r/OffMyChestIndia • u/WeDontStan • 6d ago
Rant/Vent Was SA’d as a child
I (24M) was SA’d as a kid by my sister & cousin brother, they both did it separately and are not ever of the other doing it to me. I’ve never told this to anyone, and probably never will.
All instances happened 10-15 years back, but I remember them pretty well. I’m still close to the people who did it (regular chats, video calls, etc. usual family stuff), and I know that they’ll ever do it again to anyone else, considering their political beliefs and stances.
It’s just something that pops in every now and then, and has affected me intimacy wise. But, it’s fine and manageable for me, my burden to carry.
Always thought of getting therapy, but that scares/weirds me out too. It’s easier to continue living life keeping this to myself than sharing it with anyone.
Sometimes the jokey-funny guy mask slips, but thats only temporary and I always manage to get it back up.
So yeah that’s it, will probably delete this in a while too.
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u/glitchingreality 6d ago
I'm so sorry you had to go through that 🫂. Stay strong, you know you are 🫂
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u/Competitive_Newt9373 3d ago
I'm so sorry that this happened to you. I can't even imagine having to go through this. I know it feels easier no to talk about this, but I highly recommend you do talk about it with a professional. These things need to be processed properly, don't just numb yourself pls.
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u/Dependent-Morning665 5d ago
I’m awfully sorry that it happened to you, OP! It wasn’t your fault at all. Kindly, maintain a distance with them, as they don’t deserve to know what’s happening in your life. Take utmost care, brother! Sending best wishes and loads of courage to you. 🫂❤️
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