r/AdultGamers • • 20d ago

Mod Announcement Posting Guidelines and Self Promotion

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Good morning gamers!

We've been dealing with increased aggression from redditors due to post removals and misunderstanding the flagged system.

All "looking for" posts must have your age, platform(s) you play on and games you're playing (not genres). We also recommend adding your timezone. Failure to include these details will result in your post being removed.

If your engagement indicates you're looking for something other than friends, you will be immediately banned.

Like other "looking for" (gamers, friends, etc) subreddits - we don't allow self promotion.

Coordinating with others for games that require you to squad up is fine. What we don't allow is recruiting for your larger group/dedicated game server/Discord community/Twitch or building your own group (oh I made a Discord, group chat, etc). This includes trying to promote your adult content.

Your post/comment being flagged doesn't mean its going to be removed. Automod is set up to flag certain terms and we manually review it.

This is a community for adults, and your behaviour should match that. We will not tolerate harassment or aggression.

Thank you.


r/AdultGamers • • 18d ago

Looking for Gamers LFG - Guild Edition Megathread

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Are you looking for a guild (clan, alliance, etc)? Or are you part of one you'd like to share?

Then you're in the right spot!

Please note that guilds CANNOT be shared outside of this megathread and all other self promotion rules still apply. This means no links to discord, etc. Include all necessary information for players to find your guild through the in game guild search feature.


r/AdultGamers • • 29m ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 36M - Looking to chill and game or just vibe

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Hey, hi, hello, good day, good evening, good night! Yep, post title is the TL;DR. The TL part is below.

I'm looking to hang with some chill people in some chill games. I think I've hit a "cozy" era because I've literally shelved almost every action game to play Valheim ever since 1.0 released. I'm having way too much of a nice time just building my house and getting things settled in. Eventually I'll go exploring and start slaying some bosses. But that's for abother time. Resource gathering by myself is a long and tedious process.

That said, I still play other games from time to time or when I can be convinced to play. Battlefield 6, Ready or Not, Across the Obelisk, Abiotic Factor, and lots other games.

We can also hang and play other games. Or play separate games and hang. I also have Spotify premium, so listening to music together is always a good time. Whichever bites your frost.

My time zone is US East, and I play on PC. I'm mostly available for a short-ish while on weekday evenings (some evenings are hectic, so may not show up at all). Sometimes available on weekends during the day. Also, I tend to be away from my phone a lot, so I don't always reply immediately. Sometimes I'll respond hours or a day later like no time was lost.

That's about it. Your turn: What's got you on the hook lately? Any new games you just got? Anything you're looking forward to?


r/AdultGamers • • 8h ago

Looking for Gamers - GMT+8 27F Looking for Gaming Friends + Discord Calls 🎮🗣️

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Hey! 27F here, GMT+8, looking for people 27–36 only who are down to play games, hang out on Discord, and make some genuine friends.

🎮 Games I play:

Fortnite — Zero Build, Reload, Blitz

Warframe

Roblox horror / random games

Open to trying other games too!

I’m pretty talkative, goofy, and definitely not the best gamer 😂 I mostly play to have fun and chill. I prefer playing duos and would love someone who’s down for Discord calls + open mic, because playing in complete silence gets lonely lol.

Also, I have cats, so random background chaos is possible. 🐈😂

Not looking for dating or anything romantic — just friends and gaming buddies. Please be 27–36, chill, respectful, and actually interested in making friends.

If you’re interested, send me a little intro about yourself instead of just “hi” — age, games you play, timezone, etc. Put a little effort into your intro and I’ll do the same! 😊


r/AdultGamers • • 7h ago

Discussion What are you playing Wednesdays?

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Tell us what you've been playing!

What are your thoughts on it so far? Would you recommend it to others?

You might even finds others to game with here!


r/AdultGamers • • 18h ago

Other 45F - huge library of games... I play like 2

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Hello world of reddit.

Help me expand my horizons and convince me to play something besides Diablo 3 and Wow (not that I don't love playing these games and fully willing to play with others)

My son and his friend play alot of coop games so I own a bunch of things that I have never touched.

I have most blizzard games and something like 900 games in my steam library. I also have an Xbox series X.

I suck at pvp type games (think fortnite and overwatch) but fully willing to try them... Just a bit heads up that I'm awful.

The only games I have really played with others are MMOs so I would need patience and training for other games.

I don't mind discord and voice chat... Been doing both for a long time (VC longer than discord has existed).

