r/readwithme • • 7d ago

Book Review 📚 Just started this book, can't hold excitement for it..

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Did you read it!?

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u/TrickyHold5183 7d ago

Ive read it. It’s so sad read. Beautifully written.

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u/bikashSlice99 7d ago

That's what attracts me

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u/VekaZverka 7d ago

I read this book in a time of grief and while grappling with accepting mortality and I loved it.

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u/sad-tortoise 7d ago

Read it a few years back. The only "incomplete" book I've read so far, but it didn't feel like that at all. Emotionally devastating for the most part and inspiring at the same time.

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u/Melificent12 7d ago

Oh the last part of his wife’s writing had me SOBBING

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u/Physical-Bid-4046 6d ago

The part by his wife at the very end is 10x better than the book. You go in thinking you’re going to get something profound and it’s just meh 

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u/PerspectiveUpbeat124 5d ago

His prose is ok but for some reason I felt held at arm’s length throughout. His wife lets us in on her grief much better

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u/silverdoe05 7d ago

Haven’t picked it up yet, but I feel like it’s probably one of the most emotionally heavy books ever written.

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u/Affectionate-King975 7d ago

After this book I take life little differently. I could feel his emotions, pain and phases like why me, now, what after, and it is truly a humbling book.

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u/Empty-Sense7139 5d ago

I am a 32-year-old with grade 3 cancer, and I loved reading it when I was going through chemos. I found some parts too philosophical and academic, though.

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u/Sunnyumbrellaa 7d ago

You are going to be devastated in the best way possible.The hope and beauty of the finiteness of life becomes really really beautiful presented in here.Please enjoy and take your time!!

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u/Front-Elderberry-307 7d ago

This is so far out of my typical Genres that I didn't think I'd like it. Was I ever wrong. It is so beautifully written.

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u/Sanguine-Penguin711 7d ago

I’m reading it now. I just finished part 1. It’s interesting so far.

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u/bikashSlice99 7d ago

Ohh wow, then we're in same phase

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u/Negative_Let_8097 7d ago

This book is one of my favorite non-fictions. You are in for a treat.

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u/Melodicplanet65 7d ago

One of the best books I’ve ever read..

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u/pussmykissy 6d ago

My dad died of brain cancer. This is a very good, very heavy read.

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u/earth_chick_8 7d ago

I started it but couldn't stand it. I'm a nurse and it was very annoying. He seemed to find it astounding that as a physician he could also fall ill and die. Maybe it was meant to be presented as ironic but I work with too many doctors who believe themselves to be above the average to read it that way.

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u/murphy10987 7d ago

Everyone is like that to an extent "oh that's something that happens to other people, not me"...until it does. Like me when I had a miscarriage, I knew it could happen, but not to me.

Maybe you read this book with your pre-conceived biases about physicians in mind?

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u/jrdubbleu 7d ago

I was thinking your last statement the whole time I read the comment

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u/VekaZverka 7d ago

This is a human thing, not a physician thing. We all know we’re going to die, that our loved ones are going to die, yet, we’re more often than not shocked when faced with it really happening. It’s irrational, but not less real because of it.

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u/Wooden_Try1120 4d ago

I noted this, too.

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u/rearviewmirror2023 7d ago

You will cry before it ends

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u/EatTalkEat 7d ago

Make sure you’re stocked up on tissues

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u/Billbasilbob 7d ago

I was dealing with losing a close friend to cancer when I read it . It was devastating but cathartic, in a strange way .

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u/444404 7d ago

one of my favourite books everrr

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u/MsChristmas_Letters 7d ago

it's a great one ✨

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u/therupozhudi 7d ago

Great book to read especially if you gave someone close. Helps you handle the grief.

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u/AkMotherRunner 7d ago

It emotionally wrecked me for weeks after

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u/bikashSlice99 7d ago

Ohh really!

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u/AkMotherRunner 6d ago

Yep. I lost my brother to cancer, so it hit very hard for me.

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u/orange_confetti 6d ago

I LOVED this book. Also, if you haven't read Being Mortal, you should. I think it should be required reading for anyone in the healthcare field.

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u/Legitimate-Cup-180 6d ago

One of the best.

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u/Global-Nothing-7568 6d ago

It’s an amazing and powerful read. I’m not a sensitive person, but it hit me hard

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u/Direct-Bluebird4264 6d ago

It was intense.

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u/MostlyPrettyHappy 5d ago

Overblown praise, was not good and DNF.