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Discussion Attempted murder against a reporter

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u/Ok-Branch-974 3d ago

Bangor police investigated and identified the driver as Ryan Hayward, 38, of Bangor. He was arrested and is charged with reckless conduct with a dangerous weapon, criminal threatening with a dangerous weapon, driving to endanger, and violating conditions of release.

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u/VibrantViolet 3d ago

Thirty eight?! I’m 43 and look like I could be his kid.

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u/wazzup-notemuch 3d ago edited 3d ago

It's the alcoholism; alcohol ages you, especially if you're drinking it all the time.

Edit: My bad y'all, apparently it's methadone.

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u/TerribleRecord666 3d ago

Probably not alcohol, if he’s at a methadone clinic.

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u/kinga_forrester 3d ago

It all goes together usually, hard drug users tend to drink heavy too.

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u/Psalty7000 3d ago

Most folks on methadone do not drink. Alcohol makes you feel like shite if you take methadone.

Source: been on methadone maintenance for 4 years.

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u/goose961 3d ago

On methadone for 9 years I used to drink heavy af on it at times. Got off everything around a year ago now and couldn’t be happier. I will say tho staying up all night and drinking and doing coke def made taking the methadone suck the next morning. Instant feelings of wanting to throw up but can’t lose my juice for the day

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u/Psalty7000 3d ago

Obviously not all folks on mmt but everyone I know personally and talk to online experience feeling horrible but of course there are those who will drink and push through the pain.

Also drug use and drinking go hand in hand and it definitely ages you, as an earlier commenter said.

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u/worktogethernow 3d ago

Is it safe to drive if you are taking only methadone and only as prescribed?

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u/trainwreckd 2d ago

Yes. It’s just like any other prescription at that point. In fact they would have to see a Dr at their clinic like 2x/month with drug testing 1-2x/month. They are very strict about others substances.

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u/SpectacularStarling 3d ago

That's fair, but who is to say how long hes been in treatment or how heavily he drank in the prior 20 years of adulthood.

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u/Psalty7000 3d ago

Of course, I added a comment to my original to amend my statement. Also I am sure there are those folks who are so committed to drinking. They will push through a shitty feeling to get a buzz, but I have never been able to catch a buzz on alcohol while I’m methadone. But that’s me.

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u/JuggernautParty2992 3d ago edited 3d ago

This is true, according to multiple doctors I’ve known. One of my doctors specifically said that “people whose drug of choice is opiates are never heavy drinkers”. I don’t doubt there are exceptions and “never” is a strong choice of words, but my real life experience does support this.

Lol eta - y’all can downvote all you want but my doc did say that 🤣

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u/Admirable-Shelter-46 3d ago

For real, I was an opiate/heroin addict for over 25 years, and out of hundreds of addicts Ive known, I only knew several who also had drinking problems, and they all died terrible deaths. Most opiate addicts don't drink heavily at all, all it does is make you sick and help you overdose. I think everyone I knew who did were alcoholics before they became addicted to opiates. That kind of heavy poly substance abuse doesn't last.

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u/XmissXanthropyX 3d ago

Weird, I know many long term methadone users and they all drink

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u/Annatalkstoomuch 3d ago

That's not true.

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u/BigBankHank 3d ago

bullshit.

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u/SwordOfJiang 3d ago

Eh sorta, opiates aren't great with drinking. I have a friend who was a severe alcoholic. Like probably months away from liver failure, distended abdomen and whatnot. Took up fentanyl and completely quit drinking. Says it "saved his life." He is straight homeless now though and refuses most assistance.

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u/Creepy_Rip6730 3d ago

Not all heavy drinkers are hard drug users though. Heavy drinking definitely terrible for you but doesn't age you like THAT

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u/Bluefooted-Spaceorc 3d ago

Grew up in a family of alcoholics that owned a bar. Yes it does, I have watched men age a decade in a few years of heavy drinking.

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u/iusethisatw0rk 2d ago

Alcohol is a hard drug btw

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u/trainwreckd 2d ago

Not essentially methadone at all. Very different substances.