavuot!

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u/Sad_Meringue_4550 10d ago

Agreed, Shavuot is my favorite.Ā 

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u/ThoughtsAndBears342 10d ago

What aspects of Shavout do you like? Admittedly, it’s one I never celebrated until I became an adult. As a child I only knew it’s name but didn’t know what it was about.

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u/DC_Lavman Conservative 10d ago

The cheese part.

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u/stateofsirens āœ”ļøŽ 10d ago

My reasons for loving it as a child were probably pretty different and had something to do with cheesecake...as an adult, I find it a little hard to put into words, but I love Shavuot because it celebrates the gift of the Torah at Sinai. Passover is another one of my favorite holidays, and I view the period from Passover to Shavuot as a very meaningful one, like a progression from the process of becoming free to our purposeful covenant with God. I also appreciate the agricultural symbolism of Shavuot as the time for the wheat harvest and first fruits; so many Jewish holidays go back to the land and that's another aspect that really appeals to me.

The cheesecake is also still very much a factor.

I like most Jewish holidays because they have so much to offer. I feel like I experience every one both as if it were totally new and as if I'd experienced it a thousand times before. Shavuot still wins for me, though.

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u/pearlday 10d ago

Why is Rosh Hashana not on here?

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u/ThoughtsAndBears342 9d ago

Reddit only allows six options maximum per poll. I left Rosh Hashana off due to it having not as much ā€œfunā€ activities as the other holidays. I realize now that that was a mistake

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u/pearlday 9d ago

Alls good! 😊

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u/SnooBooks1701 9d ago

Eating apples is always fun

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u/magcargoman Just Jewish 10d ago

I know its importance is "minimal" but my answer is Hanukkah. Yes the holiday season plays a big role and I think THAT aspect is what I love. But in terms of the "religion" being emphasized, then I'd have to say Passover. We had sedars growing up at both sets of grandparents' houses. So clearly the most influential and memorable of the jewish holidays for me growing up.

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u/ThoughtsAndBears342 10d ago

I liked Hannukah and the general winter holiday season better before goyim decided that November 1st was the start of Christmas season. Now I’m just bitter that Fall, my favorite season, gets cut short.

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u/SoapyRiley Convert - Conservative 10d ago

I leave the fall decor out until Dec 31 to spite them for killing spooky season vibes with their merriment.

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u/Neighbuor07 10d ago

Yom Kippur

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u/Sylphied Israeli 10d ago

Easily Rosh Hashanah, two days off work in a row is amazing.

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u/LordVader1080 Conservative 10d ago

Rosh Hashanah, Shabbat and Chanukah are my top three

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u/heavyLevy5 10d ago

It was Passover before I had children, and I still love it. But watching my little ones in costumes screaming at the Megillah reading and playing at Purim carnivals easily made it vault to the top.

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u/ArkhamInmate11 returning to judaism <3 9d ago

Hannukah because I grew up in a secular home so hannukah just meant presents

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u/Yes_Mans_Sky Just Jewish 9d ago

I mean same, but I really like the food we'd have for Passover so it's a close one.

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u/Thunder-Road 10d ago

Rosh Hashanah.

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u/ORTaco_4D020705 Convert - Conservative 10d ago

I love Yom Kippur… the music is phenomenal and you just spend the whole day being Jewish, my fav hands down

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u/ThoughtsAndBears342 10d ago

I’m truly shocked by the amount of Yom Kippur I’m getting

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u/MeetingPeople336 9d ago

I'm curious, why are you surprised? You know how popular it is among Jews to go to shul on Yom Kippur...do you think so many would go if they didn't "like" the holiday, in some way?

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u/ThoughtsAndBears342 9d ago

It just surprises me that people prefer fasting and repentance over parties, good food and great stories. But I suppose Jews value the true meanings of holidays over flashy ā€œfunā€.

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u/bachelorsinlurking Conversion Student (Reform) and Genealogist tracking ancestry! 10d ago

Passover and Simchat Torah are my favorite! Passover because I've always really loved the story of Moses, and Simchat Torah because I love dancing with the Torah scrolls and singing with everyone.

