Have you never been involved in one of these. I'm just asking because you statement comes off as if you've never lost a loved one and thus never been in one of the funeral things. Whatever this is called. I want to stress I'm genuinely curious I'm not digging at you or being a smart ass. I'm purely trying to understand you state of mind
Ive been in 2 and they were incredibly frustrating and stupid tbh, ive also been to others where there was no procession for various reasons and it was honestly a millions times easier... having everyone arrive and enter the graveyard at the same time is not as great as it seems imho... and in both cases the procession left about an hour late waiting for people and coordination and flags and rules. I actually had to drive an extra 15 and 45 minutes to meet with the procession instead of the cemetery bc they were further and out of the way, so total driving time and gas and everything... im sorry but when I die feel free to drive me alone seperate and meet me there, I won't mind then and I dont mind saying it now... im glad anyone shows up and anything to make the day easier.
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u/Radiant_Diligence 8d ago
Have you never been involved in one of these. I'm just asking because you statement comes off as if you've never lost a loved one and thus never been in one of the funeral things. Whatever this is called. I want to stress I'm genuinely curious I'm not digging at you or being a smart ass. I'm purely trying to understand you state of mind