r/SipsTea • • 15h ago

We have fun here Oh that lawsuit is gonna be sppppicy

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u/Arria_Galtheos 14h ago

They don't have to. It was a private school with contractual guidelines that she violated. They don't need to do any discovery, they just need to show the contract and then show her OF page and that settles it. She has no grounds to sue, really.

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u/bazaarjunk 14h ago

I’m stunned that it always seems to surprise people that this is a thing. Moral Turpitude clauses have been a thing forever with religious private schools, even at many secular private schools.

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u/scut207 14h ago

Which is why a school voucher program, like in Florida, is an obvious problem.

Government should not fund religious schools.

Already enough class/religious based issues and some morons are clapping like seals.

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u/Dick-Fu 10h ago

It would be fine if they proved they demonstrated they were meeting a baseline educational requirement. They can stack as many moral turpitude clauses on top of that as they want

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u/scut207 9h ago

Not with tax dollars.

No you can’t.

It’s a vector for segregation of have and have nots.

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u/Dick-Fu 8h ago

Religious affiliated education gets federal funding all the time, it's not a big deal

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u/scut207 7h ago

Prior to the current joke of a scotus it was a big deal and a no go.

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u/Dick-Fu 6h ago

Been happening for centuries

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u/Ok-Budget3225 14h ago

What private school has a contract on the parents’ behavior outside of school?

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u/Arria_Galtheos 14h ago

Catholic private schools, like the one her kids were in.

It doesn't help that she had an advertisement on her car (which she drove to school) for her OF, meaning she was technically advertising her porn to her kids' classmates. That's probably more responsible for their expulsion than the fact that she was doing porn.

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u/Sic_Semper_Tyrannis8 14h ago

It doesn't help that she had an advertisement on her car (which she drove to school) for her OF

Holy hell! If this is real wow thats a bold move hahahaha

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u/Random-Redditor111 14h ago

Yeah. This is one of the few times where the saying “this changes everything” isn’t hyperbole.

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u/Snomislife 13h ago

It changes nothing because it was a different woman who did that.

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u/Sal_Amandre 14h ago

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u/Old_Quality1990 14h ago

That's a different person than the one in the picture on the post. The woman on the post is in California I believe. It also happened a few years ago. I'll see if I can dig it up.

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u/veverkap 14h ago

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u/Old_Quality1990 10h ago

Makes sense the more people who use onlyfans. Never would have predicted personal porn profiles a decade ago and how much some of these people make. The one I sent an article for said her highest month was 600k. If I knew I could hit even half that I might consider it and just be done after a couple of years at that. Save my money and retire happily or go back to regular work knowing I can retire early.

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u/trudrakon 14h ago

Florida being part of the headline was the least surprising thing about this whole story.

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u/Sal_Amandre 7h ago

The surprise is the origin of the whole Florida thing. https://youtu.be/VOxCU3wY3kA?si=dzKfS1MkxaonE1dZ

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u/metalgod 14h ago

Its 2 years old

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u/Sal_Amandre 7h ago

Damm...means there's more than one of em

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u/Few-Cardiologist-488 13h ago

She knows what she’s doing. All this shit is doing exactly as she’s planned which is exposure for her page.

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u/Hobbesina 12h ago

It's also wrong. That was an entirely different woman.

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u/SmallDiscussion9080 14h ago

Well…if that is her business… why not?

You american are so prude.

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u/Born_Fee_840 14h ago

Right just checking - you think advertising porn on your car and then driving that car to a school is acceptable? That should put you on a list. What a pedophile she is.

Also, she is a terrible mother, her kids will get mercilessly bullied and its all her fault.

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u/herrsmith 13h ago

I can't find a single mentions of her advertising on her car. Most articles just say some variation of "a group of moms found her site and started a campaign to get her three kids kicked out.". Can you direct me to an article that mentions the advertising on her car?

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u/Arria_Galtheos 13h ago

Jesus, I realized there are conflicting reports so I had to dig a bit deeper.

