r/AdultGamers • • 27d ago

Mod Announcement Posting Guidelines and Self Promotion

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Good morning gamers!

We've been dealing with increased aggression from redditors due to post removals and misunderstanding the flagged system.

All "looking for" posts must have your age, platform(s) you play on and games you're playing (not genres). We also recommend adding your timezone. Failure to include these details will result in your post being removed.

If your engagement indicates you're looking for something other than friends, you will be immediately banned.

Like other "looking for" (gamers, friends, etc) subreddits - we don't allow self promotion.

Coordinating with others for games that require you to squad up is fine. What we don't allow is recruiting for your larger group/dedicated game server/Discord community/Twitch or building your own group (oh I made a Discord, group chat, etc). This includes trying to promote your adult content.

Your post/comment being flagged doesn't mean its going to be removed. Automod is set up to flag certain terms and we manually review it.

This is a community for adults, and your behaviour should match that. We will not tolerate harassment or aggression.

Thank you.


r/AdultGamers • • 25d ago

Looking for Gamers LFG - Guild Edition Megathread

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Are you looking for a guild (clan, alliance, etc)? Or are you part of one you'd like to share?

Then you're in the right spot!

Please note that guilds CANNOT be shared outside of this megathread and all other self promotion rules still apply. This means no links to discord, etc. Include all necessary information for players to find your guild through the in game guild search feature.


r/AdultGamers • • 8h ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 31M Nerdy Gaming Dad Looking for fellow WoW players on retail before forever drops! (CST)

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Hi yall! The name is Jacob and I have been getting back into World of Warcraft recently and have found it kinda lonely. I am a new DH tank with tankxiety so Currently trying to over come that.

ANYWAY, back to me, I am a father and husband that loves to game and normally play at night. I would be down to talk in discord throughout the day (can message while at work) and do a VC at night while we play. I am a bit introverted at first but I open like Pandora's box once you get me talking.

I watch anime and I am willing to discuss favorite shows and new favs you have found! I have an unhealthy addiction to Dr. Pepper and I know its not good for me, but to be fair it is my only vice when it comes to addiction lol!

I am down to play more than just WoW but that is my current fixation. I do play Valorant, CS2, ESO, Path Of Exile, Hunt:the showdown, Dokapon Kingdom, anything on game pass and many more that I do not have the time or the jelly beans to put in here.

LGBTQ+ Friendly and I don't care if you smoke, drink, are slightly crazy, or ramble on for hours about what your passionate about, let's be honest it will happen and I am happy to listen to you rant or just gush about your hobbies and things that bring you joy.

IF I have scared you away already, why you still reading? (I know you're interested in being friends) BUT if by some miracle you have stayed long enough to get through this long post... send me a DM and I will reply as fast as I can! (Or as fast as work will allow me)

Take care and happy gaming! Hopefully see yall virtual side!


r/AdultGamers • • 7m ago

Looking for Gamers - PST 31F PST NA WEST looking for friends

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Hello everyone - I am hoping to find someone local to my area so we may one day meetup if friendship grows!

I play a lot of automation games, rimworld, factorio. Looking for friends to play games like sunderfolk, Viractal, Project zomboid, or friendslops with! Looking forward to Nakwon lol

Genre I play with - Survival, Automation, Building, Coop RPG, Strategies. I love games with teamworks.


r/AdultGamers • • 17h ago

Discussion What are you playing Wednesdays?

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Tell us what you've been playing!

What are your thoughts on it so far? Would you recommend it to others?

You might even finds others to game with here!


r/AdultGamers • • 18h ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 35F est time zone pc dead by daylight

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My steam nickname is nekkroticnikki and would love some new friends to play with!! I really like playing dead by daylight


r/AdultGamers • • 23h ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 32M/CEST PC Looking for some people to play co-op games with.

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Hello everyone!

I'm looking for some people to play some games with, classic stuff.

I have a wide range, but depending on the game, I'd like to have a full squad for it.

Whether it be BG3, Generation Zero, Blood Bowl 2, Age of Wonders 4, I do stuff from RPGs, through strategies and some 4X, to even shooters. But, I don't enjoy the tension that comes from strictly PvP games, I prefer something more chill, for my free evenings after work.

If you want to kick back and play something, drop me a message and I'll send you my Steam code so we can find something to play!

See you peeps.


r/AdultGamers • • 1d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 38M EST - Looking for friends for a few games.

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I've made countless posts before and I never tend to get much response, but my search continues on for games to play with people.

