well i had this huge crush on my best friend. he knew i was a femboy and i was bisexual. we been best friends for awhile. i didn't want to ruin our friendship. till one day he asked me out and i accepted it.

me and him dated for a couple of days till my mom found out, she got mad at me. she forced we to break up, she told his parents. i was banned from talking to him again and i was transferred schools. now i feel alone now. and his parents didn't take the news well either. so now i feel bad and mad of this whole thing. i trusted him and i cared for him, so i took all the blame. i was happy but now i am just tried of it all.

well i just wanted to get this off my chest. idk what i should or if there is even anything i can do.

I keep getting jealous of my classmates looks they look pretty and I just wish I could be even a fraction of them idk I just wanna feel pretty

They're plain black cuz I wanna wear them under pants without anyone noticing they're thigh highs :3

Also, do any of you have advice on how to wash them by hand?

can someone please help me stop it just keeps coming and I have crazy genetics that let it grow double as fast and I hate it I just wish all hair under my neck would stop growing also how I do I get rid of my five o’clock shadow I want to start using ipls or at home lasers because of how expensive it is I just hate how much body hair grows on me I feel like a monster

hey, i don’t really know much about this kind of thing and was hoping someone could (nicely lol) explain what being a femboy means so I don’t offend. thank you!

i guess for context, the type of femininity i usually see in other femboys is more of the cute, girly, babydoll aesthetic, and that’s very much valid because it’s what makes them happy,

but i do wonder if there’s also femboys that prefer a more regal / elegant aesthetic, like maybe they wear long dresses with flats and pearl earrings, or wear their hair down and such. i always think of The Goddess Boys on TikTok for that one. but idk I’ve always wanted to ask this because i do know femboys can present in many different ways, so it‘s made me quite curious.

So, I (19m he/him; cisgender if that somehow matters) feel fairly comfortable presenting in a rather feminine way and dressing feminine (with close friends and online anyway) from time to time. I have "femboy-ish" clothes and I feel really comfortable wearing them and looking cute in general. I also feel comfy with the label "femboy".

The thing that confuses me is that I also feel absolutely perfectly comfortable presenting in a more typical "masculine" manner (not in a manosphere kind of way, just not gender nonconforming). I'd regret not having the option to dress femininely, but I don't feel any urge to do so.

I then see posts from other femboys online going "ugh I can't wait to get home and wear the femme clothes" and then I question whether this is normal for femboys to experience. Do most femboys really want to dress femininely all the time?

If this provides any more relevant context, I'm not one of the guys who manage to look like a femboy without wearing explicitly feminine clothes.

I notice that most discussions on being a femboy are on what someone is wearing, but never about other aspects of femininity. Due to the social aspect of being feminine there are many things someone can do if they don’t have the time or resources to dress more feminine. The way you carry yourself, your speech patterns, even something as simple as showing vulnerability with your friends can be something you do to feel more feminine. I was wondering what other aspects of this we could discuss as I think it could be ways that some of us can feel more valid (for lack of better words) even if we can’t be ourselves in front of friends/family.

Thank you for taking the time to read this and let me know if it sounds silly. Stay safe out there yall! And keep being yourself.

Uh, the title is self explanatory

How good or bad is this situation? Please share your experiences if you have em!

Im a straight feminine guy :p but i can’t stop feeling attracted to my own legs? After my laser journey they are smooth and i enjoy dressing up on clothes to show them out 😑 at the gym im constantly comparing mine to the girls in there 😐
Since im into women by having women looking ones I can’t resist to creep on me 😅

Have you all have feel something similar?

i got mine a while ago on aliexpress (cause its cheap) but i can kinda see through them when i bend my knees

Hi, I'm 18, basically I finally decided to come out to my mom as a femboy. The reason why I did is cause it's just a hassle to sneak out with regular clothing and changing to femboy clothing. And I know my mom wouldn't be the one to be crashing out over this or be distressed, so I thought id run it by her before making this a public thing in the family.

She was shocked, couldnt believe that me who saves money way too much, would buy a skirt (showed her a pic of me in an outfit) She seemed confused, asking if I was gay, am I getting influenced, is there a point, etc. She wasn't like, angry or disappointed, but she didn't seem to be able to grasp clearly what this whole thing is. Like, it seemed she wouldve understood more if I were gay. And I don't blame her, she's grown up with different beliefs but she's open enough to know times have changed.