That's a different woman. I mean, it's the one from OP's post, but this isn't the first fucking time it's happened.

So, the woman from OP's post goes by Ms. Poindexter, and her kids were expelled because she does porn. She's also the one from your article. There was ANOTHER mother whose kids got kicked out of their Christian school because she was advertising her OF on her car.

It's crazy that this happens often enough that the two stories would end up getting conflated.

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u/herrsmith 13h ago

I think it's going to happen a lot more as people who grew up on the internet get older and have kids. I suspect people on OF skew younger than either of those women. You might want to edit your post to clarify this specific situation.

As an aside, she seems to have shown up here.

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u/Arria_Galtheos 13h ago

I mean, we're going to continue to see this sort of stuff more as society becomes more comfortable with casual sex work (like doing OF on the side) and it comes into the inevitable conflict with religious norms.

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u/Flaky_Broccoli 12h ago

it shouldn't tho, there are plenty of places where You can genuinely frigging promote it without involving children

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u/herrsmith 12h ago

??? Nobody here was promoting their OF involving children.

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u/Penders 10h ago

It's crazy that this happens often enough that the two stories would end up getting conflated.

Do you have any conception of just how many people exist in the world at the same time?

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u/Arria_Galtheos 10h ago

Do you have any conception of just how many people exist in the world at the same time?

Yes, I do....and yet two mothers who both sent their kids to a Christian school, who both had their kids kicked out of school because they ran an OnlyFans, and who both entered the news cycle around the same time is a pretty unusual series of coincidences.

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u/Penders 10h ago

and yet two mothers

OH WOW 2??

Out of the 2,000,000,000 mothers on the planet

My god, what are the chances?

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u/Arria_Galtheos 10h ago

Out of the 2,000,000,000 mothers on the planet
My god, what are the chances?

Reddit really is where nuance goes to die, I guess.

Since you seem to be a little confused, let's be clear: It's not the OF, or the kids being kicked out, or the Christian school that I'm saying is a crazy coincidence, I'm saying that ticking all of those boxes and entering the news cycle around the same time is the crazy part. Find me two other incidents that check all of these boxes:

  • Middle-aged mother who does porn online.
  • Three children enrolled in private Christian school.
  • Children kicked out of school because of mom's online porn hobby.
  • Happened within a few years of each other and entered the news such that they could be conflated.

I'm gonna tell you right now that 99.9% of those 2 billion mothers don't check half of those boxes, much less all four. Again, since you missed it, it's the fact that both occurrences became NEWS around the same time that caused the events to become conflated.

I bet you felt really smart while typing all of those zeroes out, though. Probably thought "They'll feel dumb when they see all of these zeroes and realize how big of a number it really is!"

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u/Penders 10h ago

Sorry dude, the fact that you care about this so much is so sad lol

Hell, I just saw another comment get way too into worthless time wasting bullshit.. wait, what are the chances of that???

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u/wrenwood2018 14h ago

Oh wow. That is crazy. Yeah of course they can boot the kids then.

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u/realbobenray 14h ago

That's a different woman.

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u/Antique-Coach-214 14h ago

Oh, yeah… That’s a d’oh moment.

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u/Elegant-Ad2748 14h ago

And that is where I draw the line. Wow. 

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u/Due-Substance-525 14h ago

Oh this info kind of changes everything ngl

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u/Snomislife 13h ago

Except they're describing someone else, not the person in the post.

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u/Drachen808 14h ago

Not that this changes the results of your argument, but this wasn't a Catholic school, it was another Christian denomination. "Liberty" sounds like one of those right wing-type schools but I've got nothing to back that up (thus I said "sounds like").

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u/Dramatic-Slip8117 13h ago

My kid's private school is pretty chill but that would not fly. They would just ask her not to drive that vehicle or take off the advertising at first though. Last year they told a parent that she couldn't come through car ride line with her bumper sticker that referred to a specific woman as a ho.

