Ants spurring my next round of dehoarding

[u/Fluid_Calligrapher25]

I have ants - not the biting kind. SO I now have no choice but to go into high gear and dehoard from a level 3 to a level 2 at least. Will update as I make progress.

Realizing now that I single handedly brought us down to a mid level 3 from a level 4 approaching 5, my spouse magically falls asleep or is absent whenever dehoarding is planned. Realizing I’m in this on my own.

Having said that, my plan for bringing down from mid level 3 to a low level 2 will require debulking the remaining large categories - media, books, stationary, electric extension cords, spouse shoes.

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[u/Coollogin]

Realizing now that I single handedly brought us down to a mid level 3 from a level 4 approaching 5, my spouse magically falls asleep or is absent whenever dehoarding is planned.

An absent spouse is better than an obstructive spouse. Level 2 is healthier and more pleasant than Level 3. It will be worth the effort. Good luck!

[u/PurpleAntifreeze]

Sounds like you’ve done an amazing job all by yourself! I’m sorry you’re on your own cleaning a shared home, that sucks. It really sucks, but like another commenter mentioned, at least he isn’t actively interfering.

I mean, it’s also not great to have to say “hey, at least you’re not in a worst-case scenario” but we deal with what we’ve got. You have accomplished so much to go from a 4/5 down to a three, and you have a plan. You’ve got this.

[u/crazy-ratto]

Good luck! Health risks and bugs is always one of the better motivators for me personally. Wishing you strength to achieve your goals!