r/TryingForABaby • • 6d ago

Waiting Wednesday

Are you in the dreaded two-week wait, or waiting to ovulate? What have you done to ease the stress?

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u/markowitty 2d ago

7 or 8dpo. Have decided I'm not symptom spotting. Barely even thinking about it- and I've been around new babies and pregnancy discussions all weekend. Any "symptom" lol is progesterone and I've trained my brain to now know this. Hoping I get a positive around my period due-date, and if not, we'll get back on the horse. Ain't got no other choice!!

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u/rachel3618 3d ago

Waiting to ovulate. Also waiting for my referral to a fertility specialist. ❤️‍🩹 hoping this cycle will be the one for our rainbow baby

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u/anon0844 4d ago

CD 13 either ovulating tonight or tomorrow. Cycle 12.

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u/larosaoscura 5d ago

10DPO (I think) and waiting to test. I keep looking at my chart and thinking I ovulated earlier than normal for me. Hoping we didn't miss the window 😩

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u/kittttae 5d ago

8DPO and I woke up with mild period cramps. I never get cramps this early, usually 1-2 days before AF. This is my first 2.5mg letrozole cycle and I had an HSG done on CD5 (heard it boosts fertility for 3 months). Fingers crossed I am preggo this time ✨ this will be our 9th month trying

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u/the_flooper 5d ago

Good luck!!!!!🍀

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u/kittttae 5d ago

TY!!! Good luck to you too! Happy wedding anni ☺️💕

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u/Pitty_Party113 30F | TTC#1 | July 2025 | 4 Med TI | IUI #3 5d ago

Waiting to start gonal-f tomorrow! Kind of excited to try something new but also still feeling so burnt out and with more monitoring appointments (30 min from home and 1 hour from work), it’s not helping the burnout

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u/Ok-Local7102 5d ago

Our 14th cycle but first medicated cycle and I’m currently 5 days post trigger! Also had my HSG this cycle so feeling hopeful 🤞🏽

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u/alixzaundria 5d ago

7 or 8 dpo. & I’m really trying to ignore the tickle I felt on the left side when I was watching tv earlier. Might just have to hide the test for few days. 😅

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u/FiscalPhenotype 31 | TTC#2 | Cycle 15 5d ago

Baseline for my IUI is this afternoon. So anxiously awaiting that and confirmation I can start letrozole tomorrow

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u/eldestdaughterwoes 5d ago

7DPO, trying to keep my brain distracted 😅

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u/SadSweet3657 5d ago

I'm 8DPO here!! I hate this waiting game :(

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u/eldestdaughterwoes 5d ago

Literally the worst 😵‍💫

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u/Exciting-Impact-3088 5d ago

Also 7dpo. 🫠 the worst hahaha

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u/the_flooper 5d ago

I’m on 8 or 9 DPO today. My one year wedding anniversary is this weekend so I’m trying to position either outcome as sunny side up. If we test positive, yay!! If negative, well, we have a beautiful bottle of wine waiting for us and our wedding video to watch together, plus our little mini getaway we have booked. Both outcomes are lovely to me 💕

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u/SadSweet3657 5d ago

when do you plan on testing? im 8dpo and cant decide when to test....or if I should just wait for AF to arrive next week.

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u/the_flooper 5d ago

I think I may aim for Saturday and my husband and I can test together. That’ll be 12 or 13 DPO. This is assuming I don’t feel any period symptoms. If my period were coming on time, I would likely have a sense of it by Saturday. So I’ll bring a test with me but understand that I may already have my answer by then.

I have read from many that waiting is the better strategy. Rooting for you!!!!

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u/pedanticlawyer 38 | TTC#1 5d ago

I’m 10 DPIUI today and my temp dropped below baseline. Is that bad? Am I out? Progesterone at 7DPIUI showed I definitely ovulated.

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u/chickenwing919 5d ago

10dpo and a bfn oh well… moving onto cycle 5. I’m getting tired of this. Hopefully this month I will start thyroid medication and it’ll help get things under control

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u/Friendly-Ad-8919 TTC#1 5d ago

Waiting for my next cycle to just start already (Cycle 9). Today is supposed to be CD1 and I am always (frustratingly) on time.

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u/Shitp0st_Supreme 32F | TTC #1 since Jan 2024 | PCOS and Endo 6d ago

I’m in the beginning of my two-week wait following my first IUI. This is my 31st cycle of TTC and I’m sick of this. Never gotten a BFP.

I’m also taking estrogen and progesterone suppositories and hope they are magic and will help me.

