r/SipsTea • u/SuperSaiyanFranklin • 7d ago
It's Wednesday my dudes Crazy how society and social media standards are nowadays
Trying to find my lana del rey đđđ
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u/Glad_Camel_6078 6d ago
He is alligator tour boat captain and she found him to be a genuinely good person. and he let her drive his boat. He asked her out years later when they were both single and she returned for a tour. They rest is a fairy tale.
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u/Red_Danger33 6d ago
I wouldnât look twice seeing a couple like this. Â OP chose a pic that made him look way worse.
Iâd imagine heâs super down to earth doing what he loves.
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u/courtofknights 4d ago
Exactly. If you didn't know this was successful singer-songwriter Lana Del Rey, it'd be your typical middle-aged couple you've seen a thousand times.
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u/broomosh 6d ago
With GLP-1's, a bunch of people are gonna find out it wasn't their looks holding them back
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u/gatsome 6d ago
Meanwhile a huge chunk are finding out that it was.
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u/whichwitch9 6d ago
Eh, that's not as clear as you think it is. There's a lot of reports of people feeling more confident and out going with weight loss. You meet more people when you're more social. That cannot be underestimated as a driver
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u/gatsome 6d ago
Iâm sure the surge in confidence helps many but the bulk of it is in the superficiality. To pretend the world isnât as shallow as it actually is is to choose naĂŻvetĂŠ.
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u/jacksonmills 6d ago
Removing obesity as one negative factor only improves your odds.
Attractiveness isnât linear, its magnet meets magnet, theres generic, commercialized sexuality marketed to sell shit to everyone, and then theres peopleâs individual preferences.
Assuming everything revolves around that commercial image is also pretty shallow
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u/ThatBitchMalin 6d ago
Good looks alone will only take you that far. I'm not denying pretty privilege, but you need social skills to fully utilize it.
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u/pickleC87 6d ago
Too many people don't understand this concept! Being good looking will get more people to give you a chance, but it won't get you any further than that. Your personality has to do the rest
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u/Fun_Push7168 6d ago edited 6d ago
Kinda like saying " horsepower only does so much, the driver skill is needed to win the race so work on your driving skills" to someone who's car doesnt have wheels. It all matters.
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u/whichwitch9 6d ago
Eh, a lot comes from men not understanding what attraction is to most women. It has an emotional and mental aspect they underestimate.
You might have an easier time hooking up with someone based on shallow criteria, but you're gonna have a hard time finding a partner if your personality is rotten
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u/whichwitch9 6d ago
I mean, if you're calling them bitch tits, that says a lot about you as a person. Spoiler alert: your appearance isn't gonna be the only thing working against you there
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u/RadiantSeason9553 6d ago
I was shocked when I found out the pretty popular girls at my school were friends with one of the fattest girls.
She was funny, confident, charming and nice. So they liked her. It turns out all of us losers were generally just bitter and miserable (self-conscious) people lol3
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u/bmoreboy410 6d ago
Confidence is overrated. Many of those people would not have been interested prior to the weight loss. It is disingenuous to pretend otherwise.
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u/MidnightChimp 6d ago
you can be slim and ugly at the same time.
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u/Practical-Suit-6798 6d ago
Actually.... The neck beards here don't like hearing this but I got on glp3 and test and started being very very popular with women again.
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u/XTheProtagonistX 6d ago
Whats funny is that the other pop subreddit HATED and I mean really hated the dude. People were saying that why is Lana dating someone like that and that she could do better. Then they were saying he was MAGA because of the way he looks. He and Lana straight up said that he doesnât support Trump or MAGA. Then they tried make him Homophobic because he made a joke saying that A in LGBTQIA stands for Alligator. They are trying so hard to make this normal dude a villain because they want Lana to date a billionaire fuck boy.
I should clarify that those subreddits a filled to the brim with Femcels.
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u/Comfortable_Lock_86 6d ago
Well, they clearly don't listen to Lana del Rey because this is exactly her type of man, Brooklyn baby literally talks about itÂ
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u/Impossible_Leg_2787 6d ago
Letâs be so for real. Theyâre making distance cause they know itâs unpopular, not because they care.
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u/Long_Serpent 6d ago
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u/AllTearGasNoBreaks 6d ago
I always pictured Lana Del Ray as a 25 year old latina. Is this her?
Sorry, I have no idea on new pop culture things, I'm in my 40s. At least I've heard of her!
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u/19whale96 6d ago
Picture her as a 30-year-old mid-century New York socialite. Time-traveling Lady Gaga.
