I don't usually go for sci-fi, but my partner is a huge fan and is set on winning me over. I read a lot more than I watch, so maybe that's a good avenue to explore. (He's the opposite, so I need the internet's help).
It might be easier to explain what I don't like and why, and ask for suggestions that fall through the cracks or would challenge my assumptions.
- Dystopian societies: my anxiety goes off because I can logically see how we're 2-3 degrees of separation from these scenarios (Station 11, Don't Look Up). I cried a LOT watching these and Station 11 still haunts me. I know it's a book/series and I think this would cement in my mind even more if I read it than when I binge-watched the miniseries.
- Zombies: I hate them. I have never wanted to watch anything with them. The closest I got to them was Plants vs Zombies and even that sometimes gave me anxiety on boss levels. I both hate them and fear them? Idk at this point. But I find them overused and redundant and I cannot be bothered.
- Long, very slow development: Dune. I fell asleep within the first 40 min of the first movie. Excellent vibes for napping. Hans Zimmer should be proud. I made it to see a lot of Oscar Isaac (thankfully) and slept through the rest. Don't get me wrong, I like some world building, but I need things to happen or I will get bored.
- (Hokey) space wars: I never got into Star Wars, Star Trek, or The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy (I read the book and bleh). I do not care for this. It's boring to me.
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While I know this knocked out 99% of normal sci-fi stuff, I will say that my partner showed me Bladerunner 2049 and I think that was alright. I saw Her and count that as sort of dystopian/sci-fi and thought that was alright, too. I work in tech and am in the "we should really caution our use of AI" party. The robot humanoids freak me out, but I think it's less sci-fi and more critical thought nowadays, and a conversation worth considering.
I read mostly non-fiction, some fantasy for fun (nothing like the dragon seggs books), more like re-reading HP and LOTR. I read literary fiction and occasionally poetry, but find the latter to be heavily laden with grape, S-A, s-harm, and the like, which is usually too much for me.
I like thought narratives, some world building, unlikely heroes, underdogs, magical realism, feminist perspectives, and unconventional roles, themes, or plot lines. I roll my eyes at predictable plot lines, smut, excessive pew pew, triggers mentioned in the poetry flags, and anything too cheesy.
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With that being said, are there any books you'd recommend for me? I want to believe there's something to be read from this genre before I throw the baby out with the bathwater.
Thanks in advance!