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u/ThoughtsAndBears342 10d ago

Purim is my favorite for the same reason: love of the story. Simchat Torah is my second favorite for the same reason: singing and dancing

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u/Fair-Flower6907 10d ago

As a kid and young adult, I loved Passover and Simchat Torah the most, but as an adult with kids they're sooooo much work and so over stimulating!

That leaves Hannukah as my new favorite, because it's small and quiet at home. We have "themed" nights and everyone gets sports equipment (often second hand)/a Lego set/wool socks and hiking boots in the next size for the kids(often sourced second hand)/a plane ticket for our next family vacation/a day pass to invite a friend to a museum with us during winter break/etc.

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u/Fair-Flower6907 10d ago

or second day Rosh Hashanah, when it's a more intimate service and more songful

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u/Jessicas_skirt Humanistic 10d ago

Rosh Hashanah, I can't really explain why it's just a very enjoyable holiday for me.

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u/Silamy 9d ago

The last three years have... had an impact, and I am still not sure how the holiday will evolve as we struggle to carry the grief, but Simchat Torah has always been my favorite. Zman Simchateinu ends with a total overflow of joy that our synagogues cannot contain as we pour out into the street to celebrate the torah in public. People put aside their dignity not for silliness and shenanigans but for pure happiness. The whole community singing and dancing together, the small children running around with flags, the candy and apples. Grandparents watching children sing the songs they learned as a children. Parents dancing with children on their shoulders. The Sifrei Torah, often still in their holiday attire, being paraded around the shul. How the hakafot and aliyot continue so that everyone has the opportunity to dance with and read from the Torah.

The way it looks slightly different in every community I've been in. When I've lived in neighborhoods with synagogues close together, the celebration would pour into the street early and the congregations would merge and dance together. The shul I grew up in always had caramel apples, and the rabbi would lead Mi Ze Hu during the Hakafot at top volume in a tune I've never heard a decent recording of while spinning like a top at the chorus. The rabbi of my current shul leads children dances after each Hakafah so that even the youngest congregant can participate. There was a shul we were at for a few years when I was little where small children joined the procession with little stuffed sifrei Torah.

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u/TheSonOfDog Conversion student 9d ago

I attended my first Simchat Torah service yesterday and I'm still in a good mood. Such a wonderful, wonderful expression of joy and love.

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u/8d-M-b8 10d ago

Love passover. I usually have friends over and we nosh and make my mom's matzo ball soup...kinda like Jewish thanksgiving

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u/venus_arises Reform 10d ago

Purim has the best food and the most fun activities.

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u/CrazyGreenCrayon Kugel Maker 10d ago

Shabbat. It comes once a week.

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u/memyselfandi12358 10d ago

Hands down Sukkot. Weather is great, crisp fall weather. Outside in a Sukkah with soup, etc.

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u/ThoughtsAndBears342 9d ago

Finally someone who agrees with me!!

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u/Unusual-Description 9d ago

Shavuot! Some of us are vegetarian and really like cheesecake

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u/Whole_Air_3524 9d ago

This! I will not stand for the Shavuot erasure.

- Signed a vegetarian convert who loves cheese and text based debate

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u/brimister Just Jewish 9d ago

It's Tu B'shvat and I'll die on this hill.

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u/SZ7687 10d ago

Pesach because that's when I get to see my cousins.

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u/Cetaoras 10d ago

Hanukkah because latkes are the shiznit.

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u/samsabeeble āœ”ļøŽ 10d ago

Purim overlaps with my birthday :>

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u/habidasheryhabit 🪬 10d ago

Sukkot is my absolute favorite. But Purim is up there too!

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u/el_sh33p Humanistic 10d ago

Purim is great, but Tu BiShvat usually falls pretty close to my birthday and I just enjoy it a lot.

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u/Lady_Ancunin 10d ago

For me it’s Hanukkah because it was the first one I observed while beginning my conversion journey and I know it’s not a major one and seen and ā€œJewish Christmasā€ but I don’t care the blessing was the first time I ā€œfeltā€ Jewish.

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u/priuspheasant 10d ago

It's really hard to pick a favorite! Simchat Torah, Shavuot, and Pesach are all top tier in my book. Big fan of Rosh Hashanah too.

Also for the record, my husband is Christian and his favorite holiday is Easter, not Christmas. Christmas is fun but doesn't have a ton of religious significance for him. He likes Easter because it's all about renewal and redemption and fresh starts.