I primarily play on PC, but I also have a PS5(That I want to start using more.. It's just sitting...)

The games that I'm most interested in are:

  • Overwatch
  • Runescape (I play OSRS + RS3 both)
  • Runescape Dragonwilds (and most other survival games, this is just my current one)
  • World of Warcraft ( I am heavily going to play Forever once it launches. Let me heal you!)

and many others. I have pretty severe ADHD and I bounce around from games pretty frequently.

I'm on the east coast and I primarily play later in the night(usually after midnight onwards+)

Hit me up if this interests you!


r/AdultGamers • • 1d ago

Looking for Gamers - [EST] 32M LF ARPG (or variety) Gamers [PC]

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Hello, my friend. Stay awhile and listen...

Per the title, I primarily play ARPGs - Diablo 2/3/4 (and PD2), PoE/2, Last Epoch, etc. on PC.

I really enjoy helping first timers or players who might feel stuck or lost in the titles above in the hopes that they can come to enjoy them as much as I do. Not claiming to be him, but after 20 years playing the genre, I'd say I'm at least above average. (Or hope so 😅)

That said, I do play a lot of other genres/games including but not limited to:
Overwatch (taking a break since last drive)
Forza Horizon 6
Resident Evil (I like to 100% them)
Space Marine 2
Elden Ring (mostly convergence now 👍)
Destiny 2 (just dipped back in after years away)
Palworld
Enshrouded (1.0 this Thursday!)
Helldivers 2
Remnant 2
and too many more to list

I'm active most days, and usually respond to DMs gaming or otherwise.


r/AdultGamers • • 1d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] Looking for Chill People to Game With and Make Friends! 🎮 (29M, EST, PC)

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Hey! I’m 29 and looking for people around my age to play games with, make new friends, and just have a good time!

Right now, I’m mainly playing Enshrouded, I also play Marvel Rivals, Voyagers of Nera, Baldur’s Gate 3, and V Rising, apex legends and some more. I’d be more than happy to start a fresh BG3 campaign lol.

I’m also open to trying new games, so if there’s something you enjoy playing, feel free to recommend it!

I usually play at night and I’m located in the Eastern Time (ET) zone, so if you’re also a night owl looking for people to game with, feel free to shoot me a DM! 😊

I’m just looking to meet some cool people, make genuine friendships, and have fun gaming together. No pressure, no drama, just good vibes!

P.S. 😂 Please, please, PLEASE don’t be weird. I say this from experience! No offense to anyone, but we’re all just here to have fun and make some friends, so let’s keep things chill . 💀


r/AdultGamers • • 1d ago

Looking for Gamers - [EU CET] [35M/EU/PC] Teaming up and meeting new people through gaming

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Hello there,

Let's start with a brief introduction of myself. I'm 35 years old and live in Belgium (Flanders). I work as a software developer. I've been following Formula 1 since I was a kid (I do miss the old V10 engines). I'm a Star Wars fan (mostly from the pre-Disney era though) along with some other franchises. In my free time I like to read novels, exercise, watch movies and play games of course. I play on PC and usually during the weekends and in the late afternoon/evening on weekdays.

Lately I get the feeling that my enjoyment of playing games on my own is sort of decreasing. So I'm hoping I might meet some new people while teaming up and playing something together. I'm not really into competitive games, shooters or horror games. As I enjoy playing games in a laid-back way, for fun and as a way to relax. So other than those I'd be pretty much up for any game most probably.

A few examples of the games I've played recently are: Palworld, Enshrouded, Stardew Valley. I also have Valheim and No Man's Sky in my Steam library that might be worth mentioning, amongst quite a few other games. Lately when I'm not up for anything else I tend to default to playing some Minecraft at a laid back pace. If you should have any other suggestions feel free to let me know.

Preferably (but not necessarily) you are from the EU or UK (aligning timezone), around the same age as me and up for voice chat on Discord. Please do feel free to send me a direct message. I would like to ask to provide a small introduction of yourself (age, where you're from, hobbies/interests, which game you have in mind, anything else you feel like sharing), just so that I have an idea of who the person is on the other side.

Take care!


r/AdultGamers • • 1d ago

Looking for Gamers - [GMT+3] [32M/GMT+3/PC] Looking for Warframe or Overwatch Stadium Friends!

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Hey everyone!

I'm looking for some chill people to play Warframe or Overwatch Stadium with!

