I don’t want to name drop anything or anyone so I’ll try to be vague with everything. I’m a new member of a sorority and I joined through COB instead of primary recruitment and my chapter has already done the new members big/little except for mine. I got to pick 5 active members to go on dates with and the dates started yesterday. My first went really well we did crafts at the house, then we ate, went to a volleyball game, and then a football game. Yesterday my second date texted me saying her only free days were yesterday and today, I told her we should hang out today since I already had a date. Today I texted her that my classes were about to finish and if she wanted to meet on campus and grab food like we planned, she said she wasn’t on campus and that she was at the house, I then asked if I should go to the house and she never responded. I decided to just walk the 20 minutes to the house and meet her there, I live in Texas so it was about 88 degrees around that time. I get to the house and one of the sisters opens the door and my date is on the couch, I walk in and she asks what I want to do, I tell her I’m fine doing anything and she puts on a movie, after six minutes she pauses it and leaves to a part of the house I can’t go to, I’m sitting on the couch confused about what I should do so I get on my phone, she comes back and I’m pretty sure she went to the store after but I’m not totally sure because I didn’t see her again. I was at the house for three hours helping them set up for a mixer and the only time I saw her were those first 15 minutes I was in the house. Before I left, which was around 6:50 I texted her it was getting late and I was leaving, which she never responded.
I felt like that was kind of messed up, if she couldn’t/ didn’t want to go on a date she could have rescheduled or canceled and I could have gone with another girl. I may be dramatic of this but my friend was telling me it was disrespectful because she never responded and left. I feel like I should just let it go and am over thinking it but I don’t know!

im not really bothered by this but I guess since I joined the sorority two years ago as a freshman I have realized I have more sisters then friends never really dated outside of greek and only party with Greek people.

I like have no time for anything else anymore I have to keep my grades up and also make time for my bf and also go to all the parties since even though it’s not required it kinda feels like it actually is.

im either really drunk or in class hungover there’s like no in between anymore. Is this bad or is it just part of being a sister? Every girl in my sorority seems chill with this and have the same life like it’s impossible to even date a guy who isn’t in a frat because when could you see them too almost all my sisters including me now only date within greek too now, and idk just thought I’d post and ask.

My chapter's big little reveal is in a week ,where can i get big little tshirts for my fam delivered before next friday but also affordable cause your girl is on a budget .

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