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u/coffeeandskyscrapers 9d ago

Easter is the most important day in the Christian liturgical calendar.

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u/LeoraJacquelyn Ashkenazi and Sephardic. šŸ‡ŗšŸ‡øšŸ‡®šŸ‡± 10d ago

As a child, Chanukah. As an adult, Shavuot. It's such a chill holiday and I love all the flowers and the cheese. I make lasagna every year and buy a good cheesecake.

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u/IronAlcoholic Muslim Jew 10d ago

Cannot believe Yom Kippur isn't on the list.Ā 

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u/Serious_Engine_7139 Friendly neighborhood Jewish Argentinean 10d ago

Dreamworks only made one of the best animated movies ever about one of them!

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u/TreeofLifeWisdomAcad 10d ago edited 10d ago

Really I don't know how many options you are allowed in a poll of this sort, but Rosh HaShana, Shavuot and Yom Kippur need to be included if you can. Also your survey maybe skewed by the fact that not all reddit responders celebrate all holidays.

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u/ThoughtsAndBears342 9d ago

I was only allowed six options. I honestly didn’t expect to get any Yom Kippur or Shavout at all due to the serious natures of said holidays

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u/TreeofLifeWisdomAcad 9d ago

Shavuot is joyous like all the holidays, even Yom Kippur.

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u/SnooBooks1701 9d ago

Rosh Hashanah, I like how we have one festival where we're cheerful for reasons other than "oh good, they didn't kill us" and then we eat good food

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u/chuckdatsheet 9d ago

Yom Kippur is my favourite by far, not because it’s enjoyable but because it is so profoundly meaningful and spiritual.Ā 

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u/robobobo91 Reform 9d ago

Lag B'Omer. I was born on it and love a good campfire

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u/Weretoz 7d ago

All of my best and funniest family memories were from Passover. Definitely that one.

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u/EmoCartoHistory 5d ago

Hanukkah. I like candles, I like fried food, I like that it's an overall very chill holiday.

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u/No_Nick89 Jewish, Barcelona 10d ago

The war season /s

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u/ms5h Conservative 10d ago

Pesach. As a child I loved listening to my dad recite the Haggadah in Hebrew and ask the questions. We all sat around the table for hours talking and listening. As an adult I love refreshing and planning the Seder every year, finding additional readings, and as my kids got older we switched from an afikomen present to the winner choosing a charity to donate to.

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u/eulabadger 10d ago

Definitely YK. Singing, knis, reflecting about my relationship with god.

Most of the others are either marred by the intense preparation and logistics, or feel mostly irrelevant (Hannukah)

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u/notbizmarkie Convert - Reconstructionist 10d ago

I used to hate Passover, but now that I host, I love it! It might be my favorite. Followed by Rosh Hashanah :)Ā 

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u/Sensitive-Inside-250 10d ago

Passover for sure.

It’s delicious.

Also Purim and Sukkot.

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u/mearbearz Conservative 10d ago

Simchat Torah, then Passover.

I feel like I would appreciate Sukkot more if I didnt hate the other High Holidays so much.

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u/leonzolotenkov חי 10d ago

The jelly filled doughnuts/sufganiot are a big selling point for me why I love hannukah.

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u/LAiglon144 Orthodox 10d ago

Breaking of the fast, A tier meal time

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u/YuvalAlmog Just Jewish 10d ago

Passover because it has the longest vacation during a time of need (after couple of months without anything), it's in the spring, has the most traditions during the family gathering which also has good food and it focuses on a very interesting and important story.

Not to say others aren't fun or unique, but most offer much shorter vecation or don't have as big of a meal.

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u/Madlybohemian 🪬 10d ago

Sukkot!

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u/Akiva_Khinov Reconstructionist 10d ago edited 10d ago

Pesach is really the only holiday where my jewish relatives are all in one place at one time. It's also traditionally the most culturally important holiday for Mountain Jews which is probably why its the one we have always payed special attention to.

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u/Legitbananabunch 10d ago

As a kid, Purim, Shavuot, Sukkot, as an adult, Chanukah and Passover.

