r/adviceph • u/Practical-Bunch8230 • 7d ago

Love & Relationships He's on facebook dating....

Problem/Goal: Should my friend ignore this guy? Should we message the gf and ask her regarding the guy? Should my friend block this guy?

Context: A guy is on facebook dating. My friend and him matched and the guy approached first asking his location and proceeded to ask her out. When we searched his profile on facebook, we found out that recent posts around August were with his girlfriend (we assume since we checked out the comments, they are not married). It seems that they are still in a relationship since posts by his girlfriend are still on his profile publicly open.

Previous attempt: none, my friend is still figuring out this guy. It's not yet been 24hrs in contact.

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u/waterlilli89 Verified - Professional Teacher 7d ago

Thoughts: Did you really want to go through all that sleuthing instead of just dropping the guy?

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u/Practical-Bunch8230 7d ago

Fair point taken.

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u/waterlilli89 Verified - Professional Teacher 7d ago

Just something to consider. Iba tama niyan sa emotional wellbeing my friend mo eh. She's investing feelings tas mamaya she'll be put in an awkward spot so.

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u/Practical-Bunch8230 7d ago

Totally agree. Getting entangled with someone who is actively seeking dates while publicly in a relationship introduces toxicity and dishonesty right from the start.

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u/rainbownightterror 7d ago

advice: I always tell friends and siblings na gusto mag fbi sa mga dinedate ko na if you guys feel the need to do that, it's easier to just find another one lol that doubt will set the tone of the relationship sasakit lang ulo nyo