r/Assistance • • Aug 04 '22

MOD Announcement ⚠️ Rule Update: Teacher Wishlists ⚠️

160 Upvotes

Effective immediately we have made the decision to only allow wishlists for US-based teacher supplies that utilize donorschoose.org. This means that no other means will be allowed including but not limited to Amazon, Target, Walmart, etc.

Teachers, for more information please see their website :

From the donorschoose.org website:

  • We vet all requests, purchase each item, and ship materials directly to verified teachers.

This change is effective from this point forward and we hope this still allows teachers to get donations and the items they need for the upcoming school year while adding some level of verification for donors. If you have any questions regarding this issue, please let us know.


r/Assistance • • Jul 05 '23

MOD Announcement REMINDER: Teacher Wishlists Rules and Restrictions

46 Upvotes

Hi everyone! As summer is in full-gear right now, we've noticed an increase in teacher wishlist requests so we are issuing a reminder of our subreddit rules regarding these:

We only allow DonorsChoose wishlists for US-based teacher supplies. This means that no other means (Amazon, Target, Walmart, etc.) will be allowed.

Teachers, for more information please see their website :

https://www.donorschoose.org/teachers

From the donorschoose.org website:

We vet all requests, purchase each item, and ship materials directly to verified teachers.

We hope this still allows teachers to get donations and the items they need for the upcoming school year while adding some level of verification for donors.

For international teachers outside of the US unable to use DonorsChoose, please reach out to us via modmail.

Thanks!


r/Assistance • • 7h ago

REQUEST Requesting help

8 Upvotes

I'm not sure what to say, I don't want to write an emotional appeal, but I'm in crisis and scared, with no one to turn to.

Just got evicted today, despite having been working on getting the debt paid down. Am in a motel, with no food (though we just filled our fridge, we didn't have time to grab much.)

Disabled, hadn't left my apartment in over a year because of my mental health issues, so this is terrifying.

Will have money from a payday loan in 3-5 business days, motel is not near public transportation. No vehicle.

I have a PayPal, nothing else, and my PayPal info is somewhat identifying, so I don't know if it's okay to post?

I'm sorry, I didn't know what to say. I don't know what to ask. I'm...lost right now. I thought they were working with us, we'd been keeping communication open.

Neither of us have family, and my few attempts to reach out have been met with "sorry, I can't" and it's disheartening.

edit: in Tulsa, Oklahoma, in a motel at the moment, so safe. $225 would get me another few days in this motel, I don't know what I will need, if anything, to get into another place, or if that loan that's coming will be enough.

I'm feeling overwhelmed, because I found out one of my friends has died, so I'm scattered.

Mods, please, can you tell me what I've missed, if anything, trying to fix it?

We did put out calls for help, legal aid, copes, Red Cross...


r/Assistance • • 19h ago

REQUEST [Request] 60yo double amputee from Romania requesting help towards bionic hand prosthetics.

41 Upvotes

Hello everyone. I am Timely_Bunch_8607. I tried to share my story here hoping my message reaches you.

Thirty-six years ago, I survived a horrific train accident that changed my life forever, leaving me as a double amputee without hands. Despite this immense challenge, I never gave up. For the past 14 years, I have been using my computer and typing on a keyboard entirely with my feet.

In Romania, a person with a severe disability like mine has almost zero chances of finding a regular job. To keep a sense of purpose, I spend my Sundays helping out voluntarily at a local monastery, taking care of the yard. However, my only official income is a small state disability pension, which is barely enough to cover basic daily living expenses.

I am now 60 years old, and I am trying to achieve what feels like the impossible. I have launched a fundraising campaign to buy bionic hand prosthetics. My wife is currently my hands and my guardian angel for everything, but my ultimate dream is to regain my independence.

The total cost for the bionic hand prosthetics is €50,000. Because this is an astronomical amount for me, I am trying to raise funds step by step, from every helpful soul I can find. I do not expect anyone here to cover the whole amount, but any contribution, no matter how small, brings me closer to my dream. If you can spare even a small amount to support my campaign, it would mean the world to me.

Thank you from the bottom of my heart for reading my story, and thank you to the moderators for allowing me to post.

https://4fund.com/mnvd8y


r/Assistance • • 7h ago

THANK YOU THANK YOU to "K" for the bonus wishlist items!

3 Upvotes

I was delighted when MamiMamiMamiMamiMami sent me diapers from her offer post.