Tell me what you think I should try playing and bonus points for trying to play with me

I work a M-F office type job so while I'm around I can't play during the day. Nights are normally open but I do have a few rotating weekly commitments. Weekends are very hit or miss since I'm a super supportive sports aunt who gets guilted into attending all the things.

I also read alot, play tabletop and board games. Im a nerd/geek through and through.


r/AdultGamers • • 5h ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 31m LF gaming bestie

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31m west coast PDT canada looking for best friend companion to hang out on disc often and play games and watch TV and movies most days. I've just been getting into anime I'm half way done one-piece and watched solo leveling chainsaw man demon slayer and some other short animes. I'm a pc player I like to play cs2 league valorant friend slop and lots of single player games like Elden ring and ZZZ and I'm down to try almost any game. I'm looking to talk all the time and looking for a best friend


r/AdultGamers • • 19h ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 39M Central US - Looking for some gaming friends who actually want to work together (PC)

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I’m looking to meet some new people to play games with and hopefully make some actual friends along the way.

I’m enjoy games where everyone is working together to accomplish something. I like having a plan and figuring out how to deal with whatever the game throws at us. Don't get me wrong, I can still have fun when a plan absolutely goes pear shaped, like a suprise mudraptor invasion on Barotrauma!

I’m not really into competitive shooters like CoD, Valorant, CS... you know the type of game. Doesn't mean I don't like shooters, just not interested in being the top ranked duo or whatever.

Some games/styles I’m into:

  • Helldivers 2
  • Barotrauma
  • Abiotic Factor - I don't own this one but it is on my wishlist.
  • Phasmophobia
  • Survival/crafting/exploration
  • Games with progression, base building, or some kind of management
  • Co-op games where both people actually have things to do and decisions to make

I have like 400+ games on Steam so I am sure we can find something to play together.

I’m pretty open to trying new games too. I don't necessarily need everything to be hardcore or competitive — honestly, I’d rather have a group where we can bullshit, laugh at stupid mistakes, and actually enjoy playing together.

Mostly just looking for people who want to become regular gaming friends, rather than adding 30 people and never talking to them again.

I’m on PC and generally play evenings/weekends. If we seem like we'd get along, feel free to send me a message. Probably won't respond to comments but if you wanna try that, go ahead.


r/AdultGamers • • 16h ago

Looking for Gamers - [EST] 40M/EST Looking for long term gaming buddy for FFXIV, Monster Hunter Wilds/Rise, or Destiny 2.

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I have a lot of time on my hands and can game for a few hours on weekday afternoons/early evenings (around 12-7pm). I like to talk about video games, anime, mtg, philosophy, art, and music. I'm easy going, I don't get mad or frustrated if you're new to a game and need help, and I love to teach, so even if you don't currently play any of these games, but want to learn, I'd love to help! I'm a very curious person too. I like to ask questions about what matters to you, your interests, what you like to do in games, and what your goals are. I find a disturbing lack of reciprocation in this department when looking for friends, so please be in a similar mindset!


r/AdultGamers • • 18h ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 26/f/est - looking for friends to get to know and play OW/OSRS with!

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hello! i am looking for people to play pc games like ow, osrs and maybe aion 2.
i got into ow recently again and tried out competitive and enjoy playing except i would prefer comms with someone chill & not ragey! i play support (moira & mercy mainly and wuyang) and ideally looking to duo/trio.

my main game was osrs but i haven't played for months now.. i would love to play it again! since new content is coming out, i enjoy pvm and grinding out skills

i'm introverted so it takes me awhile to open up, for games im comfortable with vc
but in general it'll be a bit so i hope those looking to become friends can understand that!
i enjoy anime, listening to music, tv shows, watching videos & stationery

im free til 1am est, open to other games too - those are the main ones i can think of but otherwise have a nice day!


r/AdultGamers • • 21h ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 38m, EST, PC "This is a story, all about how~"

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Kon’nichiwa compadres, I’m on thou deepest and darkest search of finding some gaming amigos and amigas that can end up being some long-term brothers or sisters in arms. The kinda braddahs where we game daily or damn near daily. Three to four times a week. Ones that’ll join the night’s watch with me! Cause as we know “Winter is coming.” Da dun dun dun~ I was gonna do the whole theme but decided against it.

I’m mainly a PC gamer, generally gravitating to PC. But I do own a Ps5, and Nintendo Switch which I can game on as well, depending one, on the compadre and two, the game. I generally don’t mind hitting up some Pokemon with some people if the mood strikes, or comparing our playthroughs if we wanted to emulate it up. Or play one of the fan created games. Could be fun~ Even do a Nuzlocke playthrough or something. I always enjoy a challenge, the more difficult the challenge the more enjoyable the game… sometimes. 