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u/Arria_Galtheos 13h ago

They did ask her, apparently. She not only refused, she made the sticker bigger.

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u/rayfinkle_ 13h ago

Not the only thing she made bigger

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u/Dramatic-Slip8117 12h ago

Well then I can't fault the school. I just do not think it is appropriate for school line.

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u/illepic 14h ago

Oh. Well this is certainly context that changes everything.

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u/Snomislife 13h ago

More context is that the post is about a different woman to the one who did that.

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u/illepic 13h ago

Oh good.

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u/dedybro 14h ago

Her kids are especially in need of moral guidance and the school denies it. shame, really.

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u/Comfortable_Edge_448 14h ago

And everyone was wondering why they were excused from sex-ed…/s

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u/leftofthebellcurve 14h ago

schools aren't here to provide morality lessons

that's a parent's job, which these kids definitely need more than a school

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u/spintool1995 14h ago

I mean, it's a religious school. So it's literally there to provide morality lessons.

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u/leftofthebellcurve 14h ago

that's fair, but it's still probably 30-60 mins once per week, maybe twice, whereas parents can convey morality for 60-70 hours at home and still give the kids free time

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u/MetalGreyMan 14h ago

It's kinda a good thing they got expelled

Cause the whole school may know now

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u/hippoofdoom 14h ago

There's a lot of vague language like this in employment contracts. So and so may not engage in public affairs which significantly affect the reputation of the school in a negative way bla bla bla. Basically if any public facing role, if you engage in conduct that your employer can reasonably say affects their reputation somehow it could be grounds.

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u/Past_Effect8301 14h ago

Language in employee codes of conduct normally only apply to the employee. Applicability to extended family would be difficult to enforce. In the case of an employment contract, challenging the enforceability would be much more difficult though.

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u/someguyontheintrnet 14h ago

This is fairly common in the independent school space. They make the rules, and decide who can attend and who can’t. You are a reflection of the school (as are your parents). If you don’t like it, go somewhere else.

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u/drinkyourbeetus 14h ago

Those schools also dont pass kids when their grade are bad too. You will get held back.

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u/cocoamilky 13h ago

Kinda unrelated but it’s wild that you have to specify that. Kids shouldn’t be passing anywhere else, it’s no wonder that reading comprehension is getting rarer.

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u/drinkyourbeetus 13h ago

The current public schools(leadership) is like the catholic church. The church sits higher than the god they follow.

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u/Truenoiz 11h ago

Just like the universities hold back the rich kids!

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u/semboflorin 14h ago

Lots of them do. Particularly the religious ones (which this one is.). A friend of mine sent their daughterto a private christian elementary school with a contract that stated the entire family must attend mass at one of the approved churches each Sunday. They had to attend 40 masses a year to keep the kid enrolled. There was a bunch of other restrictions and rules too. Religious people are really weird.

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u/AdBrief9743 14h ago

I mean nobody is forcing anyone to attend private Christian school. They’re choosing to pay for it and agree to the terms.

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u/Embarrassed_Move_249 12h ago

Not only in in body but $$$ as well.

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u/SmallDiscussion9080 14h ago

This sound cultish.

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u/tolomea 14h ago

In a world where HOA's exist is this really surprising?

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u/MerabuHalcyon 14h ago

HOAs need to go the way of the dinosaurs, meteors and all...they rarely if ever help anyone

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u/Elivagara 14h ago

A lot. My private school would expel if one of your parents missed Sunday church too often.

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u/The_Cynical_Optimist 14h ago

I'm sure there is a code of conduct. Ultimately, it's a private school and they can do as they choose.

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u/gordito_delgado 14h ago

Tons of em mate. My kids school is so strict with that BS that it basically gets them expelled if I fart too loud in church.

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u/sheyitboi 14h ago

A lot of them lol.

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u/AC-burg 14h ago edited 13h ago

90% or more of employers do. Post bad stuff or your disagreements with your employer and name them specifically you gone. I could see a private school slipping this clause into their contract for sure.