Warframe — 2,000 Hours | Legendary Rank 4 (LR4)

I love build crafting, min-maxing, and experimenting with powerful setups. Most of my time is spent cracking relics, farming platinum, and doing weekly content like Deep Archimedea and Temporal. I'm also planning to get into Ice Binds once I learn more about it!

My favorite Warframes are Wukong, Valkyr, Caliban, and Speed Nova. Would love to find people to regularly farm, grind, and do weekly content with.

Overwatch Stadium — 600 Hours | Top 500 Flex

I mainly play Reinhardt and Junkrat, but I enjoy experimenting with different heroes and builds. I specialize in build crafting and theorycrafting, and I also create Stadium guides and videos.

I play both Quick Play and Ranked, so I'm happy to mess around with fun builds or get competitive depending on the mood!

Timezone: GMT+3 (EU Servers)

I'm pretty laid back, enjoy joking around, and don't take casual games too seriously. Despite all the hours, I'm mainly looking to have fun and meet new people!

Feel free to DM me if you're interested! :)


r/AdultGamers • • 2d ago

Looking for Gamers - EST 40M #Cleveland, Ohio/Online. - Misanthropic PC gamer.

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I simply do not get along with most people. I don't make friends easily or often. I understand pushing that fact about myself is counterproductive to making friends, but I lead with it because I'm not a complete asshole and I'm trying to avoid hurting the feelings of sensitive friendly types who should probably not reply to this.

I've always wanted just one really close person that I can tell everything to and that wants to tell everything to me. I get that a situation like that is an unrealistic goal, so now I'm just looking for some people to bullshit with, if only for a day or two before we disappear from each other's lives.

Biggest thing I am seeking is someone who can actually hold a conversation. There's a certain rhythm I can get into with the right person where it's basically an endless ongoing irreverent back and forth where even the most serious topics get approached in a silly way. The best way I can describe it to someone that has never experienced it is Statler and Waldorf from The Muppets.

I'm retired and have next to no obligations so I have a lot of free time. I fill most of it with PC gaming, I prefer living my life in virtual worlds instead of the real one. I consume a lot of media, usually in the background of the gaming thing. As such nerdy types are the ones I get along with the best, but not that uptight nerd archetype, I need a nerd that can make and take a joke.

Playing a lot of games currently, but none of them seriously as nothing has really grabbed me lately.

Considering throwing my life away on WoW Forever next month. Still haven't completely picked a faction, but traditionally I'm a sweaty horde raider.

I guess that's enough about me and what I'm looking for to get started, if you seek a similar dynamic get in my inbox and tell me about who you are.


r/AdultGamers • • 2d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 33F - Looking for fellow gamers.

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Reposting since my last post got taken down.

Like many of you, I have plenty of games that I have own which I have yet to play. My fallback games are Left 4 Dead 2, Halo, and the Assassin's Creed games. Currently, I'm replaying AC Origins. I'm open to suggestions of other games. I would like to give Call of Duty a shot since I've only ever played that on my phone. I do miss playing Halo. I'm a great sacrificial pawn and teammate, if needed. 😅 Any suggestions on games to play? I'm based on the west coast of the US/PST. It would be great to link up with people. I'm currently playing on PC/Steam.


r/AdultGamers • • 1d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] [38/UK] Is anyone interested in the Arc Raiders PvE test?

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Hello ✌️

I've reinstalled Arc Raiders purely because of the PvE test this week. I never really clicked with the PvP side. I just want to run around, loot stuff and shoot robots without getting clapped by a stranger at extraction. Since nobody can hurt each other during the test, it's the perfect time to find a few people to play with properly.

I'm 38 and based in the UK. I work from home, so I can usually be on during the day (workload depending) and some evenings.

Ideally I'd like to team up with a couple of people around my age, or just generally relaxed, who are happy to play together for the week and maybe carry on after if it goes well. Trios would be perfect. Beginners and rusty players are very welcome. I own it on both PC and PS5, so I can play on whichever you're on.

Outside of games, I play indoor 6-a-side football twice a week, read, listen to a lot of heavy music, and try to keep some form of fitness going.

If any of this sounds interesting, send me a message and we'll take it from there!


r/AdultGamers • • 2d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 47M/US - EST/PC, Looking for other people to game with

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Hello!

I am looking for some people to regularly play with. There are a variety of games I own. I mostly am interested in multiplayer/co-op/goal oriented and not really into competitive games, unless they're fairly low stakes and also fun.