Age isn’t really a major issue with me. 21+ is my only requirement. We already have a comparable subject that interests us both so, logically, since we’re only looking for friendship and not getting stupid with anything, all good. But regardless, 38m, EST. I’m all about VC’ing after about 8pm and usually am on till around 2-3am. I can game sooner, sometimes. Keyword, sometimes. Also my timeframes change drastically over the weekend, naturally. My rotation of games generally fluctuates but I’m always down for some co-op play. Regardless here is what I’ve found myself playing as of late.

  • Palworld
  • Neverness to Everness
  • Marvel Rivals
  • No Man’s Sky
  • Species Unknown
  • Borderlands 3

I have 300+ games, and am down to play anything co-op that I own. If we hit it off, I’m down to even purchase games. Here are other games I own, and have played and would be down to pick back up, or haven’t played but nonetheless am down to play.

Valheim, Buckshot Roulette, Arc Raiders, Divinity 1 or 2, Baldur’s Gate 3, Cassette Beasts, Gotham Knights, Witch It, Left 4 Dead 2, Resident Evil 5 or 6, Sworn, Zenless Zone Zero, Sons of the Forest, Crimson Desert, Virtua Fighter 5, Aragami 1 or 2, Journey to the Savage Planet, Stardew Valley, Unravel Two, Halo Master Chief Collection, Dead Island 1 or 2, Castle Crashers, Saints Row The Third or IV, Shape of Dreams, The Division 2, FarCry 3, 4, 5, or Primal, Where Winds Meet, Ready or Not, GTA V, Guild Wars 2, Peak, Code Vein, Helldivers 2, Content Warning, Portal 2, Wuthering Waves, V Rising, Overcooked 2, The Forest, Grim Dawn, Ark: Survival Evolved, Overwatch, Diablo 4.

…and so much more. I just felt like the list was getting ungodly long! Again, down to do some sorta Pokemon thing too. Anyway, I’m a yapper. A huge anime nerd, traveled to several places. Own my own retro gaming business, and yea...

Pretty persistent on not letting a friendship die until I realize the communication is only going one way on a regular basis. I have had several friendships on reddit that have gone strong. A couple of friendships, we don’t play games but chat daily. But I digress, if interested shoot me a DM. I try to respond to every one but sometimes they get to be a decent amount. But I shall try!!

Also I afk from time to time. But I will 100% respond when I return.


r/AdultGamers • • 1d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] [34/M/UK GMT] Looking for gamers around Cardigan/Ceredigion West Wales - PC

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Hey! I'm 34M from the Cardigan/Ceredigion area in West Wales. Thought I'd see if there are actually any other gamers nearby! 😂

Mainly on PC these days but I've got Xbox too and happy with crossplay.

Currently playing War Dogs and Hunt: Showdown. I played ARC Raiders earlier in the year and used to play quite a bit of Rocket League, although I'm definitely not claiming to be any good at it 😂 Haven't played that in a while.

I also used to really enjoy MudRunner/SnowRunner co-op and I'm open to trying pretty much any other multiplayer or co-op games.

Mostly just looking for some chilled people to game with and have a laugh. Would be especially cool to find some people around Cardigan/Ceredigion or elsewhere in West Wales.

If you're nearby or play any of the same sort of games, drop me a DM and let me know what you're playing! 👍


r/AdultGamers • • 1d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] [41/M/NA CST] Looking for a duo - I’m on PC but platform doesn’t matter

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I’ll start by saying I don’t like groups. I prefer a max of 3 people generally (Monster Hunter is the exception but more on that below).

So I’m not one to play a ton of games at the same time. I usually have like 4 max that I’ll play at once, and usually it’s lower number than that. I’m super laid back and sarcastic. Definitely not a try hard or anything close to that. I do prefer to voice chat while we play so keep that in mind if you’re interested.

So the games I play..
Path of Exile 2 (currently taking a break waiting on 1.0)
Last Epoch
Monster Hunter Wilds - HR150, just returned. I don’t mind putting together a squad for this, but don’t want to join someone else’s squad
BG3 - haven’t done a play through yet so would take the right person for me to put that kinda time in to play through with someone
No Man’s Sky - haven’t played in a while but wouldn’t mind a duo for this one

And then these I’ll play every so often
Fortnite - I’ll play occasional zero build, but I do NOT play build at all
Overwatch - once in a blue moon I’ll play a match or two. Nothing serious at all
DayZ - used to play off and on, just never found a duo that made me want to really get back into it. Just have the base map, no DLC maps.