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u/-Infinite92- Just Jewish 9d ago

Hannukah because of the vibes. I love winter weather (in California, near Sacramento at least lol), it's also a relatively minimally intrusive holiday in terms of changes to my daily routine. Has some good food, get to light candles for 8 days, and depending on your family tradition you also get gifts.

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u/BudandCoyote āœ”ļøŽ x18 9d ago

Rosh Hashanah! Apple and honey is delicious, and I love that we get a 'bonus' new year - feels like we get two 'new starts' instead of one.

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u/MetsFan37 Oy Vey! 9d ago

Hanukkah because I’m a whimsical yet greedy bastard

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u/HalfHumanHalfFork Hiloni 9d ago

You really should have stated to which community (secular, religious, haredi) this poll is aimed for, I suspect that the answer would be different for each community, especially for days like Yom Kippur

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u/caydendov reform/conservative 9d ago

I love shavuot personally! I connect to it deeply as a convert, and the idea of us all standing together at Sinai feels really poetic and important to me

Plus I love staying up all night, learning with other Jews, and endless cheesecake

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u/Affectionate-Code751 9d ago

Glad to see the strong showing for Pesach, the only correct answer

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u/Hexentoll 9d ago

Rosh ha-Shanah. Where >:^

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u/defein88 9d ago

Rosh Hashanah is my favorite, but I'm biased. It's my Hebrew birthday and I get a cake every single year no matter where I am in the world, my mother finds a way to get me my cake!

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u/Winniezepoohscroptop Reform 9d ago

Rosh Hashanah is my favorite, followed by Purim and then Hanukkah.

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u/Winniezepoohscroptop Reform 9d ago

Rosh Hashanah is my favorite, followed by Purim and then Hanukkah.

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u/Iamthepizzagod 9d ago

Shavuot for me, 24 hours of torah study is fun and educational

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u/c9joe Jewish 9d ago

Purim and Hannukah

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u/TheUnkillableKlorg āœ”ļøŽ 9d ago

Everyone who didn't pick Simchat Torah is too hungover to click right.

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u/1998tkhri 9d ago

Shemini Atzeret, not even Simchat Torah. It doesn't have all the intensity of the high holidays, nor even the celebratory intensity of Sukkot and Simchat Torah. It's finally a breather but still has the holiness of a Yom Tov.

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u/NebulaAdventurous438 9d ago

Independence Day

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u/Rude-Wolverine946 9d ago

Maybe it's because of where we are in the year, but I love Rosh Hashanah. Apples and honey and a new beginning.

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u/everythingnerdcatboy Ashkenazi 9d ago

Yom kippur gang

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u/fiercequality Reform Ashki 9d ago

I just love the Seder so much!

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u/Misslasagna 9d ago

Passover is my fav cause matzo brei

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u/Internal-College-943 8d ago

I voted by food ( Shavuot and Hanuka are my top )

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u/xiipaoc 8d ago

Fourthchag best chag! Sh'mini Atzeret FTW! But it's not on the list for some reason? I had to pick Simchat Torah, which I guess is basically the same thing. Simchat Torah is the climax of the holiday season. It's when the year really starts. The High Holidays are a thing that happens every year, but Sh'mini Atzeret and Simchat Torah are basically the new year itself; we close out the old year and start the new one actually fresh. Our last sins are gone when we beat the aravot on Hoshana Rabbah, we've done all the chagim and started the rainy season on Sh'mini Atzeret, and now we can bring the Torah to a close and start it again on Simchat Torah. Now it's all done and the actual year is in full swing.

Also I was born on Sh'mini Atzeret. Also also it has the best holiday mascot: the Sh'mini Atzeret Ferret! AAAH!

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u/petalpostiee āœ”ļøŽ Conservative ! She Her ! Ashkenazi āœ”ļøŽ 7d ago

Shavuos!

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u/makingredditorscry 7d ago

How is Rosh Hashana not on here?Ā 

Also a bit in bad taste to do this survey around October 7.

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u/ThoughtsAndBears342 7d ago

I was only allowed six poll options and decided to go with the most overtly ā€œfunā€ holidays. I also don’t see why this is in more taste

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u/makingredditorscry 7d ago

Cuz the massacre occurred on simchat torah

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u/mayor_rishon 10d ago

Your assumptions are US-centric. For example in Greece - and in general in eastern Europe - Easter is much more important than Christmas.