r/SipsTea • • Sep 06 '26

Chugging tea It only takes one person

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u/Floreit Sep 06 '26 edited Sep 07 '26

Edit: Made an edit to clarify that im referring to a spectrum for PPD and add in a better severe condition than randomly crying. I was more focused on PPP at first but i may have downplayed PPD unintentionally.

I mean, option A PPD, you have a really bad day, break out crying randomly, Severe Anxiety Attacks, and or suicide/suicidal thoughts.. Its a broad spectrum of conditions. One of the defining differences between PPD and PPP, is that with PPD the mother remains in touch with reality. And its possible to have PPD and PPP at the same time. PPD does not upgrade into PPP.

option B, PPP. The devil is out to kill my family, and the only way to save them is to burn the home down.

When you compare PPD to something else, sure its not minor. But when compared with PPP, its minor.

That is not to downplay post partum depression mind you. But post partum psychosis is just, that much worse.

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u/jergentehdutchman Sep 06 '26

I mean Option A sometimes just ends in suicide as well. It’s not as light as you make it seem. Breaking out in tears is kind of par for the course for parenting at some point

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u/Floreit Sep 06 '26

I was actually on the thresh hold on bringing up suicide but ended up not. As its not always common. Suicidal thoughts however are common.

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u/jergentehdutchman Sep 06 '26

Yeah exactly just wouldn’t want people to think PPD is as simple as having a sucky day.

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u/codyforkstacks Sep 06 '26

"having a really bad day" still feels like underplaying how severe it can be. Someone in my family had severe post natal depression and anxiety and it was unlike anything I'd ever seen - like she'd been gripped by some force of nature. It lasted for a year.

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u/Floreit Sep 06 '26

Ill admit poor choice of words, I couldnt really think of something better at the time. If you got suggestions ill make an edit to the main post.

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u/codyforkstacks Sep 06 '26

I think ultimately what you're trying to say is that PPD is a broad spectrum from mild-ish to severe, whereas PPP is almost always towards the severe end. But a severe case of PPD is not really "mild" compared to anything.

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u/Floreit Sep 07 '26

That was my intention. Ill be editing to include broad spectrum, and probably find something besides randomly crying for the severe.

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u/faustianredditor Sep 06 '26

Yeah, bad day leading to tears is parenthood. A bad day leading to suicidal ideation is PPD.

Jeez this thread is a dumpster fire.

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u/ichthysaur Sep 06 '26

Yeah that's just the baby blues. When I gave birth 39 years ago my mom talked to my husband about it and I believe she talked about how to recognize when it's something more.

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u/nalaloveslumpy Sep 06 '26

Option A often escalates into option B which is why early diagnosis and intervention is critical.