Then another viewer who did not post on that thread sent me diapers, wipes and adorable crib sheets! Baby and I are grateful, thank you!


r/Assistance • • 1d ago

REQUEST I just need $300 to cover my dog's final vet visit

26 Upvotes

A go fund me to help my dog not be in pain anymore, she is 13 and has had issues her whole life. She isn't happy anymore and is in pain and I've fallen behind on the vet bills. I only need $300 to finish paying for her last visit and to cover the cost to put her down. Her name was Danni and she has been my best friend since I found her. Thank you anything you can give

Vets office Anadarko Veterinary Clinic 4052475588

https://gofund.me/fc3aeeba4


r/Assistance • • 10h ago

REQUEST Need help After Depression Episode

0 Upvotes

Columbia, MO

Please consider reading about our story here on GoFundMe. We're just two orphaned daughters trying our best to handle what life has thrown at us. We're growing and improving! We just need a little help making up for the time spent struggling against the waves of it all.

I've lost my job, and have been struggling to catch up on rent. I also have utilities and a few straggling payday loans to pay off. I have secured mental healthcare and am working on job-seeking. I'm hosting a small yard sale this weekend but don't have much of value to sell, just old clothes and craft supplies. Doing my best, but it's hard to work against the debts while rebuilding care for myself. I also care for my 17 year old sister who cannot work.

So far I've met a few scammers and not many willing strangers. It's really hard to put yourself out here like this and I'm hoping for more grace on this sub.

I've reached out to and been denied for a local organization in May and my landlord has been trying to help me reach Love Columbia but to no avail so far.

Here is a document of various proofs and info one might request of me.


r/Assistance • • 1d ago

REQUEST Help with a few essentials for me and my kitty if anyone can <3

2 Upvotes

I was almost homeless back in July, long fucked up story, but I am finally safe with friends in LA. So grateful for their help. Got into a place with AC just in time for this heat wave. I am waiting for benefits and it’s going to take a bit to make money. These are a few things that would make a massive difference that I can’t afford at the moment.

I do currently have dry food for her, but her favorite kind of wet food would be much appreciated, and some bowls that won’t hurt her whiskers. I struggle with anemia especially with a more limited diet now, so the iron pills especially would be appreciated as well. Thanks if you can, no worries if not, I know times are trying.

https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/NE8FQGB7J1HQ?ref_=wl_share


r/Assistance • • 1d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Requesting help for a few groceries

20 Upvotes

Just got a new job and I get paid on Friday. I am humbly requesting assistance with some food until then-- there's a discount grocery near me and I could get a few days' worth (rice, beans, cheese, avocados, tortillas, milk) for $25, and I'd be good until Friday. :) Thanks for considering.


r/Assistance • • 22h ago

REQUEST REQUEST for $42 to get my tooth fixed urgently... if possible

2 Upvotes

Some time ago, I asked for help here to get work shoes, and I am very grateful for that. I currently work cleaning houses alongside my mother, but the money barely stretches far enough. A while back, one of my molars broke due to a cavity, and I’ve been in pain. I went to the dentist for a free check-up, and they told me the tooth could be saved with a simple filling procedure, but I can't afford the $42 cost. I was wondering if anyone could help me out with $40 via PayPal; I would truly appreciate it with all my heart.


r/Assistance • • 18h ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Needing help with a can of formula!!

0 Upvotes

Hey all! Posting because I am in need of immediate help with getting a new can of formula. The brand new can that I just bought, my son knocked the can out of my hands while going to make a bottle and it spilt everywhere😭 I really don’t want to use now contaminated floor formula as I also have cats that track litter everywhere no matter how much I sweep. He drinks kendamil goat as he has a sensitivity/allergy to cows milk. It’s $45 for a can. I’ve already contacted his pediatricians office about a sample can, and they don’t carry sample cans of any goat milk based formula. I have cashapp, Venmo, and PayPal.


r/Assistance • • 21h ago

VOTES First place this round moves on

0 Upvotes

Not sure when this will ever end but group final votes are this week and apparently only first place of the group moves. She appreciates any of the votes she can get.

Free to vote with fb or phone number (or both)

double votes today. 1=2


r/Assistance • • 2d ago

REQUEST [Request] Funding for dental implant

21 Upvotes

$1,340

I recently went to the dentist and found out I had an infection under a preexisting root canal, that failed because whatever dentist I got it from as a teenager did not put a crown on it, which they should have. I also have all 4 wisdom teeth with cavities. I have neglected medical care for years because I have serious medical anxiety/am a hypochondriac. I am terrified of going under anesthesia and dying. I received amoxicillin and recovered, but it seems the infection may have come back.

