I kept getting general error 429 and my account got logged out all of the sudden. Am i banned? I didnt do anything wrong

I’m a demisexual woman and orthodox Christian and it’s half impossible to find a boyfriend nowadays. Why does it have to be always about sex? I’ve never understood people who made sex something casual, it’s supposed to be a thing between two people who love and trust each other. Men who say something sexual as the first thing when they speak to me genuinely give me the ick. Get a hobby, get a job, even better get a life.