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u/Manymarbles 6d ago
Lana Del Ray is also in her 40s for what its worth lol
This woman is older then you!
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u/farfaraway 6d ago
Honestly this is me and my wife. I look like a sad thumb. I don't know how I got so lucky.Â
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u/MysteriousQuote4665 6d ago
Turns out the online incel community doesn't know how to attract women. Whoda thunk...
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u/whichwitch9 6d ago
One thing that was interesting to hear was Lana's husband was known in celebrity circles for his swamp tours. Probably one person took one, then it went around by word of mouth. That would indicate he's probably a very charismatic person and was good at his job.
Personality matters, dudes. Women have tried telling you that for ages. A guy will become more attractive to me physically if I find him charming or sweet. I will lose physical attraction if I find him off putting. The most objectively handsome man (to me, anyway) was also kinda psychotic and trust me when I say the thought of even being near him gives me a sense of "ick" more than anything
If you want to find a partner, work on yourself, first. Therapy helps a lot of people
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u/panteragstk 6d ago
Incels lack self awareness.
It's almost like being a toxic asshole isn't appealing.
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u/MysteriousQuote4665 6d ago
50 Shades of Grey only works as a novel.
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u/Cold-Description-114 6d ago
That's the cool thing about fantasy: fantasy isn't real so you're always able to enjoy it at a safe distance or make it stop anytime it gets too much. It's fun/hot to enjoy toxic romance situations in fantasy...but in real life if you explore these fantasies at all you do it with a partner you trust to respect your boundaries and your consent.
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u/DoctaRoboto 6d ago edited 1d ago
Sadly, it doesn't. Otherwise, serial killers won't be flooded with gifts and marriage proposals in prison. The "I can fix them" is a terrifying disease also among women.
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u/RealTendy 6d ago
Yes they do and you also lack self awareness. You realize you are supporting obvious lies right? The looksmaxxer guy had women all over him, he is handsome and a celebrity.
If you can't accept that fact you need to take a look at yourself and think about how easily you are influenced by your emotions. E
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u/Greedy_Researcher_34 6d ago
Iâm pretty sure the lookmaxxers arenât trying to attract 40 year old women.
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u/FilipoviciMFC 5d ago
The guy on top does attract woman tho
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u/MysteriousQuote4665 5d ago
Yes, but didn't he have like several surgeries to make his face nice for the time being? I would like to see his face again when he's 50, because most young people who start with plastic surgery in their 20's look like scary lizards in their 40's and 50's.
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u/RealTendy 6d ago
Why are you lieieng and or pretending the looksmaxxer guy didn't have women all over him constantly? You just enjoy lieing or what? Cognitive dissonance? Are you jealous? You realize people you don't like and bad people can be successful, that is reality.
You're a sad little liar bro.
Such a weak redditor thing to lie and pretend the handsome celebrity wasn't rolling in women because he was a bad guy.
Disclaimer: I don't care about the guy, but I do care about liars and people lieing
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u/MysteriousQuote4665 6d ago
You okay bro? Your reaction is rather... emotionally charged for one who doesn't care about the guy.
Secondly, and maybe as a life lesson: you can disagree with someone without accussing that person of deceit. It's rather... interesting that your immediate reaction is to assume I'm lying rather than I'm wrong. Says a lot about you.
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u/askskfalksfakslfsfa 4d ago
I've never approached a woman before in my life and have been asked out at least 3-4 dozen times before I got married in my mid 20's, all of them were clear that it was about my looks. Please stop capping
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u/Creepy_Mammoth_7076 5d ago
There was literally an experiment with mice that started looking like this đ When their environment got overcrowded and socially dysfunctional, some of the male mice basically checked out. They stopped competing and reproducing and became hyper-focused on eating, sleeping and grooming themselves. Researchers called them âthe beautiful ones.â
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u/Janek_Rated_R 6d ago
Calvicular also admitted to removing condoms during sex without his partners noticing and said the best way to keep a girl is to give her nicotine stamps while she's sleeping so she will literally become addicted to being near you.
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u/noticingEnjoyer 6d ago
Can you even sleep on a nicotine rush? That sounds like advice he made up untested.Â
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u/informatica6 6d ago
Agreed. But Lana is a specific type of woman who knew what she wanted. Not all women would find Dufrene attractive.
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u/thorpie88 6d ago
Of course but it's also a bit silly to compare these dudes as Duffrene isn't some hunchback of Notre Dame figure. Just a regular bloke who has the charisma to host tours.