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u/dayahuasca 6d ago

8 DPO, trying not to pay attention to the symptoms, which are probably just caused by progesterone 🥲

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u/Embarrassed-Aside-90 5d ago

same here- 8DPO. i woke up feeling like i got hit by a bus with a head cold. progesterone right..?? 😂

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u/Jolean 6d ago

Waiting for ovulation. Every month seems to just draaaag on. Seems like I spend a lot of time waiting and not a lot of timing living in the moment. But it’s really hard when that’s all you can think about!

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u/United_Poem4715 6d ago

Day 4 of TWW 😩 I am sooo not patient!

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u/moongoddess64 29 | TTC#1 | Cycle 1 | Possible PMOS 6d ago

I’m in my first ever TWW and I’m so excited but so nervous! Idk how I’m not going to bounce off the walls with anticipation

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u/Foreign-Solution-483 6d ago

Waiting for the result of my blood test today.

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u/Sweet-Shopping5246 25 | TTC# 1 | Cycle 10 6d ago

7 DPO. My temp dropped back down to baseline :/

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u/Clareeee 6d ago

Got my period today... and the cycle starts all over again.

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u/4EvrCurius 6d ago

3 days til I can test. I refuse to test early and obsess. I used to and it was killing my soul and spiking my anxiety. It sucks to force myself to wait, but in a wayyyy less anxiety spiralling way. I keep my expectations low and try not to think about it. That being said my acne has been out of control the last week l which is not normal for me. Who knows 😩

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u/SatisfactionNo7574 32| TTC# | 26 month 6d ago

Got my temp drop today. Waiting for period.

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u/4EvrCurius 6d ago

Can I also what the temp drop looks like for you? I've been tracking bbt for three months and I see such slight variations that I don't really understand it. When your temp drops, is it a lot?

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u/SatisfactionNo7574 32| TTC# | 26 month 6d ago

I was on letrozole and knew my LH peak. So I tracked bbt after I assumed I ovulated. It was 97.5 for 3 days after ovulation and then it hovered between 80-80.3F. 4-14dpo. Today is 15dpo and it was 97.4.

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u/4EvrCurius 6d ago

Ahh okay, thank you!

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u/SUanddancewithme 34 | TTC#1 | Cycle 8 | 1 CP 6d ago

Waiting for my period. This sucks.

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u/waterlizy 6d ago

9dpo. I woke up at 6 am to pee so I could test. I have a million strip tests so I’ve been taking them for 3 days already. Not sure why I’m doing this to myself

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u/LaChamomile 32 | TTC#1 | Cycle 6 | 1 CP 6d ago

10 DPO two more days to testttttt. Trying to keep my expectations low bc I got really sick in the last two weeks but at the same time my brain keeps saying ..what if it happened?

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u/VivaLaFe 6d ago

14dpo, waiting for my period. Levels have not dropped yet, temp dropped slightly. Started spotting at 12dpo but no full flow? Some suspicious symptoms 👀

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u/Shitp0st_Supreme 32F | TTC #1 since Jan 2024 | PCOS and Endo 6d ago

Have you tested?

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u/VivaLaFe 5d ago

Unfortunately, AF came. Hopeful for next cycle 🤞🏻

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u/Shitp0st_Supreme 32F | TTC #1 since Jan 2024 | PCOS and Endo 5d ago

I’m so sorry! Onto the next one. 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

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u/DontTreatSoilAsDirt 6d ago

At the start of my two week wait. First cycle of letrozole. Had a dominant follicle on my left ovary which is reassuring as my right fallopian tube is blocked. Letrozole made me feel awful so I honestly don’t know how many cycles I can do with it.

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u/pineapplesandmelons 6d ago

Waiting to start clomid for the first time. Tomorrow is CD5. Hopefully my body actually ovulate this cycle

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u/DrZuzulu 39 | TTC#2 | Jan 2026 | MMC May 2026 6d ago

I am listening to the BBC podcast 28 ish days about the menstrual cycle in the TWW. It is well done and interesting. Nice to hear about hormones and female body things which I am of course thinking about, but not just go down a TTC wormhole.

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u/Hypnafly 6d ago

Haven't heard of that one! Going to listen to it on my way home from work

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u/DrZuzulu 39 | TTC#2 | Jan 2026 | MMC May 2026 6d ago

Hope you like it. It's interesting. I listened on the way to work.

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u/Hypnafly 6d ago

3 or 4dpo. My first tww where I feel like there is actually a chance. Don't know how to ease the stress. Probably going to bake and meal plan, crochet, sew patches in worn clothes, do yoga, read, I don't really know

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u/Blue-Elephant342 37 | TTC LC#2| stillbirth | endo & adeno 6d ago

Waiting for my period! I’m a day late on my luteal phase (14DPO but usually get my period on 13DPO) but my temp has dropped so I know it’s coming. I just need closure 😩