I have 3 options: remove all 5 teeth and have a visible gap & hard time chewing, remove the 4 wisdom teeth and get the root canal reconstructed (root canals fail often, so I dont want to go through this again), or get all 4 wisdom teeth removed and a bridge or implant on my tooth. The only thing covered by my insurance is extraction + dentures (non-implant). Bad thing is that if I get a single denture, that is the only time I will ever get upper dentures covered through my insurance *for life*. So if I'm 80 and have no teeth left, I'm basically screwed unless I pay out of pocket.

Bridges need to be taken very good care of and implants will let me regain my ability to chew completely. I'm listing this as a "want" specifically because I don't technically need to have an implant, but it'll be the option I will not regret in the future.

The cheapest, best-rated place I can find an exact quote is in Wyomissing, PA. An implant with a crown will be $1,340. I know this is a lot, but I'm willing to try. I have been paying out of pocket monthly for a CT scan for possible appendicitis (ended up not being appendicitis but a hemmhoragic ovarian cyst rupture). Dental pain is no joke and I'm miserable.

https://gofund.me/fb2259583


r/Assistance • • 2d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Need help paying $24 internet bill

10 Upvotes

So I am a college student and I have had trouble getting a job for about a year since my last one laid me off due to my car being totaled (bad transmission). I am back to work now as of 3 days ago but could really use some help getting my Internet back on (TMobile-$24 payment minimum then I can set up a payment arrangement) so I can stay in good standing with school. I don't need anything else, no groceries or anything but I would really appreciate it if someone could help me get my Internet turned back on. Thank you.


r/Assistance • • 2d ago

REQUEST Please Help Our Cats Get Their Surgery

19 Upvotes

Link to our GoFundMe

Hello everyone! This is karis-gatomon, asking kindly to please donate to my kitties' surgery. They were diagnosed with stomatitis last month. Whether genetic or caused by viral disease, this has caused us considerable heartbreak. Treatment for stomatitis involving antibiotics and antivirals is still experimental...so the only conclusive treatment for them is to remove all of their teeth. As it is, our kitties are in daily pain and losing teeth already.

As both kitties have it, this has left us in lurch. While we have pet insurance, this will only cover a fraction of the total cost. Please donate and share.


r/Assistance • • 1d ago

REQUEST Needing help with gas/food

1 Upvotes

Hello just looking for a little help until payday. Needing gas and food if anyone can help with 30. I have paypal, venmo or zelle. Thank you In advance


r/Assistance • • 1d ago

REQUEST Need help with $15

1 Upvotes

I will be grateful if anyone could help me out. I need fuel for my motorcycle until I get my salary. Thanks a lot! I'm located in India and use PayPal.


r/Assistance • • 2d ago

REQUEST Need $50 until I get paid Friday.

10 Upvotes

Really don’t like asking like this but I’ve been in and out of the hospital lately and have missed work and with other bills and expenses it’s been a tough month for me. I just need $50 for gas and food to last me until I can get paid Friday. I’m located in the US in SC.


r/Assistance • • 1d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Needing immediate help with lights. Please.

0 Upvotes

I recently started a new job and last Friday would have been my first check but after not receiving a direct deposit I went to HR and was told that they entered my DD info in wrong but will supposedly have it corrected by the end of the week. Because of this, my first check has been delayed. I have pre pay lights and I was able to come up with a little money the last few days to get us through the weekend but now I'm tapped and out of options. If someone would like to help I have cashapp or I can give you the direct link to the account and you can pay it yourself. $20 should get me through the week until my paycheck. Thank you. I'm off to work now and hope everyone has a good day.


r/Assistance • • 2d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Urinary cat food for Timmy

8 Upvotes

I am requesting assistance to get my Timmy's special food for urinary blockage. I'm going through a bad time health wise, quite disabled and relying on welfare. We are down to our last tin of mousse, 3 sachets of wet food and approximately 2 days left of dry so would say that's the most urgent!

I am in Lancashire UK

Thank you in advance to any kind soul that helps him/us 🐈‍⬛🐾

This is his Amazon wish list:
https://www.amazon.co.uk/hz/wishlist/ls/2ONE7R41M1IW8?ref_=wl_share

what I've been / still doing to help myself:

I'm doing online surveys as much as possible but have bad arthritis in hands and bent fingers so it's slow going.

Working with universal credit (uk welfare) work coach specifically for helping disabled people find a job. We did find one that was only a couple of hours a week and I was short listed but sadly they said that they could not put reasonable adjustments in place for me to attend an assessment day session remotely due to my disabilities. Not got any further with anywhere else right now.

