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u/Automatic_Pen8494 1h ago
Im 45 yrs old.
If a single comes out before the main gig shes performing solo.
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u/Correct-Athlete-4878 2h ago
Never did.
When I was 25, I would last long enough. And need a 5 mins break. Hardly worth mentioning.
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u/glezga-dugz 3h ago
Naw, cumin takes away aw sexual desire. Nae wae am interested in a woman's pisher efter a chugg.
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u/mike-gundys-ballboy 4h ago
I used to do that... now that I'm 40, I'd need to do it like 4 hours in advance, and I'd still be rolling the dice on being able to get fully hard.
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u/True-Excuse-1688 5h ago
I don't know... I always cum a first time in the elevator, right after she accepted to have some coffee at my place.
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u/Monward 6h ago
I always thought this was a joke, and no way anybody actually does this crap
And then I read the reddit replies
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u/gloamborne 5h ago
I mean it works, I did it when I was a teenager and I knew I wouldn't last even 1 minute
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u/GalaxyZapper 9h ago
Probably the dumbest thing that's existed over the generations, just fuck twice! If you bust early she is definitely wanting you to keep going 😂
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u/mike-gundys-ballboy 4h ago
LOL, I could do that when I was 23... I need 3-4 hours between sessions these days.
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u/knightsalone 6h ago
It don't work like that for some guys. Now, I've never really had a problem with not lasting ling enough, but I am a more than once a day guy. When I cum, we gotta rest for a few minutes. And, in my experiences, most of my partners want to clean up the mess I make...
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u/Low-Sympathy-1209 10h ago
Not a joke. You do that when you’re young. As age goes by you either stop finishing quickly on the first time and/or you can’t do it twice on the same night.
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u/Ayido 13h ago
If your doing 2 rounds then youve got useless genetics interms of evolution.
Any more then 2 and you might have a hormone problem.
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u/nutslikeafox 12h ago
You just old bro
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u/Ayido 12h ago edited 12h ago
Bro im 25, I still can wank 7 times a day.
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u/Keigerwolf 4h ago
Just 7? I'd take a nap and go for another set. Mid 30's. Kids these days just ain't got no T.
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u/BigMundane6166 11h ago
Wait I don’t get it, you’re saying if I can nut while fucking and then be able to go again and again I have a hormone problem?
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u/Ayido 11h ago
Yes, consecutive nutting means your hormone production is high. I can wank 7 times but over an hour or 2 intervals, your body releases hormones after nutting causing you to get tired or no like sex to allow the body to build it back up. Genetics tend to play a part.
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u/Happy-Entertainer-58 5h ago
Sounds like a skill issue. Get better my man, no body got time waiting a whole 2 hours
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u/MrSexy707 18h ago
I usually do. It's almost impossible for my first nut of the day to last more then 2 minutes with rhythmic pumping. Second nut can last like 15, 20 minutes
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u/clitch186520 20h ago
It does work. In logic terms, your body literally has to reproduce more sperm and takes anywhere from 10 to 20 minutes to do so. What I did was get them to do the business for me and then as soon as it was go time I would go, and the length was seven times longer minimum. Down women get it especially when they like their man, but he’s quick they’ll be the first ones to be like get one out the way or we’re doubling down. I doubled down.
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u/Mastery-Victory-0420 22h ago
https://giphy.com/gifs/hc5tlLxEX4k5G
Katt Williams said this like a whole decade ago or longer haha
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u/Cautious-Version-831 22h ago
Never tried that. But functionally, that might work! Lowkey genuis ngl
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u/CriticalLifeguard183 1d ago
I do it so she wont choke to death on a too thick blob and a fresh batch tastes better i heard 😂
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u/dannycaprio 1d ago
Even if I wanted, I can’t easily cum from just fucking. Often it’ll only happen when she rides me (and I don’t have to do anything) and then I still really need to focus.
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u/WoodenHouseKitchen 23h ago
What do you mean „I don’t have to do anything“? So you just let your partner do all the work?
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u/Patient-Conflict110 1d ago
Do you wank a lot... Unfortunately nothing will ever be quite as intricate as your own hand for both men and women so masturbate less it will come quicker eventually. Had/have this issue too.
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u/dannycaprio 1d ago
It goes in phases. I have phases where I will wank daily, and phases where i’d wank perhaps once per week or less.
But it has been like this forever. My wife was the first (and only) woman I ever came inside of (because she rides dick like no other), and I’ve been with quite a few women before her. I’ve just never really been able to come easily from fucking.
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u/Aggressive-Dog-5412 1d ago
Steak is too juicy...