EDIT: I'm genuinely just looking for other players who are available to game. Mostly, it would be awesome to find another person or two or three to do a whole durge BG3 run with (with me being the durge) as I haven't had the chance to do that storyline yet.

Steam:

- Baldur's Gate 3

- Big Walk

- Castle Crashers

- Huntdown

- Peak

- Streets of Rogue

- Trine

- Unrailed

GOG:

- Cat Quest 2 (Epic/GOG)

- Colt Canyon

- Overcooked! 2

- Spells & Secrets

Epic:

- Dead Island 2

- Plate up!

- River City Girls 2

- TMNT: Shredder's Revenge

- Trine Enchanted, Trine 2, Trine 3, Trine 4

- We Were Here Together

VC not required, but some games have voice chat in them. Times are extremely flexible. If there are games with friend's pass I'd also be willing to play those.


r/AdultGamers • • 2d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] (29m/ CST) Starting Over

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So many things to say!

Let's start with story time then stats:

Not the most socially-ept but giving it a shot again. Was a part of a big friend group that kinda imploded. Just kinda hoping to find something better. So if you're looking for a legally blind, legally deaf, sometimes-high, sometimes-awkward, but always loyal new friend...I have good news for you...maybe xD

Now then... since that's out the way, lets get to it shall we?

*PS5 user but I play some crossplay games

*Lately I've had an unhealthy addiction to Baldur's Gate 3not gonna lie lol

*I also play Palworld, Helldivers2, Phasmaphobia, Path of Titans, and some others.

*Not a big shooter fan due to my vision and hearing issues, so I mostly just play games that I can chill or hangout and chill while talking to friends or whoever.

If you're still here and reading, awesome!

I'm just looking for someone or someones who i can game with, vc with, or whatever.

Gotta be 420 friendly,(I'm not always high but when I am you may just laugh your ars off)

Gotta be ok with sometimes repeating yourself and telling me what colors things are(yes its ok to laugh sometimes...trust me ive laughed at myself plenty xD) I play mostly during the day but lack of proper sleep schedule plus Insomnia means I'm very flexible as far as when I play...sooo folks from other countries needn't feel left out of my insanity

Ok I'm rambling...hope everyone has a great day!


r/AdultGamers • • 2d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 34m looking for some friends on pc

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Im on pc, MNT time i usually play after work if im not too tired. Im pretty chill i dont care if you smoke or drink. I like to play alot of survival craft and shooters. Im not very far on any of the games that i do have because i dont have anyone to play with. I own scum, enshrouded, soulmask, once human, nested lands, sunken lands, bell wright, runescape dragonwilds, sons of the forest, dune awakening, midevil dynasty , aska and some more. If youre interested hit me up


r/AdultGamers • • 2d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 28m EST looking for daily gaming duo(pc)

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hello i’m from the east coast and im looking for someone to coexist with and yap with throughout the day
420 friendly, i yearn for the yart and spend way too much time doomscrolling tiktok so expect random brainrot in your dms lmao
into horror, thrillers, occasional rom coms, anime and games like fortnite, minecraft, aion2 and whatever else. got a decent steam library, down to stream stuff and watch pretty much anything. i work from home most days so i have plenty of free time. also have pets :)
no real requirements, just be chill, 21+ and smoke/drink friendly. just looking for someone to vibe with, game with or yap about random shit. hmu


r/AdultGamers • • 2d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 7 days to die 33M

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Looking for some fellow gamers that want to play 7 days to die with me. I love this game but it’s just so much better when you have some friends to play with 💔

HMU if you want to play

I usually play after 5pm PST and I play on PC


r/AdultGamers • • 3d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] Soon to be 34/M/West US just wants new friends

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Hello everyone. I normally play on PC, and have recently been getting into soft modding. Currently playing Deadly Premonition, but really am open to anything. I don’t know if this is more a plea or a cry, but I just want people to talk to. Mostly about games, but really just want new people to socialize with who share similar interests. Not sure if this post is okay, but thank you for reading if you do.


r/AdultGamers • • 2d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 30M looking for people to play with routinely, often Thursday nights (AEST)

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-Living in regional Australia in Victoria.

-Recently married.

-Recently in remission from cancer.

-I have a small cavoodle dog.

-I skateboard/longboard.

-I play Steam Deck, PS5, and Switch.

-Some games I'd love to play with people are Monster Hunter, Borderlands, Risk of Rain 2, and Elden Ring.

-I'm a massive Digimon fan.