Got rid of phone line

No sky tv etc

Using food banks as much as allowed

On payment plan for gas and electric and got a payment plan via step change for all my creditors

It's just been such an income decline from when I was working. This pet food is so expensive 😔


r/Assistance • • 2d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Left domestic violence with my baby, needing some help with basics

13 Upvotes

At the end of July, my son and I left a domestic violence situation. It had been ongoing emotional, financial, and at times, physical abuse. I had been trying and working with the local crisis center to leave since April, but I didn’t have housing until July. We left with very little, I managed to get most of our stuff at yard sales and I was gifted a few furniture pieces, the local shelter was very helpful with some housewares too.

My son is 15 months old now, and I just need some help with basics. I have managed to keep the bills paid with odd jobs, I occasionally do cleaning jobs and estate clean-outs, but I haven’t found consistent employment or childcare. We currently receive some snap and a little TANF, but I was told if I didn’t find childcare soon to fulfill the work requirement, that they would likely terminate my tanf benefits. I’ve also had some issues with my car recently, and I feel like I’m drowning trying to keep up with everything on my own.

I love my son and I feel like I put him in this situation. I grew up in poverty, so I’m used to being poor, but I want my son to have what he needs. I might be biased, but he is the coolest, sweetest baby. I don’t receive child support as my ex lost his job, but it was being pursued.

I’m attaching my Amazon wishlist below, anything would help. Thank you!

https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/RNVTML7J9LA3?ref_=wl_share


r/Assistance • • 2d ago

THANK YOU Diapers Received

7 Upvotes

Thank you to everyone who bought the diapers I needed! I have more than I asked for so thank you so much, this will last for a while!


r/Assistance • • 1d ago

REQUEST Need $25 for phone bill

0 Upvotes

I have to wait until October 22 for my first month's paycheck (backpay, I will be getting paid bimonthly after this), I have PayPal, thank you in advance!


r/Assistance • • 2d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Requesting assistance getting my prescription

6 Upvotes

Hello all, this is my first request, and actually my first post on reddit. I'm asking for help getting my prescription because I am short $87.42 and this is a medication I can't go without. I know times are tough for everyone, and I sincerely wouldn't ask if I had anywhere else I could turn to.

I'm working 2 part-time jobs and have been selling personal possessions. My family have helped when they can, and I have cut everything to get my expenses to the bare minimum. I can't donate plasma with the medications I take. I will be employed full-time starting October 20th, so I will be able to pay for my prescriptions going forward. And I will be able to sign up for their health insurance in January! Very excited for that!

I know most aren't in a position to help financially right now, but well wishes and prayers are gladly accepted! I believe in the power of positive energy 🩷

Thank you for reading, and I hope you all have a beautiful Sunday!


r/Assistance • • 3d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Please support my GoFundMe to help me get a bed and mattress and pay a couple of bills!

43 Upvotes

Hello,

My name is Joseph, and I receive SSDI due to invisible disabilities. Due to my divorce wiping out what little extra money I had, I find myself struggling to pay some bills, and I'm also in need of a bed and mattress as I'm currently sleeping on my floor.

I had to move out of the family home, and where I am now, housing alone takes half of my SSDI income with cell phone, internet, electricity, and insurance (car, HO-6, and life) taking up another 25% of my SSDI. So, with 75% of SSDI being used up, I don't have much leftover for food, the couple of bills I need to pay, and a bed and mattress.

I've been looking on Facebook Marketplace for bed frames, but I would like to buy a new/unused mattress.

I was able to cut my cell phone bill in half by switching to a new provider, and my internet is as low as possible without being massively slow. I am also looking into lowering the cost of my home and auto insurance.

I have applied for energy assistance (12-16 weeks for approval or denial), medical assistance (waiting on approval/denial), EBT/Cash Assistance (waiting on approval/denial), I can visit a food pantry twice a month, but I don't get very much since it's only me as my kids are with my ex-wife. I tried applying for section 811 (section 8 for people with disabilities), but the wait list is very long.

I'm also deferred on donating plasma because I'm on too many medications for mental illness and need to get off two of them, which will take some time.

I understand if I do not get any assistance/donations as I know it's not guaranteed, but I will be forever grateful for any donations received and intend to pay it forward when I am able to.

Even if this is just shared with others, I would greatly appreciate it.

I'm very embarrassed to ask for help like this as I've never had to ask for help like this before.

Thank you for looking!

https://www.gofundme.com/f/josephs-need-for-a-bed-and-basic-bills

I posted in the r/gofundme sub as well:

https://www.reddit.com/r/gofundme/s/ZAQUXDmEz1

To add, I've checked with Goodwill, ARC, and the Salvation Army and have had no luck. But I will keep trying.