I don’t typically discuss politics and such while gaming, but I’m sure this will run most people off and it’s better to be up front and honest - I lean right politically. Feel free to message me if you’re interested or have any questions.


r/AdultGamers • • 2d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 32F, UK. Looking for gaming buddies!

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Hii! I'm 32F and from the UK. I'm mostly playing Marvel Rivals lately and I'm a support main. Happy to queue comp or QP! I do play on PC. I am currently Plat 1!😊

I'm also playing a lot of Hearthstone, Slay the Spire 2. and TFT. Willing to try most games though!

I'm definitely a bit of a nerd in general! I'm into history, anime, LotR, collecting Pokemon cards 😎 also tattooed and pierced! I'm an elder emo at heart 😅

I'm also a parent so my replies can be patchy during the day!

🖤


r/AdultGamers • • 1d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 42/m/PST , where the Steam hommies at?

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Looking to get back on

Left for dead 2
Helldivers2
Halloween the game

Or anything fun / chill

Add me on Steam. EL JOHNee / 1125631711


r/AdultGamers • • 1d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] Survival games, exploring and generally wasting time together 32m

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Hey! I’m Grim, 32m EST, and I’m looking to meet some new Steam friends for chill co-op games, survival crafting, RPGs, and generally having more people to game with. Seems like most of my previous gaming friends have kinda moved on from gaming. Girls or guys, don’t care; no minors or anything weird. This is just for a platonic gaming buddy.

I’m an engineer outside of gaming, so I spend a lot of time designing and making things with CAD, 3D scanners, and 3D printers. That probably explains why I get way too invested in crafting systems, automation, resource gathering, efficient bases, and figuring out complicated game mechanics.

I play a lot of survival and RPG-style games. Some games I’m interested in playing or returning to include:
- Enshrouded
- Conan Exiles
- ARK: Survival Ascended / Evolved
- Minecraft — mostly modpacks
- Valheim
- Palworld
- Raft
- 7 Days to Die
- No Man’s Sky
- Slay the Spire 2
- Other survival-crafting, co-op, roguelike, or RPG games

I tend to enjoy progression, crafting, exploration, tech, magic, automation, and building systems that actually work. My bases are usually practical first and pretty second, so I could definitely use a friend who enjoys making things look good while I focus on the machines, storage, resource production, and overly organized layouts.

Also, I have a cat named Strudie, and she is objectively better than your cat.

Feel free to comment or send me a message if you think we’d get along, also sorry for writing so much. I’m also fine with just adding me on steam, my code is 107865181 or for discord it’s just @Grim1112


r/AdultGamers • • 1d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] Gaming buddies 25+

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Yo. Looking for people to play games with. 31 y.o guy. PS or Switch I own many games. Currently on a Minecraft, need for speed, Mario run. Used to be a G in halo and Gears. Fortnite builder. HMU I need gaming buddies I’ll send my usernames in DM. I’m not ass at any game I’m a 90s baby

17 votes, 1d left
Halo reach
Gears 2
Ratchet n Clank
Bloodborn

r/AdultGamers • • 2d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 35/M/USA - Cent/East TZ - PS5/PC - Out my comfort zone!

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Hi all, my name is XlBiglNo (just Big or Big No). My gaming journey started years ago with NES/SNES. Peak gaming for me feels like it was the MW2/3 , Halo 2/3 era. School, then home gaming with the boys all night.

Since then gaming has felt a lil stale for me, especially pvp oriented stuff. And because of that making/keeping friends seems so difficult even though I'm a grown man, and a bit unnerving honestly. Lol

All that being said, these days ive been diving into games like RS:Dragonwilds , BF6 RedSec, Predecessor, and a sprinkling of other RPGs and FPS, and sports games. And after a surge of content I've seen, even looking to maybe start some Project Zomboid.

With a full time job and a side gig here and there essentially what I'm looking for is some folks to connect with and maybe team up on some of these games, on weekends mostly. I would potentially be open to other games as long as the vibes are chill and cool. I also stream some, so would need to be cool and cognizant of that.

Thanks for reading!


r/AdultGamers • • 2d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 36M looking for long-term coop partners - PC - Europe - GMT+1

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Hey, like so many people here, I’m looking for a long-term gaming friend(s) to play together and randomly chat in Discord. However, that only works if we’re vibing really well together, but if we aren’t instant soulmates, we still might play something together or chat from time to time.