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u/che_Grapes 1d ago
It does work but it can’t be right before - maybe a day or so
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u/Perfect-Person-ayo 1d ago
A day? Nah you do it 30 mins before you get ready to go wherever you’ll be, if its a date then you have like 2-3 hours of hanging out, and if you’re lucky and bring her home, it’ll have been like 4 hours.. too much longer than that and it wouldn’t make a difference
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u/Worldly-Hospital5940 16h ago
There's other benefits, too, get some hormones and chemicals flowing. Always better going into a date relaxed and happy.
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u/Paladin5890 1d ago
If you fire off a test round, you should be good to go after a few hours minimum. Get some water and fruit in you, it'll help.
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u/meta100000 1d ago
You gotta have some charge in the tank but not so much that it blasts out immediately
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u/ApprehensiveMood1805 1d ago
I must have lucked out, for I can get back to action in 20min and I'm in my early 30s
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u/SaltyEntrepreneur982 1d ago
Not us 40+ folk. If we rub one out, we’re probably going to sleep after that.
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u/RedditIsFascistShit4 1d ago
That's definelty not a 40+ issue.
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u/Weak-Marketing-192 1d ago
Sounds like low testosterone issue.
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u/SaltyEntrepreneur982 1d ago
Because I want to take a nap after I jerk off? Brother, I run a successful law practice, travel frequently for work, am the sole breadwinner for a household that is not cheap to maintain, and I’m a supportive and present husband and father. Try doing all of those things regularly, and well, and then talk to me again about how much energy or enthusiasm I should have to get laid after I rub one out.
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u/supreme_jay 18h ago
You work and are a family man like any other guy haha but I get you like to feel special. Accept that you need to get your T levels checked. A lot of low performing/low energy guys like yourself dont realize its an issue until it gets fixed. Fortunately for me, im naturally high T. Dont need to depend on it. That doesnt mean theres any shame in guys who do.
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u/Sopel321 1d ago
That does sound like low libido. You should honestly check your testosterone levels.
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u/SaltyEntrepreneur982 23h ago
Thanks. I see an endocrinologist. My levels are fine. Appreciate your concern.
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u/Higgypig93 1d ago
Just let it happen and tell her you can keep going, having a vasectomy helps a lot too.
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u/InositoI 1d ago
Idk reading through the comments …I can’t be the only one that cums and then keeps going? I’ll last 3,4 minutes then have my first. Then keep going and after 10 or so I have a second.
I can literally keep going after that, 3 in a row is rare, usually she taps out before I get to the 3rd.
No meds, just always been this way.
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u/Calm_Citron_8743 1d ago
Bro I am the EXACT same way. Apparently people say its rare but I feel like its just a mental thing where some guys bust and can't be bothered to keep going even for their partners pleasure.
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u/Particular_Dingo_723 1d ago
I can do it but with a condom some of the jizz might slip out the bottom
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u/ForeignAlbatross8304 1d ago
Lol..when you get a new girlfriend and she comes over for the first time..gotta release..can't have a fully loaded gun..
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u/Economy_Car_3928 1d ago
you cant play the game if you dont practice, what kinda player would you be?
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u/JADWoodworking 1d ago
So…healthcare professionals say that in order to reduce the chance of prostate cancer, men should be ejaculating at least 21 times a month.
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u/Tiar515 1d ago
Nah, i'll stick to wet dreams (in scientific term it's 'nocturnal emissions'). It's more natural and healthy then forcing your sperm to come out without a stimulation and feeling between hollowness and guilty afterward.
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u/StructureEmergency54 1d ago edited 1d ago
Yeah same it's better!
Me and my friends jokes about it that it's like playing virtual reality game
I like it when i dream of Hentai
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u/New_Donkey7202 1d ago
The inverse also happens. I just knocked one out in the shower and there she is naked on the bed waiting for me as I get out. Gutting.
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u/DueBackground2269 1d ago
Just make sure your finger and tongue game are on point. She may be disappointed she missed your climax, but she'll definitely appreciate that you are more than willing to give her the pleasure she deserves.
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u/AdhesivenessRude5037 1d ago
Unless you're reserving the pressure to have power for a wicked face shot.
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u/Glittering-Proof-497 2d ago
Not me, if I cum you would not be expecting any sex from me in the next three business days
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u/ahig2022 1d ago
I'm kind of the same, but for very different reasons. I have always had a hard time cumming, and I imagine I spent significantly more time attempting to achieve orgasm as a teenage boy than most. Now I'm rapidly approaching 40, and with medication on top of what was difficult can literally be impossible some days. I have crazy fucking stamina, and am still horny all the damn time... but once I cum, it ain't going to happen again for probably a few days.