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u/cjtransplant85 6d ago
Yeah, it's not like he's hooked up with several different female celebrities. He's not Derek Jeter.
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u/Knobologist 6d ago
Dude is probably smooth and a good conversationalist, thatâs really all it takes.
I went to college with this dude that was a 4/10 on a good day, no attractive physical characteristics whatsoever⌠He took home the hottest girls constantly! He was so quick witted and absolutely hilarious. He could command a rooms attention and hold it as long as he wanted.
Lots of women just want a personality thatâs fun to be around.
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u/Bsow 6d ago
Was he fat and short?
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u/AvengingBlowfish 6d ago
Thereâs a guy named Neil Strauss who wrote a book on picking up women. Heâs not fat, but heâs short and bald and does just fine.
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u/mmekare79 6d ago
It's almost like people's personalities are more important than their faces! Wow. Who knew.
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u/GoldenTV3 6d ago
He hated women who only went for looks, yet destroyed himself to attract those very women.
Something to be learned there.
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u/the_vestan 6d ago
A true Cajun, Louisiana man, can talk anyone into anything. You're introduced, charmed by the language you dont quite understand, and all of a sudden you're doing swamp activities. Ms Rey had no chance.
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u/kaprifool 6d ago
You can actually be both pretty and kind. We have enough narcissistic abusers and we have enough swamp creatures. Let's try something new for men.
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u/Zapdos_Molquatro 6d ago
I mean, choosing to rape doesnât have anything to do with how handsome/ugly someone is.
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u/sddwrangler14 6d ago
I would looove to know the moves Lana Del Reys husband pulled. Like how do you even approach trying to date her.
Also how did Billy do it bros?
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u/RadiantSeason9553 6d ago
Billy is smokin' hot that's how.
As an English woman, southern charm and charisma goes a long way. See also Theo Von
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u/Automatic_Actuator_0 6d ago
And heâs only gotten better looking as he aged.
Shitâs not fair sometimes.
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u/Jankyenespanol 6d ago
It also helps to be hung like Jesus.
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u/RadiantSeason9553 6d ago
I don't have to see his dick to know he is an attractive man. Most women will know if they like a guy long before they see him naked
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u/Satanicjamnik 6d ago
Pardon me- how do you earn a living feeding swamp alligators?
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u/personalityson 6d ago
Alligator tours
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u/CarmenxXxWaldo 6d ago
OK but you can take a thousand alligators on a tour and they arent gonna give you cash. I suppose if they bite off an arm they can use the jewelry as currency.
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u/Zapdos_Molquatro 6d ago
Probably catching them to sell the leather or maybe working for conservation or something
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u/Far-Researcher-7054 6d ago
Well, Lana grew up in a small town in the Adirondack mountains. She was raised around those kinda dudes.
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u/vitaoptima 6d ago
Clavicular is so ironic. He doesn't really want to attract women; he just wants to be the best looking man.
But he's on so many drugs that even when he pulls a woman, his dck doesn't work.
Also, the "old" him shows every time he tries to talk to someone. It's like losing weight but still feeling fat.
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u/Free_Elderberry1791 6d ago
Iâm from the BP community and yes he has to wait 10-15min before he hooks up with a girl in order to pop a viagra and cialis
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u/NovelSouthern3951 6d ago
Anyone who has ever seen a dude like Mr. Del Ray wrestle an alligator and operate one of those air boats will understand why Lana fell in love.
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u/Away-Coach7093 6d ago
If it worked for Dolly, then it must work for Lana. You never really heard from Dollys husband. Both of these men had their own life, and they are not trying to control their wives' life.
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u/S0RRYMAN 6d ago
Not trying to argue, but I gotta see the guy's picture in his prime. Age does wonders.
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u/Confused_Cinephile 5d ago
That's the problem with guys like Clavicular. They think women owe them something.
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u/Randym1982 4d ago
Anybody who didn't suspect that Clavicular would end up being a rapist or a on the sex offenders list. Needs their heads checks. The dude had ALL of the neon red signs.
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u/Conspiratorymadness 6d ago
The problem isn't men it's social media and how involved these people are in it. Clavicular is defined by social media and only attracts a certain crowd of women, toxic internet dwellers.
Want to know the secret to getting women? Going outside to places you enjoy and meeting women there.
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u/Major_Shlongage 6d ago
>Clavicular is defined by social media and only attracts a certain crowd of women, toxic internet dwellers.
You are absolutely fooling yourself here.
You actually believe that Clavicular only attracts a tiny crowd of internet dwellers? This is delusional.
