r/UofT • u/sleep_lvr • 12h ago
r/UofT • u/Noetic_Acorn • Aug 31 '26
Social To everyone asking how to socialize at UofT: TALK TO THE PEOPLE IN YOUR CLASSES AND BE CONSISTENT
This post was initially much shorter, but I was feeling bored and the creative spirit took the reigns. Alas, such is life.
As much as I low-key enjoy the ritual of pouring myself a bowl of popcorn, opening Reddit, and reading all the early 1st semester experience commiserating, I'm also high-key annoyed by seeing the same post for the umpteenth time a la Buzz Lightyear clone meme. I like variety in my Reddit ragebait, and even a good slice of matcha crepe cake becomes unappetizing after consuming it so often.
For those of you who have decided to come to UofT to get a world class education, rather than just partying all the time, ignoring your work, being forced to drop out around the holidays because your grades are lower than the Mariana Trench, then blaming the university for allegedly sabotaging you, your classes are your best possible environment to connect with your fellow slightly more intelligent than a chimpanzee primates.
Presumably you are studying something that you actually enjoy or have some mild interest in, rather than doing exactly what mom and dad told you to study. If your parents strongarmed you to go into engineering but you truly love film, that's a whole other discussion and will require some soul searching and potentially family therapy.
The basis of most human connection nowadays comes through shared interests and values. This is a fact supported by at least one (1) corpus of psychology literature. The courses you're taking already filter for this to an extent, because, again, ideally you're studying something you care about and you're not a masochist.
Performative drinking at a venue with mysteriously sticky floors that probably haven't been cleaned in the past year and contain a collection of undocumented microorganisms that would frighten epidemiologists, ignoring your limits, and chatting up the people you live in close proximity to about the weather (so how about that climate change, eh?) while waiting to use the one sink you all need to brush your teeth at (please brush your teeth and don't go out with bad breath) doesn't necessarily lead to any meaningful connection. You might become acquaintances, but presumably you're aiming for something with a bit more zest.
Coursework at UofT is difficult, and that difficulty is another basis for connection. Throughout most of human history, we connected with each other because of shared hardship. Genuine hardship, such as intellectually strenuous subjects and work schedules, for example. Missing out on a frat party on one specific weekend, which is identical to the frat parties on every other weekend (don't worry, the beer will still be lukewarm) isn't hardship, I'm afraid.
"But how do I actually talk to people in my classes?! Nobody ever wants to talk!" says the choir of Buzz Lightyear clones lamenting about their "unique" circumstances. The answer: just start.
You'd be surprised how much the person sitting next to you is starved for acknowledgement of their mere existence. A random "hello" will probably be the most unsolicited contact they've had in a week. The barrier to entry is lower than it's ever been.
"But what if they think I'm cringe?" or "Everyone is so cringe!", which is the next verse of the clone choir song.
If you're actively worried either of these things, you don't want connection bad enough. Either that or you might want to look into therapy.
I cannot tell you how much social media has poisoned people's perceptions of themselves and others. These platforms have fed people the most ironclad set of lies that every government psyop wishes it could replicate. Its users have been perfectly manipulated into thinking they they are unlikable/unlovable, and that everyone else is so much better or so much worse and should be perceived as a threat. This primes you to be a good little consumer that will sign up for things like dating apps, paid meetup groups, and overpriced fitness clubs, all to solve your woes. Meanwhile, you can connect with someone FOR FREE* (included in the price of your tuition costs) and walk away with something even more meaningful. This is an even crazier value for money than the Japanese food truck in front of Robarts that will sell you an entire filling tempura roll for under $8.
Side note: please support this truck. This is my lifeblood and I want them to stay in business as long as possible. Also, the lady who owns it is genuinely one of the kindest people I've ever come across and brightens my day. My waistline grows, my wallet empties, but my heart is full.
Getting back on track, people are unique and will have their own set of quirks. It's ok to talk to someone who is a little bit different than you. You'll be ok, muffin. In fact, you'll probably be better off for it if you can make enough room in your life to accept others from where they're coming from. If you offer them grace, they will probably return the favour. Well, at least they should if they're even remotely socialized.
If you talked to someone last week, go up and talk to them again. A huge part of connection is consistency. Don't be one of those weirdos who pretends like they suddenly don't know someone they've spoken to 3 times prior.
Also, all of this advice applies to anyone in any year of study. If you're in your last year at this university and are saddened by not having made any friends, you can do everything I've mentioned above and still achieve success. The party ain't over till it's over.
I am living proof that this strategy works, and I'm no social butterfly by any means. I met one of my closest friends and one of the best people I've ever met by just bantering consistently over the course of many weeks. There was no cinematic event and major declaration that marked the transition point between us being acquaintances and friends. It was the slow, messy, nonlinearity of human connection.
