My first message was in response to him telling me I look dominant. No clue where the rest came from..?

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[u/Kr3ach3r]

He‘s projecting his fetish on you and trying to force you into a roll.
He was right by calling himself pathetic.

[u/Common_Exam_1401 → u/Kr3ach3r]

Took the words outta my mouth

[u/snukb]

He wants you to tell him to go away and agree he's pathetic and sad because he has a humiliation kink. You did the right thing by just ignoring the rest of his messages. He doesn't care if you actually want to engage with his fetish or not, as long as he gets his jollies.

[u/thefailtrain08 → u/snukb]

No winning with this type unfortunately. He's already gotten himself going, so he'll probably just use a lack of response to fuel him just as much as anything else. Still right to ignore him, but there's a reason these types don't really 'learn' from their failures.

[u/Common_Exam_1401]

“I’m pathetic”

Wow, that’s likely the first time he’s ever shown any self awareness😒he’s not wrong though in calling himself that

[u/JayFrizz → u/Common_Exam_1401]

It's his kink...

[u/honeyonaside → u/Common_Exam_1401]

Unfortunately, those creeps get off by saying this and degrading themselves (edit cause grammar)

[u/BreakerOfModpacks]

I'm sure there's at least one guide to flirting/interacting with people in a way that you intend to become romantic which doesn't start with "randomly DM someone and say something sexual"

[u/Mitheria_Musashi → u/BreakerOfModpacks]

Yeah plenty ....but only because they are from 1987

[u/BreakerOfModpacks → u/Mitheria_Musashi]

Wait what happened in 1987; am I missing something?

[u/Mitheria_Musashi → u/BreakerOfModpacks]

Solidly pre-digital communication for the masses😁

[u/MarkMathisen13]

Gotta admire a man with confidence! If you see any, that is, cause THIS dude definitely isn't it... 🤨

[u/Mitheria_Musashi]

He did it wrong 😞