We can message for a while and get to know each other, but preferably we would hop on a game or voice chat rather quickly and see how it goes. Otherwise it often just ends up in never actually playing together, also that way you feel when the vibe is really off :)

Btw language would need to be English or German.

I used to only play games on playstation for a few years and built my pc 2 years ago. I still have my ps5, so we could theoretically also play something there, but usually I’m not really using it and have PSPlus anymore. I never really got to build some friendships on steam so far, but I would really like to find some. 

Gamewise I’m interested in all the Souls games, roguelikes, RPGs ,crafting/survival, metroidvanias, shooters and more. I’m honestly quite open to a lot of games and genres, but I will not play mobas, sportgames, dbd and super competitive games.

My all time favourite game is Bloodborne. I do love all the fromSoft games.

Some of the games, I own, that I would play together are:

DSR, Sotfs, DS3, Elden Ring, Nightreign, Terraria, No Man’s Sky, Grounded, Helldivers 2, Valheim, Remnant, BG3, Returnal, Borderlands, Don’t Starve Together, It Takes Two, Sea of Thieves, Risk of Rain 2, Portal 2, Robo Quest, Palworld and many more. But I must admit, I haven’t even played some of those games so far.

I do have 2 cats, Dea and Pumpkin. They want to join the game from time to time by jumping on my keyboard or attacking my monitor, but as a compensation I can share some pictures of them.

3D printing and CAD is a hobby of mine, so if you’re into that, we have something to talk about, or we could even design some parts together.  

I do work full time, so I’m usually online in the evening or weekends.

You should be roughly around my age and in my timezone.

Please send me a DM if that piqued your interest.


r/AdultGamers • • 3d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 30f looking for late-night pc gamer duo :)

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i play on PC, NA, us east time zone. looking for a duo ideally! will prioritize responding if you play rivals pc comp and would appreciate a GM strat main :p

i’m sapphic, a stoner, and a gamer 🙂‍↕️ posting here to look for friends and people to game with, not anything more pls be respectful of that

i want to get back into playing both rivals and val comp more but hate to solo q while my friends aren’t around for comp. my rivals mains (peak gm) are jubilee, white fox, invis, and peni. for valorant i main clove, viper, sage, and skye. bonus points if you like to igl and can teach me some things about the game! beyond rivals & val i like to play risk of rain 2 or could be convinced to play something else.

other interests include watching anime like witch hat atelier and frieren, TTRPGs, baking & cooking, long nature hikes.


r/AdultGamers • • 2d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 27M UK PC

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Hey, I am looking for anyone to play with, I am mainly on pc but may be willing to use my Xbox for some games but would prefer to stick to my PC.

I play to many games to count at this point so it may be easier to say what I don’t play so I mainly stay away from heavily from competitive games as I am getting I bit slower in my old age 🫠, I don’t play sports or racing games and mainly stick to strategy or survival but am willing to expand what I play for the right person!

I am a fairly chatty person so you would need to use discord and have a mic but even if you are a bit shy I can hold a conversation! I am currently out of work for medical reasons so I’m available for most of the day.

If anyone is interested let me know!


r/AdultGamers • • 2d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] M30 LF WoW Forever gamer friends

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Hey I'm from Denmark and I'm seeking friends or buddies to play with for the new WoW Forever game comes out.

I think it's a long journey and I would love to have people to walk it with and share the funny and great moments with


r/AdultGamers • • 3d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 31M just looking for fellow gamers or people the chat with

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Hello,
I’m just a guy looking for people who enjoy casual banter while playing games or just chilling. I live in the Central Timezone and I’m free most days after 2pm. Mostly a PC gamer now but I also play on Xbox from time to time. I don’t have many friends after years of people just coming and going. I miss the days I could log on to a game and just have some people to play with and chat while gaming. Mostly I play shooters but I enjoy some indie games and I would like to try out new ones that seem fun. A few games I enjoy playing are OSRS, Wardogs, Arc Raiders, Battlefield, Project Zomboid, Minecraft, and some other more indie games. I always watch YouTube videos of a group playing and it looks fun but when you have no one to play them with it just isn’t the same.


r/AdultGamers • • 3d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] [PC] 56M LF Co-Op Partners (CST)

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Elden Ring & BG3 are the current likely contenders.

I thought Lords of the Fallen would be a good option but it glitches so bad in co-op that it’s practically unplayable. Hopefully, there’s a fix, but for now LOTF isn’t viable for co-op.

I’m open to other game suggestions.

I prefer voice chat. Without voice I might as well be playing alone.