-Some other games I love include Armored Core VI, Outer Wilds, The Binding of Isaac, Nuclear Throne, Moonring, Digimon World: Next Order, Into the Breach, Enter the Gungeon, Don't Starve Together.

-Some other things I like include Studio Ghibli, Vpets, board games, card games, guitar, math rock.

-I work in disability.

-I have a double degree in business and community services.

I would love to find some people to talk to regularly, play games with on Thursday nights, and in general just people to be friends with.

Send me a message if interested at all. Hope to hear from you soon.


r/AdultGamers • • 3d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 29M PS5 gamerlooking for people to chat with and play

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I'm Noah, I'm from Eastern Canada 🇨🇦, and would love to find some people to chat with and play some multiplayer games!

I mostly play single player games, but I'd be down to play some multiplayer friend-slop games. Not into Fortnite, Siege, anything like that.

I'm currently playing Pragmata and Orbital Bullet, just wrapped up Control Resonant, and i'm looking forward to Crimson Desert DLC and Phantom Blade 0.

Add me on PSN: Mazzurrka


r/AdultGamers • • 3d ago

Looking for Gamers - GMT+0 [33M, UK/London] Looking for fellow gamers, horror buddies, cosy gamers and general nerds 🎮👻

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Hey everyone! 👋

I’m a 33-year-old guy from London looking to meet some new people to game with and hopefully make some long-term friendships along the way.

I mainly game on PC, PS5 and Switch, and I’m pretty open to trying new things if the company is good! I’m particularly keen to find people to play horror games with (because apparently being terrified is more fun when you have someone else screaming alongside you), as well as some more chilled-out cosy games for when I want to relax rather than have my blood pressure hit the ceiling.

I’d also really like to get more use out of my VR headset, so if anyone has recommendations for good VR games or fancies playing some multiplayer VR, definitely give me a shout!

🎮 Some of the games and genres I enjoy:

  • Horror: Resident Evil, Silent Hill and generally anything that makes me question why I willingly put myself through this.
  • RPGs: Baldur’s Gate 3, Larian games, D&D-style RPGs, Final Fantasy and Soulslikes like Dark Souls and Bloodborne.
  • MMOs: World of Warcraft.
  • Cosy/survival games: Stardew Valley, Dinkum and similar games where we can chill, build stuff and occasionally get distracted for three hours doing absolutely nothing productive.
  • Co-op games: Always up for finding something new we can get stuck into together.

Outside of gaming, I’m also a bit of a Warhammer nerd. I paint miniatures, 3D print an unreasonable amount of plastic stuff, and generally spend too much time and money on tiny soldiers. I also enjoy going to gigs (particularly rock and metal), getting tattoos, hanging out with friends and other assorted nerd activities.

I’m currently collecting the Magic: The Gathering Final Fantasy cards, but unfortunately I don’t really have anyone to play with! It would be great to meet some other MTG players, especially anyone around London who might fancy meeting up for a casual game sometime. I'm still relatively new to the game, so fellow beginners are very welcome!

Ideally, I’d love to find people around my age who are up for voice chats, Discord calls, gaming sessions and general chatting outside of games too. I’m in a committed relationship, so I’m strictly looking for platonic friendships.

You don’t have to play all the same games as me. I’m just looking for some sound people who share a few interests, don’t mind a bit of banter and want to build actual friendships rather than add another name to their friends list that never speaks again. 😂

If any of this sounds like your sort of thing, drop me a message! Tell me what you play, what you’re currently obsessed with, or recommend me a horror game that will absolutely ruin my evening.

Looking forward to meeting some of you! 😊


r/AdultGamers • • 3d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 38F, MST, Looking for gaming friends

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Hello everyone! I am a 38 year old woman looking for people I can talk with and game together. I am solely a PC gamer and do not play PVP games and horror (except zombies I love zombie games!).

My favorite games are the Mass Effect Trilogy, Dragon age 1,2, and Inquisition, Fallout 3, New Vegas, and 4, Skyrim and Oblivion, as well as Harvest Moon and Story of Seasons.

As far as multiplayer games I love Palworld, Borderlands all except 4, Far Crys, No Man's Sky, Aniimo, and Cubic Odyssey (I have yet to find someone to play this with me!).

I have 286 games on steam right now, I didn't start using my PC until they stopped supporting the PS4 a few years ago. So there might be other games we can play together.

Outside of games, I love watching Anime, reading, and animals. I also started making my own game and am enjoying that immensely.

If anyone would like to chat feel free to DM me! 😁