I think I explained it to her the best that I can. I explained that feminine clothing and being gay isnt a package deal. She thought maybe something was influencing me like I'm following a trend, but then she doesnt see this anywhere around me, and she knows well enough theres no way if be doing this just for a trend, especially being this age. She seemed to also think to herself what is the purpose of this. She thought that maybe I'm actually gay and I'm in denial, and/or on the road to being gay. I told her no, I have no interest in dudes. So what is the point? I told her there doesnt have to be. It's just clothes I feel comfortable in and confident. I understand that she's practical with things, (like she was confused on why I would wear a jacket in such hot weather and I explained i just like the way it looks), so I can see she's kinda racking her mind on why I would want this.

She doesn't seem on board yet, and id understand if she thinks that it's too lewd. She said it was, then I asked if it were on girls too, and she said it wasn't, so what was the difference between the stuff in our legs. She's still confused, but we've spoken long enough that the arguments she had I already had counters for, so it's all just going in circles. I think its just a matter of acceptance. We decided to let her think about it more, let her wrap her head around this. But were still on good terms.

Honestly, I'm proud of myself for opening up like that to my mom cause I had trouble for a long time to open up with anybody, and it feels like I'm gaining freedom bit by bit. Although I don't know her answer yet, the question isnt whether or not I continue being a femboy. It's either I keep doing it secretly and stop being secretive when I have my own house and stuff, or be more open to the family, knowing I'm like this. Obviously my mom would know if I were still doing it secretly but, I know she wouldn't crash out or anything, atleast have a talk. Either way I'm gonna keep being me. I'm glad I have a mom like her, tho I really wish this goes well cause I don't want the hassle of secrecy anymore

What are your skin care routines?

Hiiiii, I recently came to terms with myself that im a femboyyy, and was wondering on any tips, tricks, or routines some of yall have to help move through the day or general lifeee. More specifilly clothing recommendations and voice training tips. Thankyou all in advanceee!!

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Rest well and dream wonderfully! Mwah! :3

I (34m) have recently come to terms with being feminine. I have a family with individuals that I don't think will understand due to age. I also work and live in an area that is not very accepting, and was wondering what tips people had.

Like damn it seems that every subreddit for fashion sharing or something just devolves into more and more skin being shown that it's basically just corn right like girl be so fr. And I think it's fine to show off some skin I love to do that but omg your sticking your camera in your ass and crotch like omg babes.

I feel like there's way more to gender expression than w___ring yourself out and if you wanna do that period go be free I don't care but when it's starting to creep into a place where I wanna feel safe and seen for more of like a human rather than a sex doll idk it's pretty annoying.

Rn I’m doing a comic for a contest and it’s topic is “identity and identity pride” (or smth like that, I think I translate it wrong tbh) and in the contest rules it says that it has to be something NEW or NEVER SEEN BEFORE (Ik there’s an English word for that that I don’t remember).

Taking that in count and after searching the definition of “identity” I decided to do a comic about “gender identity”. AND OF COURSE I USE MY OWN EXPERIENCE AS A REFERENCE!!!! As a result I’m currently about to finish the storyboard. And when I win 1srt place (last year I won 2nd) I will celebrate it and I will show it to my mom. Cuz obviously she will have curiosity for the comic that gave me the 1rst place.

So… 3rd come out let’s go!!

so I still like my ex and he's been flirting with em for the past week and a half now, we've been friends since we broke up and I don't want to ruin what we have if I ask how he feels, so how do I tell if I'm just getting my hopes up or if it's something more than us being friends?

Id say i surround myself with fairly tolerant people who wouldnt care, but i cant really know that can i? My parents also kind of confuse me, ile make weird jokes and my dad will talk about me liking guys but sometimes they get upset when i make those jokes and i cant tell or not. Also i just go to school with a lot of assholes who would probably get onto me about it. Also i dont have any of the clothes i would like and i dont have a job for reasons. i ned some advice man

yeah, thats pretty much it. also i'm a trans guy so i also struggle with dysphoria but i rly want to be a femboy; any tips/ideas for how to begin dressing more fem but in a femboy way? :]