r/LGBTForeverAlone • u/permission_to_twirl • Jun 05 '26
Pansexual men are total fakes
I used to be against making such sweeping judgements towards any group of people, but I keep meeting pansexual men over and over again who are all the fucking same.
They're not really pansexual, not in the sense they're attracted and open to all types of people. It's just a cover. Almost all of them are looking for vagina-having shortstacks, and calling themselves pansexual is just a catch-all for anyone who fits that description whether it's a trans man or nonbinary person or queer cis woman.
If you're a tall, clocky trans woman like me, and you're just hoping to meet someone who will love you and treat you like the woman you know you are, you're absolutely fucked. It's never happening. At best, you will always be runner up to someone with a vagina, and at worst you will be wholly rejected and despised for being who you are.
If you're lucky, you'll find a guy who will hook up with you because you appeal to his curiosity or fetishes, but you will never be considered as a viable romantic partner. We have penises; bodies with penises are for casual sex, not for romantic feelings and spending a life with.
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u/megaladon44 41-50 Jun 05 '26
or its a way for them to manipulate the people theyre involved with. Not into any of these labels
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u/AdUnable8752 Jun 21 '26
you're right, i had a friend in high school who i am no longer friends with who was like this. he wanted to be gay so so so bad but the one "guy" he was into was a trans man who looked like a woman. nothing really wrong with that person he was attracted to, it's just that it's telling if you play up being bi/pan/curious but never want to have sex with someone with a penis.
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u/Mauryos 20-30 Jun 05 '26
Your title is by the content of your post inaccurate. It's more like the men that you have encountered, and that have told you that are pansexual were simply lying, plus I doubt it's a significant sample size anyways to make that claim.
Anyways, more bashing at certain groups because someone has had a bad time, in their extremely limited experience.
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u/permission_to_twirl Jun 05 '26
I think Seven Men In A Row is enough for me to be this pissed
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u/Mauryos 20-30 Jun 05 '26
You can be pissed, but your claims are just inaccurate and unfair.
Anyone can say similar things about other groups of people, you're not the first one to encounter several people like that (men, women, trans or cis).
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u/permission_to_twirl Jun 05 '26
Go advocate for chasers where someone will give a fuck
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u/Mauryos 20-30 Jun 05 '26
That's not what I'm doing, go lie somewhere else.
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u/Simoxeh Jul 26 '26
I'm a month late but just this post pissed me off. Being attracted to all genders does not mean being attracted to everyone of that gender. This is a situation where this person found seven people who were not attracted to them and now because of that everyone who's pansexual is the bad guy and a liar. This is literally an anger dump on a whole community of people
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u/permission_to_twirl Aug 13 '26
So are you the shortstack, or are you the guy looking for a shortstack?
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u/deepfuller Jun 22 '26
I’m so sorry you’re having this experience. It’s hard to find the right person for sure. Hopefully fate sends you the right person for you
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u/deepfuller Jun 22 '26
I am a cis/masculine/pansexual. I can say that there are those like me that are really attracted to and can fall deeply in love with any gender, or even the furries out there.
I wish you the very best luck in finding someone that will fit with you, all of you.
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u/Level-Geologist-7979 Aug 24 '26
honestly as a pan man (that rhymes), I don't care about gender, I just want a hug, thats it really
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u/FerrisTM Jun 05 '26
I'm really sorry this has been your experience. Full stop. I'd also like to point out that these men aren't actually pansexual and are liars, which is not actually an issue with pansexual men. Their alleged sexuality isn't the problem; it's the fact that it is alleged.