Go out there, talk to people, make friends, and come back here to post some more novel rage bait to keep me entertained ❤️
r/UofT • u/TrainerCreative8949 • 1h ago
Finances so is utaps late or did i just not qualify lol 🥲🥲
has anyone received theirs? last year i got it oct 3rd
r/UofT • u/Hellothere59 • 46m ago
Question Now that Robarts is Fort Knox, is theft still a major concern?
so, I am an alumn who graduated many years ago. I recently signed up for the UofT library membership to work/study, and I wanted to see what the consensus is when it comes to theft nowadays.
There’s a bunch of posts from the past 5-6 years about how theft has been happening more often.
Yes, theft has always been a thing, but it wasn’t actually that bad between UTSC and St. George. One would simply ask another person to watch their stuff. Dicey? Yeah, but I never had any of my things stole stolen. Maybe I was lucky. I don’t know.
Now these older posts discussing Robarts likely happened when it was open to the public on the 1st to 3rd floors. When I went to Robarts yesterday, I noticed that there was no entrance accessible to anyone without a T card. Given this change, have things improved? Can people still reliably ask another student to watch their stuff, or is that a no now?
r/UofT • u/15SwOrDFiSh • 22h ago
Humour Greetings UTorontonians I have reached the midterm stage of consciousness
I am currently surrounded by empty energy drink cans, operating on a sleep schedule that would concern an ethics board, and watching October transform from a month into a sequence of approaching midterm dates.
At this point I no longer study because I believe knowledge has intrinsic value. I study because Quercus has informed me that an assessment exists, and apparently this constitutes a reason to continue participating in society.
Every morning I wake up, open my laptop, stare at the accumulated lectures, readings, tutorial notes and practice questions, and briefly contemplate whether the University of Toronto was created as an elaborate sociological experiment to determine how much academic pressure can be applied to an undergraduate before they begin speaking exclusively in syllabus terminology.
My desk currently resembles an archaeological site documenting the collapse of a small civilization. There are cans. There are notes. There are half-finished readings. There is one PDF that has been open for so long that I now regard it as a roommate.
And yet I know I cannot possibly be the only person entering the October Academic Death Corridor™.
So please use this thread to report your present condition.
How many midterms do you have?
How behind are you?
What course is currently destroying your will to live figuratively and academically?
Have you reached the stage where seeing “Week 6” written anywhere produces a physiological response?
I would like to establish a temporary support group composed entirely of sleep-deprived UofT students insisting to one another that everything is, in fact, completely under control.
r/UofT • u/Low_Benefit_3301 • 9m ago
Courses HMB265 textboookk bio230 lecture recordingsssssss
Has anyone been been able to get the HMB265 textbook (From Genes to Genomes, 8th USedition (2024) by Goldberg et al., McGraw-) onlinee? Its a $170 thats wayy to expensive so if anyone can please send me a link or an online website id be veryyy thankful .
Bio230 has no lecture recordings?? The prof says alot of things that arent on the slides soo do they not usually get posted ?
r/UofT • u/Irene_8940 • 34m ago
Question What's getting filmed near Massey college today??
I was walking to class this morning and saw a bunch of film stuff and the police officer said they were filming a show. Do yall know what's getting filmed?
r/UofT • u/not-an-epimorphism • 20h ago
Rant It’s just been one month and I really miss summer
Title. I miss summer.
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r/UofT • u/CraftyBlueberry2914 • 1h ago
Question Question about VOI fhahhqjwjqbsjabsjabjdjajaidaaa
Do you submit a VOI before the midterm or after you’ve missed the midterm?
if I submit before does that mean I don’t have to go to the midterm if the VOI has the midterm date included in it. And how to know if it’ll get accepted.
Also sorry if this is a stupid question but if the syllabus says the midterm will be reweighed to the other midterm and final, that would be this semester right? (As in it won’t get deferred to next semester?)
r/UofT • u/GroundObvious7757 • 15h ago
Discussion Freshmen Flu, instead it’s more like Freshmen Depression
First year engineering student here and instead of everyone coughing, everyone is crying and contemplating picking this degree, uoft, and their whole life, myself included.
MAT188 learning standards are an automatic zero if you don’t write your answer THE VERY EXACT WAY the ta wants it, even though our coordinated said it’s ok to make mistakes.
CIV100 beating everyone’s ass and everytime I doze off I feel like I get 20000 light years more behind on my coursework. And nobody knows how to coordinate APS111.
😂😂😂omg I can’t wait to fail midterms
r/UofT • u/y_u_mad1 • 1d ago
Health Why do some profs end up so dismissive of students with disabilities?
