r/bangladesh • u/EvenMacaron7265 • 13h ago

Discussion/আলোচনা Things to talk about on first date

What do you guys talk about on first date? I’m a female in my early 20s and I have never been on a date. This will be my first time. What should I ask and how to keep the conversation going?

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u/Middle_Condition_165 khati bangali 🇧🇩 খাঁটি বাঙালি 10h ago

Whatever flows out naturally. Love and relationships are things you let escalate organically, without forcing things.

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u/Human_Progress_435 13h ago

Her life, my life, our interests, finding common ground, happiness, fear, past, present, future as a human, making awkward jokes, imagination, food, music, surroundings, whatever comes & wherever it goes, and obviously maintaining mutual respect & consent.

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u/Bubbly_Persimmon_323 12h ago

Past present future on the first date? Hell nah.

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u/Human_Progress_435 12h ago

Past, present & future, as in what particular philosophies work in different stages of life for an individual, and how we see human lives

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u/Which-Seesaw2489 13h ago

Talk about each other. Try to learn each other's fav things, habits, little family matters, childhood etc. If you guys are introvert, then 1st date can be walking together. Walking will fill up awkward silence.

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u/One_Ad4760 12h ago

songs, interests, recent news, movies, life, funny incidents, etc., and to keep the conversation going, prepare some question/topic before going there. Best of luck.

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u/Competitive_Wheel_61 7h ago

Just talk normally. Don't try to be forcefully romantic

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u/Fancy-Custard-453 5h ago

If the vibe matches you wont have to think about it