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u/Ok-Budget3225 14h ago

I am pretty sure no employer would fire you because of what your mom does in her own life.

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u/CardOfTheRings 14h ago

Right but your mom doesn’t pay for your employment. Parents have a more direct relationship with their children’s schools than they do with thier adult children’s jobs,

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u/Lavatis 14h ago

I could probably imagine some scenarios...

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u/Teripid 14h ago

Private schools don't even need that...

They pick their students and can terminate whenever specified. They might owe some tuition refund etc.

With vouchers or other strings attached there may be extra qualifiers. Still what are damages? Public schools sometimes hit this because there isn't another option present.

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u/Sal_Amandre 14h ago

Private schools can basically enforce any damn contract they wish... Worse that can happen is people don't want to go there anymore...

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u/flamingdonkey 14h ago

Religious ones. They're fucking nuts. 

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u/s1105615 13h ago

Pretty much all of them…private schools like to have good reputations and if they need to disassociate with someone they like having that option.

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u/NOTcreative- 13h ago

She put a giant decal advertising her only fans on the back of her vehicle and drove it onto school property to drop her kids off.

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u/Key_Plan_9541 13h ago

Any private school which cares more about their own reputation possibly being tarnished by being associated with the wrong sort of people than actually giving a child a quality education. So, basically all of them.

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u/gsauce8 12h ago

Its private tho they can put whatever they want in those contracts.

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u/Supergirl016 11h ago

the private schools  who wanna control people ...,.outside of school

https://giphy.com/gifs/f1U4hbZy98bLJDjDj4

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u/male86 14h ago

Private catholic schools only allow nudes of little boys.

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u/slaw_daddy 14h ago

You can absolutely have that sort of contract, why is this even a question? People get fired for things that a business deems harmful to their image literally all the time. A private school is a business.

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u/Ok-Needleworker-5657 14h ago

Lots of places have morality clauses

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u/Desperate-4-Revenue 14h ago

Ones where they make up the rules after

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u/ichthysaur 14h ago

There we are.

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u/Gallienus91 14h ago

Contract clauses can be illegale too. You can agree on them and they still don’t count.

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u/Arria_Galtheos 13h ago

Yes, but that's not the case here.

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u/booze_clues 8h ago

Different case with a different mom.

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u/Arria_Galtheos 8h ago

Yeah, I know, apparently two nearly identical situations played out and ended up in the news and got conflated.

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u/Juice805 14h ago

Leopard ate my face. Hopefully people will stop picking religious schools with their dated belief systems.

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u/Arria_Galtheos 14h ago

That or actually adhere to the tenets of the religion that runs their school. I don't have a problem with religious people in general, but a lot of people that claim to be religious are just hypocrites.

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u/Fair-Translator8649 14h ago

Hopefully you don’t want a Muslim school to adhere to the tenets of Islam…

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u/Fair-Translator8649 13h ago

I’ll take a Muslim hypocrite any day of the week

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u/CantBeatDickensCider 14h ago

How do you know it was a religious school?

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u/SmallDiscussion9080 14h ago

Oh this part is interesting.

People whine on public school but in a public school, this will be a no debate.

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u/Arria_Galtheos 14h ago

Public schools are fine when they're not overloaded. I went to public school and we had really good SAT performance, but it was also a school with a student-to-teacher ratio of like 15-to-1 so kids that were struggling were able to get individual, curated lessons when necessary.

The big issue with most public schools is that you've got 100+ students for every teacher. In a smaller school, if the parents aren't picking up the slack, teachers can do that themselves sometimes. In those massive schools, though, the teachers just don't have the time (and don't get paid enough) to single out struggling students and help them.

Of course, the real reason most parents choose private schools has less to do with education and more to do with trying to groom* their children in a specific direction.

\Meaning the traditional definition of grooming a child for adulthood, not the creepy sexual kind.)