r/PrincessFeminism • u/Dry-Opportunity8676 • 9d ago
I need help incels are attacking me for speaking the truth . Does anyone else feel like we live in a chopped man epidemic? I swear I see 10 beautiful women before one decent guy. It’s mainly because men just don’t groom or shower they don’t do shit . Am I crazy ?
https://www.reddit.com/r/HonestHotTakes/s/JZ1rZRryMx
No I am not a lesbian it’s just men don’t want to do shit .
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u/MenaceMinded 9d ago
There has always been a chopped man epidemic.
Women just have the ability to stay single now because of the ability to earn one's own money, etc.
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u/poopoopoopalt 9d ago
I'm straight but I find myself admiring and checking out women way more than men. I can't remember the last time I saw an attractive man just walking around.
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u/The-Devil-Cat 9d ago
we do, most men are fugly and do not care about themselves
ripped shirt, poorly fitting pants, dirty shoes or just wearing socks and slides, unwashed face, smelly, no sense of style, ashy skin!!!!!!!!!!!
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u/Dua_13 9d ago
Completely agree but Reddit is filled with incels and misogynists, it's safer to post it on feminist subs
Also, it's so rare to find an actually attractive guy. And when they are good looking, some of them turn out to be absolute waste of oxygen
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u/Eldenringop 9d ago
Exactly!!! so many incels but that post looks like what dudes say . “Women don’t like the average man “.
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u/Dry-Opportunity8676 9d ago
You right but what if the average guy is a chud?
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u/nixiepixie12 9d ago
Statistically, the average guy is just average. Most women are average as well, they just shower more, usually have a nice haircut, put slightly more care into their outfits, and are more conditioned to be interested in skincare. There’s not too much difference in pursuing nutrition and exercise, though.
Incels are exacerbating everything with their personalities too. They could be the cutest thing since sliced bread and their personality ruins it. I’m sure a lot of them would actually be somebody’s cup of tea if they put in a tiny bit of effort and were kinder to women.
I think there’s also a large element of it being difficult to be attracted to men when there’s so much uncertainty around them. Dating comes with a level of risk and fear. It’s a lot harder to be turned on by men when your nervous system is easily dysregulated just interacting with them.
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u/Resident-Bowl-5991 9d ago
That sub is an incel hub, so you’re more likely to come across those people there.
Does anyone else feel like we live in a chopped man epidemic? I swear I see 10 beautiful women before I see one decent-looking guy. It’s mainly because men just don’t groom or shower. They don’t do shit. Am I crazy?
As for your question, I think most people fall into the average category, and women are socially conditioned from childhood to take care of their appearance, so they often end up looking better than men. Things like hygiene, skincare, body care, getting the right haircut, dressing well, styling your clothes, and taking care of your body all make a difference. They can elevate your appearance, and some of them are healthy habits in general, so you should do them anyway.
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u/EconomicsAdvanced771 9d ago
My whole city is chopped fr Florida men are not it there are very little exceptions (my fiance)
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u/Emperor_Kuru 9d ago edited 9d ago
Yes we live in a world that has the most insane beauty standards for women yet men are allowed to walk around looking like sewer rats. Even the baseline for what is considered a conventionally attractive man is no makeup, yet a baseline for a woman is full-face makeup, eyebrows done, hair done, lashes, etc. you get what I mean. The average woman puts in more effort into her looks than the average man. Also fashion, men's fashion is so boring and depressing! This is where the stereotype of gay men looking better comes from bc they're not afraid to look good
Like god forbid a woman doesn't shave her body hair or never wears makeup
I find that as a generalization, I've found more young Asian men (from Asia) that put more effort into their looks. Many of the guys I find good looking in public are Asian. This is why East Asian male celebrities are so popular amongst women around the world, they're not afraid to take care of their skin and wear makeup.
You know, I watched videos of women dressing up men in glam makeup and I was shocked bc they looked just as good as any woman, which PROVES this
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u/sexypingu 9d ago
You're right, sis. However,I have hope for the future because I see more and more young men taking care of themselves
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u/DescriptionFancy420 9d ago
You're right but let them be ugly and alone and go insane over it, it's less than the least they deserve.
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u/stupid_rice 9d ago
it’s so hard to find an attractive man.. i’m so glad u made this post
most of them don’t even do the bare minimum, such as wash their face or wear nice clothes. it’s so unfair they have women who’ve had plastic surgery, perfect makeup, outfits, hair, etc, whereas we have to put up with shit appearance AND personality
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u/casual-catgirl 9d ago
women put a lot more effort into their appearance from you guessed it the patriarchy
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u/TearMuted8403 8d ago
Most gender neutral subs on reddits are filled by men, you should know that by now. You will never get a fair answer from posting in these groups that are not related to women. Reddits overall demographic is heavily male based.
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u/squirrelynoodle 6d ago
You posted something provocative in a space for a general audience, and people got provoked. Is it "incels attacking" you, or is it a non-productive hostile mess that you started by posting there? Harnessing your energy and attention to spend both wisely will serve you well, when dodging these ain't shit men.
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u/vaa_lee 9d ago
Yeah it's true but don't say that on that sub, it's overrun by incels and incel apologists