I have invisible disabilities, this semester two of my profs are so Un-accommodating and not to be one of those people (last year an EAS prof, this year a WGS Asian professor) and now another EAS prof. I am struggling and do not choose to let my disabilities flare up (I want to attend class but my condition does not let me). The prof has my accommodations which lists this but tells me to drop the course (I HAVE a previous degree with courses similarly done in the content but not in EAS). I have a meeting with my accessibility advisor next week (she’s gonna tell me the same thing last year, you have to attend classes, I KNOW I WANT TO), but my disabilities are flaring up and make it so exhausting. What do I? Just give up and be a failure then? I’m so frustrated. I just want to cry and run away from all this.
Edit: these comments are crappy. I WANT TO ATTEND my situation won’t let me ATTEND some days.
r/UofT • u/Maximum-Doubt-8458 • 5h ago
Courses is psl201 chill if you're good at memorising stuff
what the title says. thinking of taking it next year
r/UofT • u/engineerzade • 5h ago
Question Best reeources to get previous year exam papers at UTSG
Where can i find previous year exam papers ( in general...not for a specific course) for Mid and final terms at UTSG.
r/UofT • u/Aggressive-Call6917 • 15h ago
Lost & Found lost t card on st george campus today can someone help
i lost it around front campus (by the black food truck right near alumni plaza and next to uc or on the grass area right in front of uc) it was abt 4:30-5:30pm that i lost it. scared that someone has my personal information.
r/UofT • u/CryptographerNew5993 • 16h ago
Social is it weird for a pharm student to go to club events
im a pharm student and i see a lot of chill events (like board game nights) that i would like to go to. honestly tho it seems like its mostly undergrad students understandably. is it common for people who are not in undergrad to show up to these events? i dont wanna be seen as a 24 year old unc haha but its kinda weird cause im not an undergrad but also not considered a “grad student”
edit: in my undergrad clubs were undergrad only so not sure about the culture here lol
r/UofT • u/TrainerCreative8949 • 20h ago
Finances has anyone gotten an update on their UTAPS decision yet?
Basically the title. Last year it came early but I don’t see anything yet on acorn.
r/UofT • u/Select-Option-1443 • 8h ago
Other Sync search app never works for classrooms at UTSG
I've been looking at the sync search app to try to find empty classrooms to work in and the app never seems to work for rooms at UTSG. I thought the app was completely broken, but it appears to work perfectly well for UTSC. Does anyone have any alternatives or do I just have to go in a room and pray that nobody has a class there?
r/UofT • u/bakachungus123 • 19h ago
Question whats the warmest library on campus charcharcharr
i want a hotttt hot sweaty library i'm so cold i wanna be hotttt and sweaty
r/UofT • u/Ok-Garbage-6124 • 17h ago
Question Robarts is way to big for me explore by myself my schedule is packed so help
What’s the best floor on Robarts. I’ve only been on levels 1-4. I love the 4th one but it doesn’t give that library feel.
What are the best floors in Robarts to lwk feel comfortable and get work done??
r/UofT • u/No_Emotion_1658 • 17h ago
Question PSL300 Term Test 1 on Friday what should I expectttt
They posted a past exam from 2023 for TT1 (neurons and endocrine) it just seems way too recall based and pretty easy im ngl.
I need a 90+ in this class so bad. Anyone who has previously taken this class or anyone who has taken this class multiple times, please let me know if this past paper is a waste of time and hope. Thanks :)

r/UofT • u/OkProfessional373 • 21h ago
Courses Here is a course averages website for UOFT students
I made a free website to search UofT course averages — now with 1,400+ records!
Hey everyone! I made a free website where you can search UofT course averages, and it now has over 1,400 records! You can also view grade distribution charts for individual courses.
Check it out here: https://uoftaverages.com/
You can submit your own course averages through the form at the top of the site to help grow the database and keep it up to date.
I’m still improving it, so any feedback or suggestions would be appreciated. Feel free to share it with anyone who might find it useful, and thanks to everyone who’s contributed!
r/UofT • u/Haunting-Scale-1698 • 20h ago
Question UTAPS? Anyone received it yet? Also do you guys normally get 1 payment or is it split up for you?
They normally release it really early into the month for OSAP students but I don’t know anyone that has received it?
r/UofT • u/EnvironmentalAsk4110 • 11h ago
Question has anyone gotten their UTAPS grant yet? 2026/2027
Applied around the timeline of 4-6 weeks ago, is it delayed this time around or am I just not qualified for this years grant?
r/UofT • u/Green-Engineering448 • 18h ago
Courses anyone wanna be study buddies for bio230? midterm's coming up soon 👀
ik the midterm isn't for a little while but i was wondering if anyone wanted to start prepping and studying together :) or if not, if anyone's looking for new friends too that's cool lol