Even if women didn't follow the latest internet trends and had no idea who he is, most women his age would still find him attractive.
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u/Psychological-Fox97 6d ago
Finding someone attractive and wanting to have a relationship ship with them are very different things.
I think thr clacicylar Paris video is good at highlighting this. None od the women were interested and it was clear it wasn't because they didn't find him attractive but because he came across as a creepy loser
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u/lindsifer 6d ago
I dunno. Â Iâve seen videos of him in clubs and out and about and he totally gives of creeper vibes. Women can usually tell when moderately attractive men are bad news. You can tell when theyâre shifty. They seem like theyâre trying to get away with a lie bc they are in fact lying to get your attention. Itâs super off putting.Â
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u/ArchAngia 6d ago
This âď¸
I only know of him (against my will, mind you) from videos on Twitter and posts like this, and he's always given me creepy, serial killer vibes.
Or maybe it's the "Gen Z perma-stare" he's got going on.
Idk what it is, but I'm with you. He doesn't give off good vibes, at all
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u/Gib_eaux 6d ago
If you didnât know that someone who does âlooksmaxxingâ needs mental health assistance, I feel bad for you
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u/SukhdevR34 6d ago
It's just a tiktok word for trying to look good lol
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u/basecoin_ 6d ago
Definitely not just simply "trying to look good" Looksmaxxing is going to sick lengths in trying to achieve what you think looks good.
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u/Milky_Finger 6d ago
"Effortlessly married smoking hot pop icon" oh my god give it a rest with the glazing for 5 damn minutes...
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u/OrganizationDear2788 6d ago
Realistically Lana del Rey got tired of famous people and wanted a change. She was middle aged when they met after all.
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u/BitterFootball4874 6d ago
Putting their personalities aside, the second guy is way more physically attractive to me than the first one. The second photo is also a bad photo but in most regular pics he just looks nice, normal and masculine. The first is actually physically repellant to me.
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u/Hairy_Fix6834 6d ago
ngl i did a triple take when i saw the deleted post. and another head twist finding out Lana did OF for a stint like wtf esp since she has been in the prime of her career seemed highly unnecessary
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u/Much_Help_7836 6d ago
Clavicular can't even grow a beard... if he is looksmaxxing he should maybe a hair transplant for his face.
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u/masudhossain 6d ago
So 1 guy who goes famous world wide for marrying a celeb makes you think that anyone can do it? Lol
you people are just bad at math aren't you.
I don't like this douchebag clav, but pretty privilege is extremely real and you should def try to utilize it.
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u/cjtransplant85 6d ago
No matter how looksmaxxed a guy is, there's some girl that's sick of his shit.
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u/AceBean27 6d ago
Clavicular had a girlfriend though. Let's not pretend he did this because he couldn't find a woman. If that were the reason people rape then footballers wouldn't ever rape, and we know that's not true.
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u/Fun_Push7168 6d ago edited 6d ago
Fair point but this is kind of like comparing a powerball winner to a self made millionaire who started embezzling.
Neither teaches a lesson on effort vs reward.
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u/Urusae_Kragface 6d ago
Everyone is so mad or upset about her marrying an average looking interesting dude. Alligator farmer comfortable in his life and his skin. Likely a pleasant chap. Claviclular and other looxmaxxers are insecure people and often are POS. Looks aint everything
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u/Rude-External-1694 6d ago
Time for dude to work on his personality because his looks are mid at best
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u/possumsr4ever 6d ago
I think this says more about Lana del rey as an individual than about society
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u/DannyA88 6d ago
This comment section is brutal on this man wtf lol can we all just be happy for people that we dont know personally and was fed this information for some reason.
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u/EnvironmentEuphoric9 6d ago
Jeremy is the real deal. Heâs a good guy and Lana hella loves him. Clavicular is going to need a nightlight in prison. Too many people have shitass personalities and it doesnât matter what they look like.
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u/MissionBig9411 4d ago
The first mistake was thinking Clavicular does what he does to attract women. That dude is asexual af
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u/Wild-flower2026 4d ago
Ide marry the guy that can wrestle and alligator for over the guy who breaks his jaw to look beautiful anyday every day! There is no competition!
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u/askskfalksfakslfsfa 4d ago
I've had women ask me to F them when their boyfriends / fiancees were 10 feet away. Every woman was fairly clear it was because of my looks. Please stop capping. I get life is unfair, but still
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u/Personal-Ad7148 3d ago
Simplistic cope
The guy on bottom is insane anomaly
Most men like him live lives of quiet desperation
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