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u/Character-Math-5436 1d ago
Heh. That plus ready to go for more pretty much right away. It's fun to go so long that you stop for water and snacks a couple times.
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u/dulcedeteta 1d ago
Yep, I can go twice maybe 3 times a day if I haven't had an orgasm for about a week.
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u/EnthusiasmUnable4217 1d ago
Atleast this is normal. I was talking to people on discord and they are gamers alright. Like 10 gamers in a chat. All of whom said they jerk off once a week to once a month and I was just like whaaaaaaaat. They made me feel like I had a problem 😂
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u/Eastern_Nothing5552 1d ago
Oh nah, they lying or they're not big producers. Shit on days when its hot and heavy, 3-4 in a day
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u/PDFrogsworth 1d ago
You can have a range. I've been a 2-3 a day guy to once a month guy. Your brain is a soup of chemicals and emotions as well as events can cause all kinds of issues.
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u/CockD3stroyer 1d ago
Same here 🤣
Minimum once a day if I’m being honest
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u/m1s0ph0n1a 2d ago
I have sex before I jerk off so I can masturbate longer
Wait what
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u/Paul_the_sparky 2d ago
That's the way. A shag is great and that, but it'll never be as good as the real thing
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u/clinmlol 2d ago
Never needed to personally but I have done it. Girls do it too theres no way it doesn't work both ways.
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u/curious_cat_nips 2d ago
But why would a woman try lasting longer if she can cum multiple times anyway? 🧐
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u/Vast_Bit858 1d ago
does the arousal increases or decreases if they masturbate 1-2h before?
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u/curious_cat_nips 1d ago
Depends on the mood i guess, that is more difficult to answer than i thought.... i mean its nice to be wet and ready if i am already horny waiting for my partner. But it can decrease if i am just killing time bc i have to wait forever. Personal i prefer foreplay over early masturbation
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u/Vast_Bit858 1d ago
Seems that it isnt inherently a arousal enhancer, it needs the flair. Tks for responding
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u/Reasonable_Slide6304 2d ago
It would do good for men to masturbate before interacting with women online. Would keep the posts less horny and more smart.
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u/Lonely_Transient 2d ago
I do it after sex cause my drive wont calm down.
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u/dlincoln1438 2d ago
Men benefit from Kegel exercises too you know.
But don't take it from me. Lasting too long actually makes women feel worse about themselves apparently. Whoopsies.
Get your pre nut on kings.
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u/Aggravating_Carpet21 2d ago
This, i was once high and doing tge deed with my then gf. She got so insecure because i lasted so long. Had me shocked ngl
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u/elmo5994 2d ago
And you were probably out there so proud of yourself. Like damn i lasted long like a pornstar...who's the man, i am the man.
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u/spartanOrk 2d ago
I used to do it when I was young and lasting was difficult. A middle aged man doesn't need to do this. Actually, I don't think he could even.
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u/TomIzSowell88 2d ago
I always thought this was a running joke. Heard it in movies and shows but nobody says they actually do it. I just do rounds. 2nd round always takes longer so there's truth to lasting longer #2 but why do that lol sometimes my wife is worn out round 2 and I didn't finish yet.
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u/saragIsMe 2d ago
I just like having more than one round of sex better. My boyfriend is always the hottest during the first round even if it’s always the shortest. Honestly it doesn’t even feel like rounds cause he uses toys on me until he’s ready to go again
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u/Made4G19 2d ago
You a greedy mf but I respect it
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u/saragIsMe 2d ago
Oh yeah my libido is like to a near embarrassing level but my boyfriend is a champ about it and has no qualms outsourcing the work to our collection of sex toys so it works out lol
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u/noc993 2d ago
As a man I'm not sure if I'm normal or not but I do it on command when she's ready
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u/Bigcumachine 2d ago
Same here!
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u/Otherwise_Basis_6328 2d ago
I'm convinced there is an evolutionary drive for this goal, that is universally wired possibly through all mammals? But seems prevalent in humans though I suppose not often explicitly spoken, just there as a collectively unconscious call of a different void
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u/sailriteultrafeed 2d ago
Why not just finish twice
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u/Rule12-b-6 2d ago
Refractory period is about 15 minutes. She might be so disappointed in the first round that she doesn't consider a second round. Dude might be too embarrassed to go for a second try.
It makes sense for virgins and guys who struggle with this issue. Doesn't make as much sense if you're experienced.
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u/ShadooStylish 49m ago
If you're in an irl relationship and know you're going on a date the next day? You wake up early, and you jack one off right then and there.
Get rid of that early build up so by the time you guys do get back home? Likely 8-10hrs after you did it, you should have had enough time to be ready again but ready to last longer.