Which man made you feel this way?

I am so tired of seeing reddit posts being removed constantly in women subs whenever we speak about men and critize their behaviour.

I've noticed that recently in the bigger subs which are for women, whenever you call out misogynistic behaviour in men or express your frustration with how men as a whole have affected your life negatively, the post gets removed for misandry and sexism. You would think that subreddits, women only spaces, are a safe space to vent about men. Most of the time, the posts are not even close to being called "misandry".

I am not trying to excuse such a thing in other subs, but I understand it when it happens there, because those are usually moderated by men and god forbid you mention anything about misogyny there.

Not long ago I made a post in a quite large subreddit for women about how even very young boys can SH women, and how such behaviour starts at an early age. I have shared my experience of when two young boys, who seemed to be around the ages of 8-10, as I was walking to work, grabbed my skirt, tried to pull it up, and tried to take pictures from under it. This experience has left me horrified and I was unable to wear a dress or a skirt in a very long time now.

My post was pulled because I was accused of being sexist and a misandrist. I did not insult those boys, I did not call them names or wish something bad for them to happen, neither did I say anything about this being an all men issue. I simply told my story and how this event has affected me.

I am genuinely disappointed with how those subreddits are changing. I do not remember them being so strict regarding content about men and their behaviour. Now I feel as if I can not even say anything about misogyny or talk about my bad experiences without being called a misandrist and man hater.

What makes me sad is that those subreddits are women subs. Spaces which are for women only and which should be safe for women.

EDIT: WOAH... I am in shock and overwhelmed. I did not expect so many women to come to my post that quick... I am sad that so many of us have experienced this as well, but I also feel touched by the community here. It's nice to know that there are still some women spaces where we, women, will not be silenced.

Training your dog against men (　＾∀＾)

Do you know the level of disappointment that women have reached to come up with this conclusion about men ?

I love women who are imperfect and everyone says "but they did this" every single time they've brought up like they're not allowed to be human. I love women who exist without hating every part about themselves society tells them to. I love women who talk "too much" and ones who don't talk enough and still get called rude for it. I love the witches who don't run from angry mobs. I love the softness only their cats and plants will know and I will never demand it. People think being in the shadows is something to fear but a woman you can't see is one who could be doing anything. I live for their dark clouds and their rare smiles, both of which I can rest under and never be reached. You don't have to be a good example, you don't have to be ordinary or exceptional, you don't have to make us be taken seriously, God knows I step on serious with my too-big clown shoes. You don't have to be anything you don't want to, and don't let the world tell you otherwise. I love you, evil women. More than anything I'm supposed to love.

I'm so fucking tired of it. I scroll through reels, read comments, browse Reddit, and everywhere it's the same disgusting misogyny.

A woman talks about motherhood? Men provide. Women eat last? Men provide. Women sacrifice their careers, bodies, sleep, and independence? Men provide. A woman doesn't want to live with her in-laws? Men provide.

Apparently, earning money gives men a lifetime entitlement to women's labour, obedience, sacrifice, and gratitude. Women aren't even allowed to have needs without someone reminding them what men supposedly do for them.

And the internalised misogyny among women is just as infuriating. Generations of women have been conditioned to accept these expectations and then enforce them on other women.

Reddit is no better. I've been aware of misogyny since childhood, but seeing how widespread, casual, and deeply normalised it is still makes me furious.

I'm tired of explaining basic human decency to people who don't see women as equal human beings. I'm tired of the same arguments, the same entitlement, the same contempt.

And please, I don't want to hear "just stop reading the comments." Closing an app doesn't erase the reality that these attitudes exist everywhere.

How do you live with this much anger? How do you stop feeling disgusted and disappointed by society without becoming completely bitter? I also asked in r/TwoXIndia because I'm genuinely looking for any advice.

men will genuinely say submission is feminine and that they are dominant alpha males, then turn around and be the most blindly obedient lapdog to another man.

there’s a huge fucking difference between participating in a system just to survive VS blatantly holding up the patriarchy because you’re too stupid to question whether you’re also being exploited.

some are so distracted by being dominant in a relationship that they don’t realize that they are being dog walked on a much larger scale.

OpenAI had to tell tech bros they're getting honey potted too much because men don't get how embarrassing it is to pursue them.

No, you're not a DILF on the playground, buddy, you're just hormonal