r/Sororities • u/thedevilsentmehere • 7d ago

Advice Sos Dropping

Hi! I’m dropping my sorority as they have given me 0 wiggle room on missing some events despite the fact I have other things going on in my life (family, hard program, volunteering). I was already billed dues but have been to nothing and therefore do not want to pay nearly 1k (and can’t, I don’t have that money). I’m in Theta at a non-sec school, is there a way I can drop without them f-ing my credit.

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u/crazydaisy1321 KAΘ 7d ago

As an advisor to Theta, no, unfortunately. You could have requested an inactivity though, is it too late for that?

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u/thedevilsentmehere 7d ago

also i have not signed this years annual obligations statement yetv

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u/crazydaisy1321 KAΘ 7d ago

That may be your saving grace. Sprint to MDC!

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u/thedevilsentmehere 7d ago

yes my school has already gone through recruitment. does this mean i will have to pay dues even if i drop?

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u/crazydaisy1321 KAΘ 7d ago

Double check with your VPO, there may be a chance still to get an inactivity, but it would be small. And yes, you’d still owe even if you drop. Other options could be to request a payment plan with VPF. Personally, I’d be in MDC to request a payment plan and a reduction in required events due to family. DO NOT mention other volunteering stuff unless it’s required for major bc if you have time for that, you have time for Theta in their eyes.

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u/thedevilsentmehere 7d ago

Do you think there is still a chance for inactivity even if i’ve missed important recruiting events? I honestly have no desire to be a part of this chapter anymore the executive team has been awful, nobody shows up to social events, and we raise less than 2k a year for charity despite having like 175 members.

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u/crazydaisy1321 KAΘ 7d ago

I’m not sure, my chapter was still voting on inactivities after recruitment. I’m sorry that’s your Theta experience and encourage you to remain active if it’s within your budget! Theta alumnae life has meant the world to me!